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staysharp 08-08-2009 07:35 PM

UPCI Does Have Counseling Hotline
 
For anyone who is interested, the UPCI does have an anonymous hotline for anyone to call who care to seek for help. My brother is a licensed counselor with a Master's degree in Christian counseling and is on the panel.

rgcraig 08-08-2009 07:50 PM

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Thanks for that information sharp!

Irreligious 08-08-2009 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by staysharp (Post 785283)
For anyone who is interested, the UPCI does have an anonymous hotline for anyone to call who care to seek for help. My brother is a licensed counselor with a Master's degree in Christian counseling and is on the panel.


Wow....I'm not in the UPC fan club, but I must applaud on that one. Way to go, that's cool. Is it publicized? How do people find out about it? Can you publish the number? I just hope it's not "you need to pray through" kind of advice, but that's really cool.

pelathais 08-09-2009 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Irreligious (Post 785293)
Wow....I'm not in the UPC fan club, but I must applaud on that one. Way to go, that's cool. Is it publicized? How do people find out about it? Can you publish the number? I just hope it's not "you need to pray through" kind of advice, but that's really cool.

Yeah, I don't believe him either. He's making that up.

But seriously, I started to try and find something and got this - don't know if it's still up, or what... http://www.addictionsearch.com/treat...upc_15231.html

Addiction Search - Apostolic Life UPC

If you have a resource that is not listed, you can Submit a Listing.


http://www.addictionsearch.com/images/spacer.gif
800-559-9503 - Addiction Helpline
Below is the listing for Apostolic Life UPC, a business in the Rehabilitation Centers category.
Address:4070 Old Cottondale Road
City:Marianna
State:FL
Zip:32448
Phone: (850)482-8720
Fax:unknown
County:Jackson
Website:Is this your listing? You can add a link to your website here.
Email:unknown

**** The 800 number does not appear to be for the Apostolic Life program. And the "Residential Inpatient" and etc. descriptions appear to describe the types of things you can find generally on the web site and are not intended to describe this particular listing.

pelathais 08-09-2009 08:54 AM

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New Life Church (UPC) in Austin, Texas, has a program outlined here: http://www.newlifeupc.org/help-for-a...drug-addiction

I forget who the pastor there is.

Pastor Keith 08-09-2009 09:15 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by staysharp (Post 785283)
For anyone who is interested, the UPCI does have an anonymous hotline for anyone to call who care to seek for help. My brother is a licensed counselor with a Master's degree in Christian counseling and is on the panel.


The UPCI has something set up like Points of Refuge, counselors or those with like skills that any Lic. Minister can contact. The problem is that the UPCI is a small pond and most problems will become public knowledge.

As a Lic. Counselor I have a mandate and can be legal jeopardy if I disclose information given to me, I am doubtful if those in that ministry are bound by the same ethics and laws. But I think it to be a good step forward.

Dora 08-09-2009 10:05 AM

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So their "hotline" is like a gossip line, too?

pelathais 08-09-2009 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Dora (Post 785410)
So their "hotline" is like a gossip line, too?

With that in mind, now I'd like that number... I could be a new and a better Thad!

Carpenter 08-09-2009 11:20 AM

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There is a cultural stigma in the UPC for anyone to really admit weakness and unfortunately and especially to another fellow minister.

Think about it, we all have the power of the Holy Ghost, it is part of our nature, the power of the Holy Ghost to overcome sin and all ungodliness...one of which is has been perceived depression (of the devil and not a clinical issue), weaknesses, and the like.

Unless the UPC can begin to break down that small corner of their entire foundation, I am not sure what good this will do minister to minster or even saint to saint.

This is one reason why I cannot stand men's breakfast prayer retreat meetings, they have good times of prayer, but rarely if ever have we the courage to talk about real issues or to talk about problems that plague us...it is all about the toys, the cars, the golf, the fishing, the this the that...God forbid we admit weakness...we always have to be on our game, we are the men, the leaders, the hunters...

mizpeh 08-09-2009 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Carpenter (Post 785435)
There is a cultural stigma in the UPC for anyone to really admit weakness and unfortunately and especially to another fellow minister.

Think about it, we all have the power of the Holy Ghost, it is part of our nature, the power of the Holy Ghost to overcome sin and all ungodliness...one of which is has been perceived depression (of the devil and not a clinical issue), weaknesses, and the like.

Unless the UPC can begin to break down that small corner of their entire foundation, I am not sure what good this will do minister to minster or even saint to saint.

This is one reason why I cannot stand men's breakfast prayer retreat meetings, they have good times of prayer, but rarely if ever have we the courage to talk about real issues or to talk about problems that plague us...it is all about the toys, the cars, the golf, the fishing, the this the that...God forbid we admit weakness...we always have to be on our game, we are the men, the leaders, the hunters...

Maybe it takes one to have the courage to put themselves out there and be the first to admit weakness and ask for prayer others will be emboldened to confess their faults and seek the help of their brothers in the Lord. Afterall we all have the same goal in sight...eternal life with Christ. None of us wants to see anyone perish especially those who are closest to us.

staysharp 08-09-2009 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Keith (Post 785402)
The UPCI has something set up like Points of Refuge, counselors or those with like skills that any Lic. Minister can contact. The problem is that the UPCI is a small pond and most problems will become public knowledge.

As a Lic. Counselor I have a mandate and can be legal jeopardy if I disclose information given to me, I am doubtful if those in that ministry are bound by the same ethics and laws. But I think it to be a good step forward.

Keith, this is the program I was talking about. My brother is on the panel. He said those who need help do not call much. I don't know if its the stigma attached or they really don't trust the anonymity? It is a great leap forward and I applaud their efforts, however this prideful atmosphere works against those who are hurting. When u are told to just pray threw and a lot of pastors would even discourage counseling, you have a culture of fear.

pelathais 08-09-2009 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by staysharp (Post 785549)
Keith, this is the program I was talking about. My brother is on the panel. He said those who need help do not call much. I don't know if its the stigma attached or they really don't trust the anonymity? It is a great leap forward and I applaud their efforts, however this prideful atmosphere works against those who are hurting. When u are told to just pray threw and a lot of pastors would even discourage counseling, you have a culture of fear.

Is this intended for the clergy only - it wasn't clear in the original post. It sounded to me like it was some kind of nationwide A.C.T.S. outreach.

staysharp 08-09-2009 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 785553)
Is this intended for the clergy only - it wasn't clear in the original post. It sounded to me like it was some kind of nationwide A.C.T.S. outreach.

Not sure, didn't ask. I'm no longer in the UPC loop, but the way it was described to me, it is open to anyone who needs or seeks counseling. Everything is done anonymously and r assigned to a specific counselor.

Praxeas 08-09-2009 05:43 PM

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There are a growing number in the UPC with degrees in psychology or some sort of counseling. I think the atmosphere is changing but probably not fast enough

staysharp 08-09-2009 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 785566)
There are a growing number in the UPC with degrees in psychology or some sort of counseling. I think the atmosphere is changing but probably not fast enough

I agree, however the core doctrine remains stronger than ever. I really don't understand how these educated people can rationalize and reconcile such inconsistencies. In my mind, they would just have to "not care" or seek to "disconnect" from the reality of what they know to be true. I have friends who are very educated and believe in the Holy Hair doctrine? go figure. I don't understand.


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