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Praxeas 12-15-2010 09:15 PM

Did 1st century christian women "stand out"?
 
Did first century christian women standout like what many preachers say todays pentecostal ladies should today?

James Griffin 12-15-2010 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 1001285)
Did first century christian women standout like what many preachers say todays pentecostal ladies should today?

Sure did, their veils were a lot higher from putting their hair up under it.

RandyWayne 12-15-2010 09:29 PM

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The mighty poof was even mightier in the days of yore.

Sam 12-15-2010 09:59 PM

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don't know if the Christian ladies were outstanding
but
I did hear of a first century scarecrow who was out standing in his field.
:jolly

Praxeas 12-15-2010 11:50 PM

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Here is why I ask. The thought struck me when hearing this that early churches were "underground" much like they were in Russia and are in China. It would not be in their best interest to stand out so that everyone knew who the Christians were. In fact they had that secret fish sign in later centuries to identify Christians.

*AQuietPlace* 12-16-2010 05:29 AM

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Originally Posted by James Griffin (Post 1001288)
Sure did, their veils were a lot higher from putting their hair up under it.

:toofunny

*AQuietPlace* 12-16-2010 05:30 AM

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It seems like Apostle Paul's caution to them was to NOT stand out. To be modest, to not draw attention to themselves.

KeptByTheWord 12-16-2010 06:20 AM

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The question begs to be asked - why the WOMEN and not men too?????

Why is it that the women are always the target, and men escape any need to "stand out"?

Digging4Truth 12-16-2010 06:26 AM

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Originally Posted by KeptByTheWord (Post 1001322)
The question begs to be asked - why the WOMEN and not men too?????

Why is it that the women are always the target, and men escape any need to "stand out"?

It isn't because the preachers are wanting women to stand out and men to not stand out.

(Bracing for the grief I'll receive for this one)

It's that women of the world are dressing in such a manner that modesty stands out on it's own.

A man dressing modestly doesn't stand out in this world. If the majority of men began wearing skirts. dresses or otherwise clothed themselves in a manner that showed off their bodies... then we would.

A modestly dressed woman, in this day and age, tends to stand out.

mfblume 12-16-2010 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace* (Post 1001319)
It seems like Apostle Paul's caution to them was to NOT stand out. To be modest, to not draw attention to themselves.

Right. And the bible never said we are known by the way we dress, anyway, but by our love for one another. How people gravitate to this "they will know us by the way we dress" idea never ceases to amaze me in light of Jesus' plain statement that our love is for that purpose.

My 14 year old daughter was asked by some standard-keeping friends what it was that makes our church different from their's, since we are both one God and Acts 2:38. She responded in an amazingly wise manner: "We believe our love for one another tells the world who we are, not the way we dress."

Truthseeker 12-16-2010 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 1001323)
It isn't because the preachers are wanting women to stand out and men to not stand out.

(Bracing for the grief I'll receive for this one)

It's that women of the world are dressing in such a manner that modesty stands out on it's own.

A man dressing modestly doesn't stand out in this world. If the majority of men began wearing skirts. dresses or otherwise clothed themselves in a manner that showed off their bodies... then we would.

A modestly dressed woman, in this day and age, tends to stand out.



Good point, some things are gender specific.

Cindy 12-16-2010 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by KeptByTheWord (Post 1001322)
The question begs to be asked - why the WOMEN and not men too?????

Why is it that the women are always the target, and men escape any need to "stand out"?

I believe it sincerely goes back to Eve. The temptress, the seductress. Because men are the weaker sex, so that they succumb to the wiles of women.

Truthseeker 12-16-2010 07:36 AM

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I still believe dress is important, but not extreme as some have made it. Actually, clothes is the easy part, now love your enemies is getting somewhere.

MrMasterMind 12-16-2010 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by KeptByTheWord (Post 1001322)
The question begs to be asked - why the WOMEN and not men too?????

Why is it that the women are always the target, and men escape any need to "stand out"?

I believe in large part because what is considered normative in our society has changed radically for women, but not for men, within a single generation or so.

Some just cannot accept the fact that women's pants are now sold in the women's section of the store and mainstream society now considers that women's apparel

onefaith2 12-16-2010 07:39 AM

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I am assuming Mike Blume does not think people dressing a holiness standard are not capable of standing out by loving one another?

Justin 12-16-2010 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 1001285)
Did first century christian women standout like what many preachers say todays pentecostal ladies should today?

No, they would have been detained and possibly killed like most other Christians during Christianities infancy.

Cindy 12-16-2010 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by MrMasterMind (Post 1001342)
I believe in large part because what is considered normative in our society has changed radically for women, but not for men, within a single generation or so.

Some just cannot accept the fact that women's pants are now sold in the women's section of the store and mainstream society now considers that women's apparel

When I was growing up some women started wearing what were called "pedal pushers." I thought that was the neatest sounding thing.

KeptByTheWord 12-16-2010 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1001332)
My 14 year old daughter was asked by some standard-keeping friends what it was that makes our church different from their's, since we are both one God and Acts 2:38. She responded in an amazingly wise manner: "We believe our love for one another tells the world who we are, not the way we dress."

Awesome!! What a profound response :santathumb

Truthseeker 12-16-2010 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 1001340)
I believe it sincerely goes back to Eve. The temptress, the seductress. Because men are the weaker sex, so that they succumb to the wiles of women.

What do you weaker sex?

Digging4Truth 12-16-2010 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 1001340)
I believe it sincerely goes back to Eve. The temptress, the seductress. Because men are the weaker sex, so that they succumb to the wiles of women.

I don't agree with that.

Both genders have their weaknesses and, generally speaking, the other gender holds the cards concerning that weakness. Nothing Eve did had to do with seduction or temptation. What Eve did had to do with being able to be swayed by persuasive argument and failing to see the law as absolute. This is a case of "following ones heart" which is a tendency more prevalent for the female of the species.

Both male & female bring their own brand of strengths to humanity and both have their own set of areas where they are more easily led astray. The strengths of one support the weakness of the other and, together, we are a stronger species.

When one gender views the other gender with disdain or views them as "weak" as a gender then the respect between genders necessary for us to learn from one another is not present and we all lose.

Truthseeker 12-16-2010 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by onefaith2 (Post 1001343)
I am assuming Mike Blume does not think people dressing a holiness standard are not capable of standing out by loving one another?

I think there is a tendency for nonstandards folks to think standards folks don't have love or least use love arguement used as if standard have a monopoly on no love.

I do think Bro Blume is emphasizing that love is central theme of our lives with everything else branching off of if.

Cindy 12-16-2010 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 1001350)
I don't agree with that.

Both genders have their weaknesses and, generally speaking, the other gender holds the cards concerning that weakness. Nothing Eve did had to do with seduction or temptation. What Eve did had to do with being able to be swayed by persuasive argument and failing to see the law as absolute. This is a case of "following ones heart" which is a tendency more prevalent for the female of the species.

Both male & female bring their own brand of strengths to humanity and both have their own set of areas where they are more easily led astray. The strengths of one support the weakness of the other and, together, we are a stronger species.

When one gender views the other gender with disdain or views them as "weak" as a gender then the respect between genders necessary for us to learn from one another is not present and we all lose.

I don't agree with it either, D4T. But I really think that is how it started, not that it is necessarily true.

Digging4Truth 12-16-2010 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 1001360)
I don't agree with it either, D4T. But I really think that is how it started, not that it is necessarily true.

First... how can one forward a hypothesis that they don't agree with.

Second... it can't be true in the least. Like I said... nothing Eve did had to do with seduction or temptation. Adam didn't even know she was naked until he ate of the apple.

mfblume 12-16-2010 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by onefaith2 (Post 1001343)
I am assuming Mike Blume does not think people dressing a holiness standard are not capable of standing out by loving one another?

That's like the statement, "Saying that the possession of one-God doctrine does not mean we are saved implies that those who believe in one God are not saved." LOL. I never meant nor said that at all. I just was stemming my statement from the declarations of standard keepers that they dress the way they do in order to let the world know who they are, when such a declaration is unscriptural and opposes what the bible actually says about what is meant to tell them who we are.

Steeping on toes usually has the stepped-on folks distorting what was said. :lol

Cindy 12-16-2010 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 1001363)
First... how can one forward a hypothesis that they don't agree with.

Second... it can't be true in the least. Like I said... nothing Eve did had to do with seduction or temptation. Adam didn't even know she was naked until he ate of the apple.

You don't think a preacher ever used that as an example? Not just about Eve, but that women are like that, and that is why they had to dress a certain way.

mfblume 12-16-2010 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 1001363)
First... how can one forward a hypothesis that they don't agree with.

Second... it can't be true in the least. Like I said... nothing Eve did had to do with seduction or temptation. Adam didn't even know she was naked until he ate of the apple.

I think she meant that the MISTAKEN reasoning some people propose standards for women more than men is due to this MISTAKEN notion of Adam and Eve, implying the notion is wrong.

Digging4Truth 12-16-2010 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1001372)
I think she meant that the MISTAKEN reasoning some people propose standards for women more than men is due to this MISTAKEN notion of Adam and Eve, implying the notion is wrong.

Ahhhh... Now I see.

Thanks for the help with that.

Okay Cindy. I understand now. Please disregard my previous post. :)

Digging4Truth 12-16-2010 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 1001366)
You don't think a preacher ever used that as an example? Not just about Eve, but that women are like that, and that is why they had to dress a certain way.

Yes ma'am. They certainly have. I misunderstood what you were saying. Brother Blume helped me out.


Good point.

sandie 12-16-2010 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1001332)
Right. And the bible never said we are known by the way we dress, anyway, but by our love for one another. How people gravitate to this "they will know us by the way we dress" idea never ceases to amaze me in light of Jesus' plain statement that our love is for that purpose.

My 14 year old daughter was asked by some standard-keeping friends what it was that makes our church different from their's, since we are both one God and Acts 2:38. She responded in an amazingly wise manner: "We believe our love for one another tells the world who we are, not the way we dress."

:santathumb

Out of the mouth of babes...your daughter is wise beyond her years.

rgcraig 12-16-2010 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1001332)
Right. And the bible never said we are known by the way we dress, anyway, but by our love for one another. How people gravitate to this "they will know us by the way we dress" idea never ceases to amaze me in light of Jesus' plain statement that our love is for that purpose.

My 14 year old daughter was asked by some standard-keeping friends what it was that makes our church different from their's, since we are both one God and Acts 2:38. She responded in an amazingly wise manner: "We believe our love for one another tells the world who we are, not the way we dress."

Love it!!!!

Sam 12-16-2010 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by KeptByTheWord (Post 1001322)
The question begs to be asked - why the WOMEN and not men too?????

Why is it that the women are always the target, and men escape any need to "stand out"?

because men make the rules


:santathumb

Sam 12-16-2010 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1001332)
Right. And the bible never said we are known by the way we dress, anyway, but by our love for one another. How people gravitate to this "they will know us by the way we dress" idea never ceases to amaze me in light of Jesus' plain statement that our love is for that purpose.

My 14 year old daughter was asked by some standard-keeping friends what it was that makes our church different from their's, since we are both one God and Acts 2:38. She responded in an amazingly wise manner: "We believe our love for one another tells the world who we are, not the way we dress."

I think Jesus said something like what your daughter said in John 13:34-35

On The Wheel 12-16-2010 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1001332)
Right. And the bible never said we are known by the way we dress, anyway, but by our love for one another. How people gravitate to this "they will know us by the way we dress" idea never ceases to amaze me in light of Jesus' plain statement that our love is for that purpose.

My 14 year old daughter was asked by some standard-keeping friends what it was that makes our church different from their's, since we are both one God and Acts 2:38. She responded in an amazingly wise manner: "We believe our love for one another tells the world who we are, not the way we dress."

A very astute comment by your daughter. You should be proud.

From my research, God never asked people to stand out just for the purposes of standing out. Separation is something he required so people would not get ethnically (Old Testament) and spiritually confused, and was mandated for those reasons. The OT Hebrews probably looked identical to their heathen counterparts. Also, the fact that the bible pays scant attention to the topic of clothing at all seems to point to the fact that it is a minor, not a major issue. It's hard for anybody to prove with any conclusiveness what, exactly both OT and NT saints wore.

God required men to be physically altered by circumcision, but that could not really be construed as something God desired to "stand out" in a crowd. It was a personal, sacred sign of devotion to God.

BeenThinkin 12-16-2010 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by On The Wheel (Post 1001505)
A very astute comment by your daughter. You should be proud.

From my research, God never asked people to stand out just for the purposes of standing out. Separation is something he required so people would not get ethnically (Old Testament) and spiritually confused, and was mandated for those reasons. The OT Hebrews probably looked identical to their heathen counterparts. Also, the fact that the bible pays scant attention to the topic of clothing at all seems to point to the fact that it is a minor, not a major issue. It's hard for anybody to prove with any conclusiveness what, exactly both OT and NT saints wore.

God required men to be physically altered by circumcision, but that could not really be construed as something God desired to "stand out" in a crowd. It was a personal, sacred sign of devotion to God.

On The Wheel.... I don't know about your choice of words here...lol:jolly

BT

crakjak 12-16-2010 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 1001285)
Did first century christian women standout like what many preachers say todays pentecostal ladies should today?

No, they blended with the culture in general, not the dress of harlots nor the dress of the modern day radical Muslims.

Radical Muslims are some of the worlds most sexually perverted men, so much for covering women up.

On The Wheel 12-16-2010 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by BeenThinkin (Post 1001514)
On The Wheel.... I don't know about your choice of words here...lol:jolly

BT

No pun intended.




NOT!:jolly

crakjak 12-16-2010 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by BeenThinkin (Post 1001514)
On The Wheel.... I don't know about your choice of words here...lol:jolly

BT

You are so bad!!! LOL "...not in a crowd..."

DAII 12-16-2010 01:27 PM

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Pastor Keith quote from a few years ago

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Originally Posted by Pastor Keith (Post 648399)
Have you ever been curious how the First Church regarded standards, holiness and living in a pagan culture?

Well this is a testimony by a Disciple of Polycarp named Mathetes, who most likely wrote this between 100-140AD.

I think to be an eye opener and will likely change your perspective on how the early church related to and lived in a pagan world. I highlighted some parts that I thought would be of interest to our diverse forum.

It was titled "The Manner of Christians"

For the Christians are distinguished from other men neither by country, nor language, nor the customs which they observe. For they neither inhabit cities of their own, nor employ a peculiar form of speech, nor lead a life which is marked out by any singularity. The course of conduct which they follow has not been devised by any speculation or deliberation of inquisitive men; nor do they, like some, proclaim themselves the advocates of any merely human doctrines. But, inhabiting Greek as well as barbarian cities, according as the lot of each of them has determined, and following the customs of the natives in respect to clothing, food, and the rest of their ordinary conduct, they display to us their wonderful and confessedly striking [281] method of life. They dwell in their own countries, but simply as sojourners. As citizens, they share in all things with others, and yet endure all things as if foreigners. Every foreign land is to them as their native country, and every land of their birth as a land of strangers. They marry, as do all [others]; they beget children; but they do not destroy their offspring. [282] They have a common table, but not a common bed. [283] They are in the flesh, but they do not live after the flesh. [284] They pass their days on earth, but they are citizens of heaven. [285] They obey the prescribed laws, and at the same time surpass the laws by their lives. They love all men, and are persecuted by all. They are unknown and condemned; they are put to death, and restored to life. [286] They are poor, yet make many rich; [287] they are in lack of all things, and yet abound in all; they are dishonoured, and yet in their very dishonour are glorified. They are evil spoken of, and yet are justified; they are reviled, and bless; [288] they are insulted, and repay the insult with honour; they do good, yet are punished as evil-doers. When punished, they rejoice as if quickened into life; they are assailed by the Jews as foreigners, and are persecuted by the Greeks; yet those who hate them are unable to assign any reason for their hatred.


On The Wheel 12-16-2010 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by crakjak (Post 1001524)
You are so bad!!! LOL "...not in a crowd..."

Sorry. It just seemed so easy.

It's just that some will point to the rite of circumcision to "prove" that God wants us to visibly stand out visually for no real reason other than he wants us to appear different for its own sake. I just though I would point out the obvious. Circumcision was not to be viewed by the general public, and certainly not the heathen. Any men flaunting or otherwise exposing their sign of separation would be in violation of some other laws.

Your "bro's" might know, and your wife and mom but that's the extent of it.

Women, as far as I can tell, were give required to show no visible sign of separation that was not tied to things that actually had theological or practical significance and/or relevance.

BeenThinkin 12-16-2010 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by On The Wheel (Post 1001551)
Sorry. It just seemed so easy.

It's just that some will point to the rite of circumcision to "prove" that God wants us to visibly stand out visually for no real reason other than he wants us to appear different for its own sake. I just though I would point out the obvious. Circumcision was not to be viewed by the general public, and certainly not the heathen. Any men flaunting or otherwise exposing their sign of separation would be in violation of some other laws.

Your "bro's" might know, and your wife and mom but that's the extent of it.

Women, as far as I can tell, were give required to show no visible sign of separation that was not tied to things that actually had theological or practical significance and/or relevance.


Some of the hard nose, overbearing preachers that are always putting the women down should have to show their circumcision in a crowd! That might given them pause and cause them to stop being so critical of the women.

Just thinkin
BT


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