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Praxeas 09-01-2010 12:55 AM

Sex Before Dinner, Does God Approve?
 
What say ye? Does your pastor still preach against sex before dinner? Why are so many falling away and enjoying a little afternoon delight? Is this a sign of the end times?

Sherri 09-01-2010 05:53 AM

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Oh boy..........this forum has degenerated. LOL

allstate1 09-01-2010 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 957799)
What say ye? Does your pastor still preach against sex before dinner? Why are so many falling away and enjoying a little afternoon delight? Is this a sign of the end times?

You may have started this as a joke but I have heard sex in daylight actually preached against!!!!!

iceniez 09-01-2010 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957838)
You may have started this as a joke but I have heard sex in daylight actually preached against!!!!!

Really ?

rgcraig 09-01-2010 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957838)
You may have started this as a joke but I have heard sex in daylight actually preached against!!!!!

LOL - - -now that is bizzare!

Timmy 09-01-2010 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 957842)
LOL - - -now that is bizzare!

Nothing surprises me, anymore.

:toofunny

iceniez 09-01-2010 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 957845)
Nothing surprises me, anymore.

:toofunny

I seriously think there are things some Pastors should not "preach"......... What would be the sin in that ............. seriously . Just plain unlearned.

rgcraig 09-01-2010 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by iceniez (Post 957850)
I seriously think there are things some Pastors should not "preach"......... What would be the sin in that ............. seriously . Just plain unlearned.

Well, he didn't say the preacher said it was a sin - just that it was preached against.

allstate1 09-01-2010 07:49 AM

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Its been a few years ago but I can remeber tha basic point was not fullfilling the lust of the eye. The old men arevisual thing was used. " If a man wants to have sex in the daylight or with the lights on he is doing it in order to see your nakedness and is fulfilling the lust of the eye instaed of out of love"! This was adressed to the married women!

allstate1 09-01-2010 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by iceniez (Post 957850)
I seriously think there are things some Pastors should not "preach"......... What would be the sin in that ............. seriously . Just plain unlearned.

In LA. some preachers still think a red dress is a sin!!!!!

rgcraig 09-01-2010 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957853)
Its been a few years ago but I can remeber tha basic point was not fullfilling the lust of the eye. The old men arevisual thing was used. " If a man wants to have sex in the daylight or with the lights on he is doing it in order to see your nakedness and is fulfilling the lust of the eye instaed of out of love"! This was adressed to the married women!

Sounds like that should have been addressed to the married MEN! Addressing the ladies put the burden on them to turn off the lights!

allstate1 09-01-2010 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 957856)
Sounds like that should have been addressed to the married MEN! Addressing the ladies put the burden on them to turn off the lights!

Have you forgotten in the UPC the burden always is on the women to control the mans eye (the uniform)!!!!

rgcraig 09-01-2010 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957858)
Have you forgotten in the UPC the burden always is on the women to control the mans eye (the uniform)!!!!

Just saying - the way it SHOULD have been presented.

allstate1 09-01-2010 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 957859)
Just saying - the way it SHOULD have been presented.

I agree!!! But you know how us menfolk are we just cant control ourselves so we pass the buck!!

crakjak 09-01-2010 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 957799)
What say ye? Does your pastor still preach against sex before dinner? Why are so many falling away and enjoying a little afternoon delight? Is this a sign of the end times?

Is it a sin for a single man to raise such a question???? :ursofunny

Pro31:28 09-01-2010 08:00 AM

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There goes the Sunday afternoon "nap"....

iceniez 09-01-2010 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957853)
Its been a few years ago but I can remeber tha basic point was not fullfilling the lust of the eye. The old men arevisual thing was used. " If a man wants to have sex in the daylight or with the lights on he is doing it in order to see your nakedness and is fulfilling the lust of the eye instaed of out of love"! This was adressed to the married women!

Unbelievable, and some took it for gospel I would assume.......... [ tic]

rgcraig 09-01-2010 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by iceniez (Post 957864)
Unbelievable, and some took it for gospel I would assume.......... [ tic]

I'm sure they did.

I know there have been pastors to preach only certain positions were acceptable.

TGBTG 09-01-2010 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 957877)
I'm sure they did.

I know there have been pastors to preach only certain positions were acceptable.

How a pastor can read from Genesis to Revelation and come up with that in his message is definitely beyond me...:ursofunny

I guess the sermons would have to be rated PG and PG-13...lol

iceniez 09-01-2010 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 957877)
I'm sure they did.

I know there have been pastors to preach only certain positions were acceptable.

I don't want to know:doh

rgcraig 09-01-2010 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by iceniez (Post 957886)
I don't want to know:doh

If I were to guess "why" I would guess it has to do with submission, but who knows.

It surely doesn't have anything to do with the "mission" field.

iceniez 09-01-2010 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 957887)
If I were to guess "why" I would guess it has to do with submission, but who knows.

It surely doesn't have anything to do with the "mission" field.

Alot of Pastors have never read the Song of Solomon .

Pro31:28 09-01-2010 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 957887)
If I were to guess "why" I would guess it has to do with submission, but who knows.

It surely doesn't have anything to do with the "mission" field.

:ursofunny- These are probably the same ones who can't see SoS as having to with anything but the church as well...

allstate1 09-01-2010 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by TGBTG (Post 957883)
How a pastor can read from Genesis to Revelation and come up with that in his message is definitely beyond me...:ursofunny

I guess the sermons would have to be rated PG and PG-13...lol

I have been in several services where under 21 have been ushered out for an "adult" message!!!

DAII 09-01-2010 08:29 AM

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Dedicated Mind started a thread a few years ago ... saying relations before church service was of the debbil.

See if I can dig it up ... or if it's been sanitized

TGBTG 09-01-2010 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957890)
I have been in several services where under 21 have been ushered out for an "adult" message!!!

Wow...

Sister Alvear 09-01-2010 08:32 AM

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No wonder the world perishes without the saving knowlege of Jesus Christ... so much time is spent preaching such stupid stuff....private life is just that...private...

iceniez 09-01-2010 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 957895)
No wonder the world perishes without the saving knowlege of Jesus Christ... so much time is spent preaching such stupid stuff....private life is just that...private...

AMEN..........

allstate1 09-01-2010 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by DAII (Post 957893)
Dedicated Mind started a thread a few years ago ... saying relations before church service was of the debbil.

See if I can dig it up ... or if it's been sanitized

Athletes are asked to obstain before an event so why shouldnt we obstain? Afterall we havent been to church unless...............

Pro31:28 09-01-2010 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 957895)
No wonder the world perishes without the saving knowlege of Jesus Christ... so much time is spent preaching such stupid stuff....private life is just that...private...

Sister, I agree with you 99% of the time, but I would have to disagree with you on this point. We have a horrible lack of knowledge in the church regarding sex. When my husband and I got married, we were recommended a book (whispered) by a friend by Tim LaHaye called "The Act of Marriage". This was such an incredible help to us, who understood the mechanics of sex, but didn't know enough about each other nor the importance of it to a marriage (particulary after the hormones slow down).

Just a thought

Mr. Smith 09-01-2010 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 957799)
What say ye? Does your pastor still preach against sex before dinner? Why are so many falling away and enjoying a little afternoon delight? Is this a sign of the end times?


The other day, CC1 bemoaned the downfall of the forum and blamed DAII and others who have run off the right-wing whackos. But CC1 is wrong. Anyone wanna know why the forum doesn't pack it's previous punch?

We're talking about afternoon sex. CC1? Run off Prax!:lol

allstate1 09-01-2010 08:39 AM

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All this sex talk is making me hungry!!

rgcraig 09-01-2010 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Smith (Post 957900)
The other day, CC1 bemoaned the downfall of the forum and blamed DAII and others who have run off the right-wing whackos. But CC1 is wrong. Anyone wanna know why the forum doesn't pack it's previous punch?

We're talking about afternoon sex. CC1? Run off Prax!:lol

I believe he started it as a parody of sorts to Charnock's thread.

Mr. Smith 09-01-2010 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957903)
All this sex talk is making me hungry!!


Makes me wanna smoke a cigarette.

iceniez 09-01-2010 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by allstate1 (Post 957903)
All this sex talk is making me hungry!!

It's not dinner time yet.

geekette 09-01-2010 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 957895)
No wonder the world perishes without the saving knowlege of Jesus Christ... so much time is spent preaching such stupid stuff....private life is just that...private...

THIS! THIS! THIS!

When I read the first post in this topic, I burst out laughing. Then I wondered how many posts there'd be before someone popped up with, "I heard this preached...."

allstate1 09-01-2010 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by geekette (Post 957907)
THIS! THIS! THIS!

When I read the first post in this topic, I burst out laughing. Then I wondered how many posts there'd be before someone popped up with, "I heard this preached...."

And is that a problem for you??

seguidordejesus 09-01-2010 08:45 AM

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I take it when I can get it. Whatever "it" is.

allstate1 09-01-2010 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by seguidordejesus (Post 957911)
I take it when I can get it. Whatever "it" is.

Thats a sin!!!! IT should be mutual!! (TIC)

Timmy 09-01-2010 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by TGBTG (Post 957883)
How a pastor can read from Genesis to Revelation and come up with that in his message is definitely beyond me...:ursofunny

I guess the sermons would have to be rated PG and PG-13...lol

Or worse. Did they use visual aids? :heeheehee


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