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ILG 05-24-2011 09:23 AM

Recovery from Harmful Religion
 
I enjoyed this video.

http://marlenewinell.net/Recovering_from_Religion

Apprehended 05-24-2011 11:36 AM

Re: Recovery from Harmful Religion
 
The assault on the Christian faith is unrelenting and getting stronger almost daily. Case in point: Judge in London ruled that giving a child to be raised in a Christian home is child abuse.

Hoovie 05-24-2011 12:01 PM

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She brings some good points about excess indoctrination and closed cults.

But, she also attacks anyone who teaches that only Jesus is the only way to God, and anyone who believes the Bible is true - such as "evangelical and Pentecostal Christian, Mormon, Jehovah Witness, Christian Science, Seventh-Day Adventist, Scientology, Eastern groups, and any organizations of a cultish nature."

pelathais 05-24-2011 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Apprehended (Post 1068728)
The assault on the Christian faith is unrelenting and getting stronger almost daily. Case in point: Judge in London ruled that giving a child to be raised in a Christian home is child abuse.

I guess that depends how you look at it. Things around here have actually improved a great deal since the days of Diocletian.

pelathais 05-24-2011 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Hoovie (Post 1068736)
She brings some good points about excess indoctrination and closed cults.

But, she also attacks anyone who teaches that only Jesus is the only way to God, and anyone who believes the Bible is true - such as "evangelical and Pentecostal Christian, Mormon, Jehovah Witness, Christian Science, Seventh-Day Adventist, Scientology, Eastern groups, and any organizations of a cultish nature."

I couldn't follow the video so I can't really speak directly to what ILG offered, but there is a very common human behavioral characteristic that we can see whereby just about any group will become insular and develop a "cult-like" mentality when they feel that they are repressed...

... even "secularists" have this tendency. It's just a human social phenomena.

Hoovie 05-24-2011 12:31 PM

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She is post-Jesus now.

The video promotes resources exchristian.net, losingmyreligion.com and Atheist Alliance International, so the ultimate agenda seems quite clear to me. As she also says in the video, "It's OK to leave your religion behind." and many have gone "on to live happy, joyful, productive lives, and they really honestly don't believe that they are going to hell..."

Hoovie 05-24-2011 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 1068751)
I couldn't follow the video so I can't really speak directly to what ILG offered, but there is a very common human behavioral characteristic that we can see whereby just about any group will become insular and develop a "cult-like" mentality when they feel that they are repressed...

... even "secularists" have this tendency. It's just a human social phenomena.

Well yes, but the video and further recommendations they make are not just warnings about being "insular" and developing "a "cult-like" mentality". It goes straight to the heart of Christianity - Jesus, who he is and what authority he has.

Timmy 05-24-2011 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Hoovie (Post 1068757)
She is post-Jesus now.

The video promotes resources exchristian.net, losingmyreligion.com and Atheist Alliance International, so the ultimate agenda seems quite clear to me. As she also says in the video, "It's OK to leave your religion behind." and then you will go "on to live happy, joyful, productive lives, and they really honestly don't believe that they are going to hell..."

Should they? ;)

Hoovie 05-24-2011 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 1068765)
Should they? ;)

No doubt about it. We "should" all believe we deserve eternal separation from God, and that our one and only hope is in and through the cross of Christ.

Timmy 05-24-2011 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Hoovie (Post 1068774)
No doubt about it. We "should" all believe we deserve eternal separation from God, and that our one and only hope is in and through the cross of Christ.

Yeah, I know. Just sayin'. :D

ILG 05-25-2011 08:40 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 1068751)
I couldn't follow the video so I can't really speak directly to what ILG offered, but there is a very common human behavioral characteristic that we can see whereby just about any group will become insular and develop a "cult-like" mentality when they feel that they are repressed...

... even "secularists" have this tendency. It's just a human social phenomena.

Yes, I agree with this. Groups that are say, raw foodists or extreme environmentalists will have the same outcomes, in my opinion. I think when any groups condemns and threatens for not living their way (the right way), it can become abusive.

Abusive is a very relative term and I think happens on a spectrum. I don't think intervention in all cases is warranted or necessary. What I would like to see is education as it is not clear to most people that religion can be abusive. The interviewer was clearly shocked.

ILG 05-25-2011 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Hoovie (Post 1068774)
No doubt about it. We "should" all believe we deserve eternal separation from God, and that our one and only hope is in and through the cross of Christ.

Well, there are evangelical Christians now who don't believe in a literal hell.

Timmy 05-25-2011 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by ILG (Post 1069037)
Well, there are evangelical Christians now who don't believe in a literal hell.

Those evangelicals are known as "heretics". :lol

ILG 05-25-2011 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 1069038)
Those evangelicals are known as "heretics". :lol

Could be.

MarcBee 05-25-2011 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 1069038)
Those evangelicals are known as "heretics". :lol

But "heresy" is a moving target, no? What if a certain heresy gathers steam and eventually becomes 51% popular? What about 25% popular? I remember we used to wear it as a badge of honor (in my UPC days, the 80s) that author researcher Walter Martin officially labeled us a Cult.

BTW, (only since he's prominent at the moment,) Harold Camping believes Hell is simply permanent anihilation of consciouness, not eternal torment.

The WORST part of adopting any "heresy" is to later notice who your bedfellows are!!
:depressed

Timmy 05-25-2011 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by MarcBee (Post 1069043)
But "heresy" is a moving target, no? What if a certain heresy gathers steam and eventually becomes 51% popular? What about 25% popular? I remember we used to wear it as a badge of honor (in my UPC days, the 80s) that author researcher Walter Martin officially labeled us a Cult.

BTW, (only since he's prominent at the moment,) Harold Camping believes Hell is simply permanent anihilation of consciouness, not eternal torment.

The WORST part of adopting any "heresy" is to later notice who your bedfellows are!!
:depressed

Everyone's a heretic to someone! :D

Cindy 05-25-2011 10:22 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 1068751)
I couldn't follow the video so I can't really speak directly to what ILG offered, but there is a very common human behavioral characteristic that we can see whereby just about any group will become insular and develop a "cult-like" mentality when they feel that they are repressed...

... even "secularists" have this tendency. It's just a human social phenomena.

I agree.

MarcBee 05-25-2011 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 1069058)
Everyone's a heretic to someone! :D

Yep. Isn't there some online forum already..."Everyone'sHeretic" ?
:bolt

Timmy 05-25-2011 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by MarcBee (Post 1069092)
Yep. Isn't there some online forum already..."Everyone'sHeretic" ?
:bolt

I oughta be the admin there! :toofunny

MarcBee 05-26-2011 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Hoovie (Post 1068736)
She brings some good points about excess indoctrination ."

For any belief system that is presumably correct to those who believe it,
what is excess indoctrication?

(Sorry, only listened to 5 minutes of clip, maybe answer is obvious had I gone the distance.)


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