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The Matt 01-26-2012 03:03 PM

Why Are People Cruel?
 
Everyone is a little or a lot cruel...why do we all have this cruelty in us?

mfblume 01-26-2012 03:43 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
Original Sin.

BeenThinkin 01-26-2012 04:07 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by The Matt (Post 1132470)
Everyone is a little or a lot cruel...why do we all have this cruelty in us?


Because we're members on AFF!!!! lol:happydance :heeheehee :thumbsup

Been Thinkin

bbyrd009 01-26-2012 04:36 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
Comes from poor self esteem, or being made to feel inferior. Yule never hear a rabbi answer "no" in a discussion, and I found the way they disagree, after much qualification and agreeing, quite interesting. It stays positive while getting...too deep for me. Of course, this was in person, where the dynamic is diff...

Timmy 01-26-2012 04:44 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1132487)
Original Sin.

That's right, blame Adam and Eve! :lol

Dordrecht 01-26-2012 04:58 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by The Matt (Post 1132470)
Everyone is a little or a lot cruel...why do we all have this cruelty in us?

Because we all still have a bit of sin in us?
Who are you talking about? Your church?

The Matt 01-26-2012 05:00 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
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Originally Posted by Dordrecht (Post 1132513)
Because we all still have a bit of sin in us?
Who are you talking about? Your church?

I'm talking about the human race.

bbyrd009 01-26-2012 05:19 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
I think you should come to see it as an outpouring of death, and see the appropriate response as shrinking away from it in any way you may. You could be trapped in the same room with it and effectively completely separated from its spirit.
Life, an outpouring of life, the pov that contains the most life, will always take precedence in a conversation or situation, however. Always.

mfblume 01-26-2012 05:21 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 1132510)
That's right, blame Adam and Eve! :lol

Paul said by one man's disobedience many were made sinners. It's bible whether you agree with it or not. Lol

Titus2woman 01-26-2012 05:22 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
I find that most normal everyday people are not deliberately cruel, they are just very self focused and often do not think about how what they say or do will affect others so may cause hurt.

But even real cruelty is just part of the spectrum of human behavior. Even children can exhibit real cruelty unless taught better.

Is there something in particular that is bothering you Matt? I see you posting a lot of questions... and you seem troubled... something I can help with maybe?

Timmy 01-26-2012 06:12 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
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Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1132531)
Paul said by one man's disobedience many were made sinners. It's bible whether you agree with it or not. Lol

He also said "And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." Now, who could disagree with that?! :lol

AreYouReady? 01-26-2012 06:29 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
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Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 1132552)
He also said "And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." Now, who could disagree with that?! :lol


Righto! Adam was not deceived. He was willfully disobedient to God's command.

The Matt 01-26-2012 08:43 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Titus2woman (Post 1132532)
I find that most normal everyday people are not deliberately cruel, they are just very self focused and often do not think about how what they say or do will affect others so may cause hurt.

But even real cruelty is just part of the spectrum of human behavior. Even children can exhibit real cruelty unless taught better.

Is there something in particular that is bothering you Matt? I see you posting a lot of questions... and you seem troubled... something I can help with maybe?

Oh no nothing in particular, my mind just drifts everywhere with my own thoughts. Thank you though.

RandyWayne 01-26-2012 09:08 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
Just imagine what life would be like if there wasn't just a tiny bit of cruelty in people. All the great practical jokes that would have never taken place!

The Matt 01-26-2012 09:14 PM

Re: Why Are People Cruel?
 
I agree that we all need a mixture, but what I'm trying to get at really is why people feel the need to be hurtfully cruel, why do some people not realize they're being cruel when it's completely obvious to everyone around them, why do some people not care that they're cruel...but life would be boring if we were all happy go lucky. Much mo betta?


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