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MissBrattified 10-26-2009 06:55 PM

Biblical Support for Buns & Curls
 
Doesn't that sound like an exercise video? LOL!!!!!

Isa 3:24 And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.


"hair" - miqsheh - - ...in the sense of knotting up round and hard; something turned (rounded), that is, a curl (of tresses): - X well [set] hair.

Sounds like hair in a bun or curled to me. :D :D :D

Well? :coffee2

Pressing-On 10-26-2009 06:57 PM

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So, if it's not round and hard it doesn't count? :icecream

MissBrattified 10-26-2009 07:02 PM

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I have no clue! LOL!!!! I just thought it was interesting.

Pressing-On 10-26-2009 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822582)
I have no clue! LOL!!!! I just thought it was interesting.

It really is interesting! :thumbsup

I guess everyone can leave the ladies hairdo's alone....oh forget it..... this is AFF! :toofunny

*AQuietPlace* 10-26-2009 07:15 PM

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rdp will come along and say this proves that women must be bald. :p :D

MissBrattified 10-26-2009 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace* (Post 822589)
rdp will come along and say this proves that women must be bald. :p :D

Well, he HAS to say that; otherwise he'll have to support jewelry. :toofunny

RandyWayne 10-26-2009 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822577)
Doesn't that sound like an exercise video? LOL!!!!!

Isa 3:24 And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.


"hair" - miqsheh - - ...in the sense of knotting up round and hard; something turned (rounded), that is, a curl (of tresses): - X well [set] hair.

Sounds like hair in a bun or curled to me. :D :D :D

Well? :coffee2

Are you referring to something like this?

http://www.legendaryhalloween.com/im...stume-hair.jpg

MissBrattified 10-26-2009 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 822594)
Are you referring to something like this?

http://www.legendaryhalloween.com/im...stume-hair.jpg

LOL!!! Absolutely! All the Star Wars fans rejoice--you can now biblically ask your wives to dress up like Princess Leia! :toofunny (Or at least have the hair....)

Scott Hutchinson 10-26-2009 10:37 PM

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Don't ask me about buns and curls as I only get one choice of hairstyle.

MissBrattified 10-26-2009 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 822703)
Don't ask me about buns and curls as I only get one choice of hairstyle.

LOL!!! That keeps things nice and simple.

rgcraig 10-27-2009 07:08 AM

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So no perfume or girdles either?

rgcraig 10-27-2009 07:11 AM

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Well, The Message puts it out there boldly:

24Instead of wearing seductive scents,
these women are going to smell like rotting cabbages;
Instead of modeling flowing gowns,
they'll be sporting rags;
Instead of their stylish hairdos,
scruffy heads;
Instead of beauty marks,
scabs and scars.

crakjak 10-27-2009 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822778)
Well, The Message puts it out there boldly:

24Instead of wearing seductive scents,
these women are going to smell like rotting cabbages;
Instead of modeling flowing gowns,
they'll be sporting rags;
Instead of their stylish hairdos,
scruffy heads;
Instead of beauty marks,
scabs and scars.

DB used this very scripture to support that God truly is concerned with ladies hair styles. By the same token, seems you ladies better get rid of that perfume and deodorant and go talk to the product manager at your local grocery for the week old cabbages???:ursofunny:ursofunny

Same principle as the "putting on of apparel", just go nekid and you won't have to worry about...."I speak as a fool"....never mind!!

MissBrattified 10-27-2009 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by crakjak (Post 822814)
DB used this very scripture to support that God truly is concerned with ladies hair styles. By the same token, seems you ladies better get rid of that perfume and deodorant and go talk to the product manager at your local grocery for the week old cabbages???:ursofunny:ursofunny

I know...that's why I looked it up. :D But by his logic, that means you SHOULD wear perfume and deodorant--not get rid of it.

I do agree that the scripture illustrates that "baldness" on a woman is a shame to her. That's in agreement with I Corinthians 11, and other scriptures. I just can't find ANYwhere in the Bible where long or "well-set" hair on a woman = uncut.

I thought this was interesting because many people criticize those with long hair for putting it up. This definition seems to imply that arrangement of the well set hair can be up on the head just as well as down.

Quote:

Same principle as the "putting on of apparel", just go nekid and you won't have to worry about...."I speak as a fool"....never mind!!
:toofunny

rgcraig 10-27-2009 09:13 AM

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How do you wear a beauty mark?

crakjak 10-27-2009 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822848)
I know...that's why I looked it up. :D But by his logic, that means you SHOULD wear perfume and deodorant--not get rid of it.

I do agree that the scripture illustrates that "baldness" on a woman is a shame to her. That's in agreement with I Corinthians 11, and other scriptures. I just can't find ANYwhere in the Bible where long or "well-set" hair on a woman = uncut.

I thought this was interesting because many people criticize those with long hair for putting it up. This definition seems to imply that arrangement of the well set hair can be up on the head just as well as down.



:toofunny

My sister and now my sister in law have lost their hair due to chemo, while they sure would rather have their hair, their "baldness" was and is not a shame to them. But I do agree that a lady looks much better and is much more lady like with hair of some length. How long should be left to the individual and their relationship with the Lord, and the should not be treated with suspicion, or as a second class Christian. Jesus did not do that, Jesus did not denigrate the local customs, but neither did he mistreat those in the culture.

*AQuietPlace* 10-27-2009 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822848)
I do agree that the scripture illustrates that "baldness" on a woman is a shame to her. That's in agreement with I Corinthians 11, and other scriptures.

I think that the 'shame' that is indicated is not so much a "shame, shame on you!!" kind of shame.... more of a 'I'm so embarrassed' kind of shame.

Except in situations where the head is shaved as a result of infidelity, etc. And even that is done to deliberately embarrass them.


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I thought this was interesting because many people criticize those with long hair for putting it up. This definition seems to imply that arrangement of the well set hair can be up on the head just as well as down.
Most people who comment on the women 'wearing their hair up' are doing so because it seems to be contradictory to the belief that the hair is a 'covering'. If it's pinned up, it's not really covering anything. Definitely covering no more than a man's hair does.

Timmy 10-27-2009 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822850)
How do you wear a beauty mark?

Like this?

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_dnu7DoNodK...lyn+monroe.jpg

(If by "How do you" you mean "How does one"! :lol)

rgcraig 10-27-2009 09:44 AM

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Reading that scripture in context it seems to me that God isn't pleased at all with the haughtiness of the dress and coffered hair ....so, how can that scripture be used to support wearing your hair up?

rgcraig 10-27-2009 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 822869)
Like this?

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_dnu7DoNodK...lyn+monroe.jpg

(If by "How do you" you mean "How does one"! :lol)

Well, I do understand that, but I don't have a beauty mark, so does that mean I should paint one on? :ursofunny

Timmy 10-27-2009 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822874)
Well, I do understand that, but I don't have a beauty mark, so does that mean I should paint one on? :ursofunny

Or try a magic marker! Hey, if hair can be magic, why not a beauty mark? ;)

ILG 10-27-2009 09:49 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822577)
Doesn't that sound like an exercise video? LOL!!!!!

Isa 3:24 And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.


"hair" - miqsheh - - ...in the sense of knotting up round and hard; something turned (rounded), that is, a curl (of tresses): - X well [set] hair.

Sounds like hair in a bun or curled to me. :D :D :D

Well? :coffee2

That's talking about WELL SET HAIR, and not just hair, which therefore means NO well set hair, ladies!!:girlfriend

MissBrattified 10-27-2009 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822873)
Reading that scripture in context it seems to me that God isn't pleased at all with the haughtiness of the dress and coffered hair ....so, how can that scripture be used to support wearing your hair up?

You really think that? That the gist of the scripture is that God opposes:

A sweet smell
girdles
well set hair
chains
bracelets
rings
earrings
nose jewels
changeable suits of apparel
mantles
wimples
crisping pins
glasses
fine linen (remember the virtuous woman made this to sell, and wore coverings of tapestry, silk & purple)
hoods
vails
headbands
bonnets
ornaments of the legs
tablets


????

In verses 15 and 16, it clearly states what God is angry about, and in 17-26, it tells how He plans to punish them.

"What mean ye that ye beat my people to pieces, and grind the faces of the poor? saith the Lord GOD of hosts. Moreover the Lord saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they go, and making a tinkling with their feet: Therefore the Lord will....

Also, look at what God says He has done for Jerusalem:

Eze 16:6 And when I passed by thee, and saw thee polluted in thine own blood, I said unto thee when thou wast in thy blood, Live; yea, I said unto thee when thou wast in thy blood, Live.
Eze 16:7 I have caused thee to multiply as the bud of the field, and thou hast increased and waxen great, and thou art come to excellent ornaments: thy breasts are fashioned, and thine hair is grown, whereas thou wast naked and bare.
Eze 16:8 Now when I passed by thee, and looked upon thee, behold, thy time was the time of love; and I spread my skirt over thee, and covered thy nakedness: yea, I sware unto thee, and entered into a covenant with thee, saith the Lord GOD, and thou becamest mine.

*Ahem* Let me just say, that the definition of "fashioned" in verse 7 is basically permission for women to wear nice, push-up bras. :D

I'll let you look up the definition of "fashioned"...LOL.

"excellent" & "ornaments" both have the same meaning -

in the sense of trappings; finery; generally an outfit; specifically a headstall: - X excellent, mouth, ornament.


Eze 16:10 I clothed thee also with broidered work, and shod thee with badgers' skin, and I girded thee about with fine linen, and I covered thee with silk.
Eze 16:11 I decked thee also with ornaments, and I put bracelets upon thy hands, and a chain on thy neck.
Eze 16:12 And I put a jewel on thy forehead, and earrings in thine ears, and a beautiful crown upon thine head.
Eze 16:13 Thus wast thou decked with gold and silver; and thy raiment was of fine linen, and silk, and broidered work; thou didst eat fine flour, and honey, and oil: and thou wast exceeding beautiful, and thou didst prosper into a kingdom.
Eze 16:14 And thy renown went forth among the heathen for thy beauty: for it was perfect through my comeliness, which I had put upon thee, saith the Lord GOD.

God isn't against these things; but He took away what He had given as punishment.

Also, this is a common theme in what displeases God:

Eze 16:49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
Eze 16:50 And they were haughty, and committed abomination before me: therefore I took them away as I saw good.

rgcraig 10-27-2009 10:13 AM

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I understand what you are saying, but because they were haughty about how they looked was what made him angry.

Speaking from my past......I can see that as supporting some that walk around so proud of how they "look" that God is angry with them.

I don't think the scripture should ever be used to support wearing your hair up. I could see it being used to say if you wear these things and are haughty about it - - you might get a bit on punishment from God.

If we are going to make the scripture fit a meaning - that one is as good as the other.

MissBrattified 10-27-2009 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822903)
I understand what you are saying, but because they were haughty about how they looked was what made him angry.

Speaking from my past......I can see that as supporting some that walk around so proud of how they "look" that God is angry with them.

I don't think the scripture should ever be used to support wearing your hair up. I could see it being used to say if you wear these things and are haughty about it - - you might get a bit on punishment from God.

If we are going to make the scripture fit a meaning - that one is as good as the other.

Sure, it was their pride and haughtiness that caused the problem. Not the specific items they wore. To be consistent, if DB is going to use this as support for "well set hair" or to show that baldness is a shame to women, he needs to show support for every other item in those verses as well, which show the contrast between beauty and shame.

I'm not really trying to use scripture to "support" wearing your hair up--I just thought the definition was surprising. :) I posted it more in fun than anything else.

Personally, I think that wearing your hair down is the best fit for I Corinthians, if your hair is supposed to be like a "mantle" thrown about your shoulders, or I think there's another spot where the meaning is "long tresses of hair."

The whole passage contrasts beauty with shame, and God takes away the things that made them beautiful, things He had given them, which in turn brings them shame. (Which would be an endorsement of their use, IMO--since these things were given to them by God, even allegorically speaking).

I know you don't believe scripture teaches that jewelry, nice hair and nice clothing are wrong, Renda, so I'm not sure I understand your comments entirely.

rgcraig 10-27-2009 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822913)
Sure, it was their pride and haughtiness that caused the problem. Not the specific items they wore. To be consistent, if DB is going to use this as support for "well set hair" or to show that baldness is a shame to women, he needs to show support for every other item in those verses as well, which show the contrast between beauty and shame.

I'm not really trying to use scripture to "support" wearing your hair up--I just thought the definition was surprising. :) I posted it more in fun than anything else.

Personally, I think that wearing your hair down is the best fit for I Corinthians, if your hair is supposed to be like a "mantle" thrown about your shoulders, or I think there's another spot where the meaning is "long tresses of hair."

The whole passage contrasts beauty with shame, and God takes away the things that made them beautiful, things He had given them, which in turn brings them shame. (Which would be an endorsement of their use, IMO--since these things were given to them by God, even allegorically speaking).

I know you don't believe scripture teaches that jewelry, nice hair and nice clothing are wrong, Renda, so I'm not sure I understand your comments entirely.

I'm trying to say exactly what you just said here.......it's inconsistent to pick and choose out of that scripture (what DB has done). And I agree with everything you just said in this post.

It's the attitude - - if I cut my hair and wear earrings and act all haughty and proud that I do it - that's bad. If in my past, when I wore my hair up would have walked around all proud of my "look" - that's bad.

Yes - I agree that scripture DOES support all that those scriptures state - God loves beauty.....he created it. He spends too much time talking about preparing ourselves and wearing those push up bras for us to doubt how he feels about it.

I'm sorry I've confused you - just can't get it out right.

MissBrattified 10-27-2009 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822921)
I'm trying to say exactly what you just said here.......it's inconsistent to pick and choose out of that scripture (what DB has done). And I agree with everything you just said in this post.

It's the attitude - - if I cut my hair and wear earrings and act all haughty and proud that I do it - that's bad. If in my past, when I wore my hair up would have walked around all proud of my "look" - that's bad.

Yes - I agree that scripture DOES support all that those scriptures state - God loves beauty.....he created it. He spends too much time talking about preparing ourselves and wearing those push up bras for us to doubt how he feels about it.

I'm sorry I've confused you - just can't get it out right.

Okay, thanks. :D It sounded like you were making a stand against jewelry for a second. LOL!!!!!

I think we agree, and I agree that the scripture is lifted from the passage and inconsistently applied to support one doctrine, while the rest is completely ignored in logical opposition to other doctrines.

HeavenlyOne 10-27-2009 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 822876)
Or try a magic marker! Hey, if hair can be magic, why not a beauty mark? ;)

ROFL!!

And if you use the plastic ones you stick on your face, maybe removing it to put on others might cause instant healing to take place!!

rgcraig 10-27-2009 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822926)
Okay, thanks. :D It sounded like you were making a stand against jewelry for a second. LOL!!!!!

I think we agree, and I agree that the scripture is lifted from the passage and inconsistently applied to support one doctrine, while the rest is completely ignored in logical opposition to other doctrines.

Yep.

This is really going to whack out a few. I'm still very modest even though I don't hold to the traditional Pentecostal standards. I wear earrings, but not huge attention getting ones. If I know that I'll be around someone that it might offend, I won't even wear them. It doesn't matter than much to me.

However, I have been around others that LOVE to push it in someone's face that they now wear things they didn't before. They'll put on the largest pair of earrings to make a point or wear the brightest red lipstick.

I think that is wrong.

Does that make more sense?

*AQuietPlace* 10-27-2009 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822921)
Yes - I agree that scripture DOES support all that those scriptures state - God loves beauty.....he created it. He spends too much time talking about preparing ourselves and wearing those push up bras for us to doubt how he feels about it.

:ursofunny

That just cracks me up.

MissBrattified 10-27-2009 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822931)
Yep.

This is really going to whack out a few. I'm still very modest even though I don't hold to the traditional Pentecostal standards. I wear earrings, but not huge attention getting ones. If I know that I'll be around someone that it might offend, I won't even wear them. It doesn't matter than much to me.

However, I have been around others that LOVE to push it in someone's face that they now wear things they didn't before. They'll put on the largest pair of earrings to make a point or wear the brightest red lipstick.

I think that is wrong.

Does that make more sense?

Yes...I can think of someone I know who does that, and it's just plain annoying. I really don't even CARE, but she cares that I notice.

So you're marking the difference between those who wear pretty things, and those who wear pretty things and have an attitude because of it. Got it!

rgcraig 10-27-2009 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace* (Post 822933)
:ursofunny

That just cracks me up.

:ursofunny - just incorporating Miss Bratt's example!

AND....I believe it too.

rgcraig 10-27-2009 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 822934)
Yes...I can think of someone I know who does that, and it's just plain annoying. I really don't even CARE, but she cares that I notice.

So you're marking the difference between those who wear pretty things, and those who wear pretty things and have an attitude because of it. Got it!

Yes. Might not even be the point, but that's where my mind went when I read the whole scripture.

MissBrattified 10-27-2009 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace* (Post 822933)
:ursofunny

That just cracks me up.

I just PMed you something....:D

rgcraig 10-27-2009 10:50 AM

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PO will be sorry she's not participating in this thread! LOL!

HeavenlyOne 10-27-2009 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822931)
Yep.

This is really going to whack out a few. I'm still very modest even though I don't hold to the traditional Pentecostal standards. I wear earrings, but not huge attention getting ones. If I know that I'll be around someone that it might offend, I won't even wear them. It doesn't matter than much to me.

However, I have been around others that LOVE to push it in someone's face that they now wear things they didn't before. They'll put on the largest pair of earrings to make a point or wear the brightest red lipstick.

I think that is wrong.

Does that make more sense?

Of course, pictures don't lie, do they?

http://i142.photobucket.com/albums/r...useketeers.jpg

rgcraig 10-27-2009 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 822968)
Of course, pictures don't lie, do they?

http://i142.photobucket.com/albums/r...useketeers.jpg

:ursofunny:ursofunny LOL! TOOOOOO funny!

HeavenlyOne 10-27-2009 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822970)
:ursofunny:ursofunny LOL! TOOOOOO funny!

I couldn't resist. :D

rgcraig 10-27-2009 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 822977)
I couldn't resist. :D

Hilarious that we all wore white/black!

HeavenlyOne 10-27-2009 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 822984)
Hilarious that we all wore white/black!

And the same basic pattern! LOL! Were we setting a 'standard'? :ursofunny


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