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citizen 11-17-2010 09:27 AM

Sex In Christian Novels
 
I came across a discussion on whether or not this trend of having blatant sexual scenes while preaching the gospel message of Jesus in a book was OK.

-One argument against it was it justifies someone to lust before God, while telling them Jesus loves them.
-One argument for it was - If its in wedlock, God made sex, then why not.

This seems so out of space - where does it all end?

What are your thoughts?

Socialite 11-17-2010 09:30 AM

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How graphic we talking?

rgcraig 11-17-2010 09:31 AM

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:coffee2

ILG 11-17-2010 09:45 AM

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Well, it doesn't seem right to me, but the Song of Solomon is in the Bible.:annoymusic

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by citizen (Post 989160)
I came across a discussion on whether or not this trend of having blatant sexual scenes while preaching the gospel message of Jesus in a book was OK.

-One argument against it was it justifies someone to lust before God, while telling them Jesus loves them.
-One argument for it was - If its in wedlock, God made sex, then why not.

This seems so out of space - where does it all end?

What are your thoughts?

Relationships will be hard to avoid when writing a novel. That's a given.

However, my thoughts are that subtle works very well for me. It is always my preference - "He shut the door with his foot." I can go a lot of places with that and don't want someone else to tell me where I need to go with it. I want to visualize it my way.

I like to relax with historical fiction, such as, books by Bodie and Brock Thoene. I don't generally read a pure romance novel. I'd like to have some value after I close the book.

You can learn some things (historical, geographical) from Louis L'Amour. He has a bit of sexual innuendo which is rather harmless, IMO.

Anything really suggestive or graphic - I wouldn't be interested.

MissBrattified 11-17-2010 10:32 AM

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I've never seen a Christian novel that had an explicit sex scene. Do you have an example of a particular title?

MissBrattified 11-17-2010 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by ILG (Post 989171)
Well, it doesn't seem right to me, but the Song of Solomon is in the Bible.:annoymusic

LOL!!!! Yep...and it's pretty graphic. :D

I was reading through Ezekiel 16 this morning so I could discuss it on another thread, and I thought it was pretty explicit, too.

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 989192)
I've never seen a Christian novel that had an explicit sex scene. Do you have an example of a particular title?

I think I am remembering that Lori Wick pushed it farther in her later novels. I can't remember the particular book for a reference, but I think she started out with a trilogy that seemed good and then she took a nose dive. It's been so long ago, that is the only thing about her I remember.

I'm not familiar with Harlequin romance. Are they supposed to be written for a Christian audience? I think I tried to read one just to see what they were about and was either turned off that they were more explicit or they were just sappy. LOL!

Timmy 11-17-2010 11:02 AM

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Related question:

Do you distinguish between a "Christian novel" and a "novel written by a writer who is a Christian"? Does everything a Christian writer writes have to be put in that section of the bookstore?

Timmy 11-17-2010 11:04 AM

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Is it wrong to depict sin in a novel? Any sin, or just sexual sin?

Is it wrong to read depictions of sin in a book (any book)? Any sin?

MissBrattified 11-17-2010 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 989199)
I think I am remembering that Lori Wick pushed it farther in her later novels. I can't remember the particular book for a reference, but I think she started out with a trilogy that seemed good and then she took a nose dive. It's been so long ago, that is the only thing about her I remember.

I'm not familiar with Harlequin romance. Are they supposed to be written for a Christian audience? I think I tried to read one just to see what they were about and was either turned off that they were more explicit or they were just sappy. LOL!

No way. Harlequins are definitely not Christian in any way, nor are they intended to be.

I've never read anything by Lori Wick. Seems like I tried one time, and the story was kind of lame so I didn't finish it.

I love everything by Bodie/Brock Thoene and Gilbert Morris, and the occasional Frank Peretti. That's pretty much the extent of my *Christian fiction* reading. My favorite secular romance author is Barbara Cartland, but I haven't had the time to sit down with a good novel in several years.

When I do have time to read, it's usually non-fiction.

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 989201)
Related question:

Do you distinguish between a "Christian novel" and a "novel written by a writer who is a Christian"? Does everything a Christian writer writes have to be put in that section of the bookstore?

I've read all of Phyllis Whitney's books. She was a decent writer, but wouldn't be in the Christian section. They are more haunting, mystery novels. My grandmother loaned me, Window on the Square, when I was in High School and I continued reading her works. She doesn't have explicit sexual things, and from what I remember, I could count on her having at least one curse word. lol

Cindy 11-17-2010 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 989201)
Related question:

Do you distinguish between a "Christian novel" and a "novel written by a writer who is a Christian"? Does everything a Christian writer writes have to be put in that section of the bookstore?

:thumbsup

Or a "Christian romance novel."

Cindy 11-17-2010 11:10 AM

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Or is the real question, should Christians read explicit novels?

MissBrattified 11-17-2010 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 989202)
Is it wrong to depict sin in a novel? Any sin, or just sexual sin?

Is it wrong to read depictions of sin in a book (any book)? Any sin?

I don't know that it's definitely wrong to depict or read about sin in a book. I just don't want to fill my head with explicit sexual images, and if I read an explicit sexual scene, as I have before, it paints a very clear picture in my head. IMO, it's equivalent to pornography.

If I read a newspaper article about, say, a senator who committed adultery, I don't have step by step, detailed visualizations of that sexual experience. However, explicit romance novels paint a picture that is step by step and describes every moment and physical aspect in great detail. So reading *about* a sin is not the same as reading about it in explicit detail.

MissBrattified 11-17-2010 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 989201)
Related question:

Do you distinguish between a "Christian novel" and a "novel written by a writer who is a Christian"? Does everything a Christian writer writes have to be put in that section of the bookstore?

I consider something to be a Christian novel if it was written around Christian values.

Obviously if an author who is a Christian writes a novel that has no Christian viewpoint, it doesn't have to be in the "Christian" section of a bookstore. However, if the content reflects the author's values and contains nothing inappropriate, it could very well end up there.

Timmy 11-17-2010 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 989210)
I consider something to be a Christian novel if it was written around Christian values.

Obviously if an author who is a Christian writes a novel that has no Christian viewpoint, it doesn't have to be in the "Christian" section of a bookstore. However, if the content reflects the author's values and contains nothing inappropriate, it could very well end up there.

Makes sense.

So, does the question of the thread apply also to non-Christian novels written by Christians?

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 989203)
No way. Harlequins are definitely not Christian in any way, nor or they intended to be.

I've never read anything by Lori Wick. Seems like I tried one time, and the story was kind of lame so I didn't finish it.

I love everything by Bodie/Brock Thoene and Gilbert Morris, and the occasional Frank Peretti. That's pretty much the extent of my *Christian fiction* reading. My favorite secular romance author is Barbara Cartland, but I haven't had the time to sit down with a good novel in several years.

When I do have time to read, it's usually non-fiction.

Well, no wonder I didn't like Harlequin. LOL!

I have liked some of Gilbert Morris and Frank Peretti, but not all. I liked House, The Oath, and Monster, but I didn't like, This Present Darkness.

I really like Terri Blackstock and Dee Henderson. I'm trying to remember the book titles of this hilarious author that I borrowed from my daughter. I can't remember her name! lol

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 11:36 AM

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I remember the hilarious author - Kristin Billerbeck! I love her books.

http://kristinbillerbeck.com/books.html

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 989206)
Or is the real question, should Christians read explicit novels?

I think a good guideline would be Phil. 4:8 "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."

coadie 11-17-2010 11:52 AM

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I saw several books and read a few from Janette Oke a canadian author. They seemed to have a little adventure and no immodesty.

RandyWayne 11-17-2010 12:16 PM

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I would think the only difference between a love scene in a non-christian book versus a christian one is that the couple making made passionate love in the christian volume are worshiping and talking in tongues while engaged in their extra-curricular activity.

Oh yes, and the christian novel is usually printed on much cheaper paper and in soft cover only.

Praxeas 11-17-2010 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by citizen (Post 989160)
I came across a discussion on whether or not this trend of having blatant sexual scenes while preaching the gospel message of Jesus in a book was OK.

-One argument against it was it justifies someone to lust before God, while telling them Jesus loves them.
-One argument for it was - If its in wedlock, God made sex, then why not.

This seems so out of space - where does it all end?

What are your thoughts?

"think on these things"...man is a creature that THINKS. They have imaginations etc etc. Personally speaking from the standpoint of being single, yeah if Im subject to "blatant sexual scenes", it can mess with my brain where I want to think on spiritual things not carnal things. If it's something for married people and it's a lesson, not merely gratuitous sex scenes, that's fine I guess,

citizen 11-17-2010 12:18 PM

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Any writings that would draw a person to 'lust' would be wrong, as I see it.
The bible says if a man lusts in his heart about a woman - he has already committed adultery.

RandyWayne 11-17-2010 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 989249)
"think on these things"...man is a creature that THINKS. They have imaginations etc etc. Personally speaking from the standpoint of being single, yeah if Im subject to "blatant sexual scenes", it can mess with my brain where I want to think on spiritual things not carnal things. If it's something for married people and it's a lesson, not merely gratuitous sex scenes, that's fine I guess,

Is that why this game (OK, usually softball) so popular among church youth groups and singles?

http://www.ridgenet.org/crosscurric/.../baseball2.jpg

rgcraig 11-17-2010 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 989249)
"think on these things"...man is a creature that THINKS. They have imaginations etc etc. Personally speaking from the standpoint of being single, yeah if Im subject to "blatant sexual scenes", it can mess with my brain where I want to think on spiritual things not carnal things. If it's something for married people and it's a lesson, not merely gratuitous sex scenes, that's fine I guess,

Yep, done gone messed up your brain - - cause you got that backwards!

Timmy 11-17-2010 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 989203)
. . .

I love everything by Bodie/Brock Thoene and Gilbert Morris, and the occasional Frank Peretti. That's pretty much the extent of my *Christian fiction* reading. . . .

What, don't you read the Bible anymore? :blink

(Don't blame me. I was double dog dared to post this. I had no choice. :heeheehee)

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 989279)
Yep, done gone messed up your brain - - cause you got that backwards!

Ain't that the truth!!! :toofunny Hilarious!!! :toofunny

Love your avatar!!! :thumbsup

Cindy 11-17-2010 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 989284)
What, don't you read the Bible anymore? :blink

(Don't blame me. I was double dog dared to post this. I had no choice. :heeheehee)

:girlnails

Timmy 11-17-2010 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 989301)
:girlnails

Good, that'll give me time to :runhills

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 989301)
:girlnails

Wrong choice!

It's this one! :smack

:thumbsup

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 989247)
I would think the only difference between a love scene in a non-christian book versus a christian one is that the couple making made passionate love in the christian volume are worshiping and talking in tongues while engaged in their extra-curricular activity.

Oh yes, and the christian novel is usually printed on much cheaper paper and in soft cover only.

Okay, that was seriously stoopid! :D

rgcraig 11-17-2010 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 989300)
Ain't that the truth!!! :toofunny Hilarious!!! :toofunny

Love your avatar!!! :thumbsup

Had to change it for you and ILG since you were so offended.

Socialite 11-17-2010 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 989206)
Or is the real question, should Christians read explicit novels?

What is an "explicit novel" though?

Uncle Tom's Cabin? Catcher in the Rye?

rgcraig 11-17-2010 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 989305)
Okay, that was seriously stoopid! :D

His comment was from another discussion last week where someone mentioned "worshipping" while they were having sex.

Cindy 11-17-2010 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 989303)
Wrong choice!

It's this one! :smack

:thumbsup

I was gonna do :bubble

But, that seems kind of like a boy thing.

I'm saving my :smack for others.:toofunny

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 989310)
I was gonna do :bubble

But, that seems kind of like a boy thing.

I'm saving my :smack for others.:toofunny

You don't have to save it! You can use it over and over and over!!! It's free! :toofunny

Cindy 11-17-2010 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 989306)
Had to change it for you and ILG since you were so offended.

It was the pose I think. :)

Pressing-On 11-17-2010 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 989309)
His comment was from another discussion last week where someone mentioned "worshipping" while they were having sex.

Oh! LOL!

Are you having Thanksgiving at your house this year?

Cindy 11-17-2010 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 989312)
You don't have to save it! You can use it over and over and over!!! It's free! :toofunny

I'm just weak today.......:toofunny


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