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houston 09-18-2011 11:01 PM

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Should a person remove his or her earrings to take a leadership position in church?

OR

should the person wear them, but not to church?

hometown guy 09-18-2011 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by houston (Post 1098522)
Should a person remove his or her earrings to take a leadership position in church?

OR

should the person wear them, but not to church?

It depends if they want to be saved or not.

houston 09-18-2011 11:27 PM

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anyond with a real answer

johnny44 09-18-2011 11:31 PM

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anyond with a real answer

Depends if he's gay or strait.:heeheehee

houston 09-18-2011 11:32 PM

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again, anyone with a real answer

Sandra79 09-19-2011 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by hometown guy (Post 1098525)
It depends if they want to be saved or not.

This would be a real answer! Not being judgemental, but bibical! Think bout it and look it up in the Word of God... Find your real answer in His precious Word. God bless :)

houston 09-19-2011 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Sandra79 (Post 1098535)
This would be a real answer! Not being judgemental, but bibical! Think bout it and look it up in the Word of God... Find your real answer in His precious Word. God bless :)

That answer is not biblical.

Sandra79 09-19-2011 12:17 AM

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That answer is not biblical.

Wat answer? Wearing silver or gold.. Believe its Timothy 2:9... Cant remember if its first or second tim tho. :) Gotta love the Word of God. Its full of answers under any circumstance!!! Theres plenty of other scriptures pertaining to this topic, OT and NT.

God bless

hometown guy 09-19-2011 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Sandra79 (Post 1098538)
Wat answer? Wearing silver or gold.. Believe its Timothy 2:9... Cant remember if its first or second tim tho. :) Gotta love the Word of God. Its full of answers under any circumstance!!! Theres plenty of other scriptures pertaining to this topic, OT and NT.

God bless

They disregard all those scripture they don't like.

houston 09-19-2011 01:04 AM

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They disregard all those scripture they don't like.

You and your friends disregrd context.

Praxeas 09-19-2011 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by houston (Post 1098522)
Should a person remove his or her earrings to take a leadership position in church?

OR

should the person wear them, but not to church?

If the church teaches against wearing them then they should just not wear them anymore

houston 09-19-2011 03:22 AM

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Nah. I'll keep them. They can have their leadership positions...

kclee4jc 09-19-2011 03:25 AM

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I'll never forget the night my Grandma received the Holy Ghost. When she got up off the floor both of her earrings were gone. She had the back to one but we could find nothing else. I looked all over the floor where she had been and couldnt find them. She never put earrings back in her ears after that night. Yes, i believe it's a sin for God's people to wear jewelry today. But, my words nor the words of others here are going to convince you of that anymore than you are going to convince us that it's ok. I think you should pray about it and get a "real answer" from Jesus. And then validate it by His Word. (-:

houston 09-19-2011 03:28 AM

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I have insomnia. why are you up?

kclee4jc 09-19-2011 03:29 AM

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I should also ask...is this about a "leadership position" or doing a work for God? If something in your life is hindering you from doing a work for God, then it deffinitely needs to go!

kclee4jc 09-19-2011 03:30 AM

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I am up because I go to work at 6 AM...and you post got my attention and now I'm late for work! I live in WV too...i think we might be in different time zones?

UnTraditional 09-19-2011 03:32 AM

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No. When we look at jewelry today, it is because of look, and nothing else. I would rather sit under an humble man of God who wears earrings than a totalitarian tyrant who wears thousand dollar suits and wants to show off at GC.

houston 09-19-2011 03:35 AM

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yeah, central here. I have to be up for work at 6.

kclee4jc 09-19-2011 03:35 AM

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My pastor wears neither.

kclee4jc 09-19-2011 03:36 AM

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Leaving NOWWW!

houston 09-19-2011 03:37 AM

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U.T., don't turn this into that.

Amanah 09-19-2011 03:52 AM

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If you are in a position of leadership, that means young people are looking up to you as an example.

That means they better not perceive you to be a hypocrite.

If you are teaching sunday school, singing in the choir, leading song service, ushering, then be respectfull of the standards of your church.

When my Sister taught Sunday School, she was very carefull to comply so as to not cause a young person to stumble.

When she quit teaching sunday school, after awhile, we went to the movies.

That, of course, is just one opinion.

Dagwood 09-19-2011 04:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 1098541)
If the church teaches against wearing them then they should just not wear them anymore

...or not worry about sitting under leadership who preaches extra-Biblical, men's doctrines...

Phoenix 09-19-2011 04:23 AM

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I would think if the leadership position was offered while the person was wearing earrings, obviously they weren't that much of an issue to begin with. I would not remove them simply to accept a position.

*AQuietPlace* 09-19-2011 05:24 AM

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Depends on the church and what viewpoint they hold on the issue.

houston 09-19-2011 07:10 AM

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Ah. No one has noticed. I don't wear them around church people, out of respect. Lately I have been feeling like I shouldn't walk on egg shells. I mean, come on, I have always gone out of my way to be respectful and to keep from offending the brethren. But that is a one way street. I am tired of making accommidations.

Amanah 09-19-2011 07:17 AM

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Ah. No one has noticed. I don't wear them around church people, out of respect. Lately I have been feeling like I shouldn't walk on egg shells. I mean, come on, I have always gone out of my way to be respectful and to keep from offending the brethren. But that is a one way street. I am tired of making accommidations.

taking jewelry off to to go church is a small accomodation, especially if there are any young men who are looking at you as an example.

Bella1 09-19-2011 07:31 AM

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I do not see the difference in wearing a "very thin" bracelet or necklace or small earrings. Why you ask? Because those Terrible HUGE Flower pins with feathers in our hair and on our clothing is more gaudy and distracting than any gold or silver jewerly I see most people wearing. These flowers for the head and the clothing has taken on a life of their own. IMO.

Amanah 09-19-2011 07:59 AM

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I do not see the difference in wearing a "very thin" bracelet or necklace or small earrings. Why you ask? Because those Terrible HUGE Flower pins with feathers in our hair and on our clothing is more gaudy and distracting than any gold or silver jewerly I see most people wearing. These flowers for the head and the clothing has taken on a life of their own. IMO.

well i cant argue with you on that, but

When I was a part of and ultra con church, I lived the standards because of the teen agers I taught in Sunday School.

Which was a bit of a trial as they are smart as a whip and kept asking me, why we have standards and they didn't see it in the bible and blah blah

Which caused me to go to the pastor in pure exasperation and say: "I can't really defend the standards we are preaching, can you help me"

Funny thing was, it wasn't much longer after that that the church quit preaching standards, changed it's name and became a TD Jakesque church.

At which time I quit going to church all together for awhile.

You know, come to think of it, I may be the wrong person to ask.

scotty 09-19-2011 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by houston (Post 1098522)
Should a person remove his or her earrings to take a leadership position in church?

OR

should the person wear them, but not to church?

Were you offered a leadership position ? Did they tell you that you had to remove them ? Why would you wear them outside the church and not in ? From the way you post you don't seem to care one way or another what people think your going to wear them anyway so whats the point of the thread ?

Aquila 09-19-2011 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by houston (Post 1098522)
Should a person remove his or her earrings to take a leadership position in church?

OR

should the person wear them, but not to church?

Personally, I think one should submit to the standards of leadership in their local church. Some churches may have a standard of conduct for leaders. It may not be salvational, just how the ministry of the church wishes to be preceived by the community at large. Other churches might be more "cutting edge" or "relevant" and not have an issue with it. I'd say abide by the churches standards of conduct.

As for general membership, I would make no issue about it with regards to women. I might jokingly chide men with earrings because of my upbringing. But I'd NEVER throw anyone out of church or condemn them over an earring.

Bella1 09-19-2011 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Aquila (Post 1098625)
Personally, I think one should submit to the standards of leadership in their local church. Some churches may have a standard of conduct for leaders. It may not be salvational, just how the ministry of the church wishes to be preceived by the community at large. Other churches might be more "cutting edge" or "relevant" and not have an issue with it. I'd say abide by the churches standards of conduct.

As for general membership, I would make no issue about it with regards to women. I might jokingly chide men with earrings because of my upbringing. But I'd NEVER throw anyone out of church or condemn them over an earring.

Although I do not believe in all the standards of the UPC churches that I have attended, when I was in ministry, I abided by what the leadership team wanted/designated for us to dress like. I was never disobedient to my leaders. I also do not believe it is salvational on some levels, but if you want to participate in a UPC, you do what you have to do, keep you mouth shut and don't say what you do or don't like doing (or get out of ministry)

MawMaw 09-19-2011 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by houston (Post 1098522)
Should a person remove his or her earrings to take a leadership position in church?

OR

should the person wear them, but not to church?

I know of one church that asks any in leadership to please not wear their jewelry on the platform. I don't understand that. If they are okay with them wearing their jewelry anywhere else? Seems very hypocritical to me.

RandyWayne 09-19-2011 10:17 AM

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The only piece of "jewelry" I wear, and WILL ever wear, is my wedding ring. I almost never take it off. However if I was asked to perform some function at church AND was told to take it off as a requirement, I would not -nor would I perform the function I was asked or invited to do. What I would NOT do is somehow demand that I still be allowed to do the job AND wear my ring. I figure it is their court - their rules, as the saying goes, and I can choose to play or not play there.

houston 09-19-2011 10:21 AM

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RANDY... thanks.

Cindy 09-19-2011 10:31 AM

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I think it's for women only to not wear jewelry. Men apparently can wear all they want.

Bella1 09-19-2011 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Cindy (Post 1098653)
I think it's for women only to not wear jewelry. Men apparently can wear all they want.

I know what you mean. My husband wore his necklaces and bracelets because they were under his shirt and tie and his sleeves were always long. That was REALLY a sore point for me, cause I could not wear jewerly but he was totally decked out in it. I did not go running to the preacher and tell. That was my husband and you just don't go tattle. :thumbsup

RandyWayne 09-19-2011 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Bella1 (Post 1098661)
I know what you mean. My husband wore his necklaces and bracelets because they were under his shirt and tie and his sleeves were always long. That was REALLY a sore point for me, cause I could not wear jewerly but he was totally decked out in it. I did not go running to the preacher and tell. That was my husband and you just don't go tattle. :thumbsup

Ya, us guys can get as decked out as we want. ;)
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Praxeas 09-19-2011 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by kclee4jc (Post 1098551)
I should also ask...is this about a "leadership position" or doing a work for God? If something in your life is hindering you from doing a work for God, then it deffinitely needs to go!

Define "a work for God" and how earrings keeps someone from doing "a work for God"

Praxeas 09-19-2011 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Dagwood (Post 1098560)
...or not worry about sitting under leadership who preaches extra-Biblical, men's doctrines...

I posted under the assumption the original post was asking what to do if he/she wears them and wants to be in leadership


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