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HeavenlyOne 05-22-2007 12:48 AM

Disturbing hair story
 
I read this on someone's EC page.

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I was born and raised Pentecostal and God blessed me with a wonderful family. Many of my extended family are great men of God and have their own churches. I recieve the Holy Ghost when I was 8 years old and I lived life the best as I could being such a little kid. I have alwasy been sensitive to the spirit and I was always one of the ones crying and worshiping when at church. I loved God with all my heart and I wanted to do his will, but I never seemed to let myself go. I didn't really have any problems with no makeup and skirts, but my only down fall was my hair.

God blessed me with a bundle of hair from the day I was born, when I was three years old, my hair was already down to waist. I hated it! Every inch of it and I did everything to get rid of it. I cut it numerous times and every time I would say sorry about it, but nothing ever changed in my heart. My Youth Pastor would talk to my about it, my Pastor would preach about it from the pulpit, I would read books, listen to tapes, read the Bible, but nothing seemed to hit me. I knew that if something was going to change God was going to have to show me himself that it was wrong, or show me that it was my glory.

I was about to the point where I was just going to give up on the whole hair issue b/c it seemed like no matter what I did nothing seemed to change. That was until I went to IL District Ladies Retreat in 2003. This is when my life was changed forever. I was 19 years old and I was sitting in the room full of hundreds of ladies. Sis. Lumpkin was our main speaker and she was wonderful. The last session of the day was her's and to my surprise she said she wanted to talk to us about hair. I do have to say, I honestly thought it was going to be another "Your hair is your glory b/c the Bible says so" sermons; but to my surprise it wasn't. She said she was going to talk to us that day as if we were sitting in on a conversation between her and her daughter.

She brought her daughter to the platform and stood right beside her. She began talking to her and telling her her story behind hair. The whole time she was talking, she had her pain pinned up on her head. She began telling a story about a time that she was going to the doctor a lot and he would always wear her hair up. Her doc. kept asking her if she would take her hair down and she would always give excuses of having to leave or not having enough time. One day she went into the office and her doctor asked her to please take her hair down...she couldn't figure out why she wanted her to, but she said fine..I'll do it.

As she was telling the story of how she took out her pins and un wound her hair, she started doing this on the platform. When she took the final pin out of her hair and let in un wind, it was like you could feel a wind hit you in the face. The whole place went wild...I have never felt the power of God so strong in my life. I couldn't contain myself. I stood up, threw my hands in the air and prayed like I have never done before. God showed himself to me. He showed me my Glory. He showed me how powerful it is, how awesome it is. She went on to tell us that it's not the length of our hair, but it's the power in it. She said that when people see your hair and comment on how beautiful it is, it's not because it's beautiful it's because they are feeling the power of God come out from it.
Someone please tell me this doctrine isn't being preached all over the UPC still today.

Thad 05-22-2007 12:57 AM

that's kind of sweet actually. you can feel the sincerity in it

HeavenlyOne 05-22-2007 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 123033)
that's kind of sweet actually. you can feel the sincerity in it

Being sincere doesn't make us right. Preaching doctrine like this without Biblical backup is deceitful. It's also a sin.

Thad 05-22-2007 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 123036)
Being sincere doesn't make us right. Preaching doctrine like this without Biblical backup is deceitful. It's also a sin.


are you deneying the power of God they felt come upon them?

surely that was not a sin !!!

Barb 05-22-2007 01:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 123033)
that's kind of sweet actually. you can feel the sincerity in it

Thad, I did not find it sweet at all...rather disturbing actually...

Praxeas 05-22-2007 02:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 123033)
that's kind of sweet actually. you can feel the sincerity in it

So ladies, when you pray for the baptism of the Holy Ghost, just know it's not you that is being filled with power, but your hair. Us men? I haven't a clue...seems we don't have any power or protection unless we are married to someone that has uncut hair :club

Tina 05-22-2007 04:37 AM

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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 123031)
I read this on someone's EC page.



Someone please tell me this doctrine isn't being preached all over the UPC still today.

Someone told this same story in our Sunday School class on Sunday--saying they'd received it in email. I had to bite my tongue. I was good though... I didn't say a word.

Neck 05-22-2007 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 123031)
I read this on someone's EC page.



Someone please tell me this doctrine isn't being preached all over the UPC still today.

It is a way for some trapped ladies to feel as if they are doing the right thing.

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I was in a crowd once of some 50,000 plus peole. In September 1992.

An event happened where it was exciting, and felt to me like any pressence of the Holy Ghost I have ever felt.

The problem being I was at County Stadium in Milwaukee.

Robin Yount had just collected his 3000th hit and the crowd went wild.

Not everything felt in the human experience is the power of God.

It's the excitement of the moment.....

Rhoni 05-22-2007 05:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Barb (Post 123039)
Thad, I did not find it sweet at all...rather disturbing actually...

I felt the same way Sis. Barb..disturbed.

Rhoni 05-22-2007 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Neckstadt (Post 123056)
It is a way for some trapped ladies to feel as if they are doing the right thing.

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I was in a crowd once of some 50,000 plus peole. In September 1992.

An event happened where it was exciting, and felt to me like any pressence of the Holy Ghost I have ever felt.

The problem being I was at County Stadium in Milwaukee.

Robin Yount had just collected his 3000th hit and the crowd went wild.

Not everything felt in the human experience is the power of God.

It's the excitement of the moment.....

TRAPPED...I think that is the most appropriate word I have read on this thread.

Sincerely, Rhoni

Consapostolic1 05-22-2007 05:56 AM

Wow! Awesome story I don't find this disturbing. I'm sure sis. lumpkin probably used scripture to back her story up and probably used great detail.

Rhoni 05-22-2007 05:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Consapostolic1 (Post 123062)
Wow! Awesome story I don't find this disturbing. I'm sure sis. lumpkin probably used scripture to back her story up and probably used great detail.

There is no scripture to back that story up...you might find a book or two written by other 'trapped' people;)!:heeheehee

Consapostolic1 05-22-2007 06:04 AM

I wouldn't consider our women trapped aren't you the one that can't keep the scissors out of your hair?:)

Ronzo 05-22-2007 06:26 AM

http://www.comparestoreprices.co.uk/...-tale-dora.jpg


Magic hair!!!!!!

freeatlast 05-22-2007 06:44 AM

This doctrine is being condoned and backed by HeadQuarters. They sell the books written by Ruth Reider there.

"Our teaching from 1 Cor. 11 is pure Hair-esy.

1 Cor. does NOT teach that a woman can not cut her hair, of her own volition.

Paul simply mad a comparrison that a CORINTHIAN woman who refused to wear a veil in church brought a comparable shame on herself and her husband as a woman who had her head forcibly shaved as a punishment for her adultery.


It is the sadest thing that unlearned men have bridled women with this false teaching for years.

It's even sadder when they can not admit, due to their pride, that they have been wrong about this teaching.

tamor 05-22-2007 06:48 AM

Okay, maybe I'm missing something in the story, but the doctor wanted her to take her hair down why?

freeatlast 05-22-2007 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by tamor (Post 123085)
Okay, maybe I'm missing something in the story, but the doctor wanted her to take her hair down why?

Maybe she was seeing her DR. because of head aches. Many women have had problem with headaches due the wieght or pull of all that hair.

We have in our bibles an example of a man, Absolam, that polled his hair (cut it) because of the weight of it. It was to much for a man but our women must bear this unnecesary burden.

tamor 05-22-2007 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 123091)
Maybe she was seeing her DR. because of head aches. Many women have had problem with headaches due the wieght or pull of all that hair.

We have in our bibles an example of a man, Absolam, that polled his hair (cut it) because of the weight of it. It was to much for a man but our women must bear this unnecesary burden.

True. It just makes a big deal about the doc wanting her to take it down but doesn't say why she was there or why he wanted her to do so.

StillStanding 05-22-2007 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Neckstadt (Post 123056)
It is a way for some trapped ladies to feel as if they are doing the right thing.

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I was in a crowd once of some 50,000 plus peole. In September 1992.

An event happened where it was exciting, and felt to me like any pressence of the Holy Ghost I have ever felt.

The problem being I was at County Stadium in Milwaukee.

Robin Yount had just collected his 3000th hit and the crowd went wild.

Not everything felt in the human experience is the power of God.

It's the excitement of the moment.....

I was in a crowd of 67,000 people that witnessed a miracle, the Music City Miracle!! Everyone was shockamooing! The Titans had beaten the Bills! :)

COOPER 05-22-2007 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 123037)
are you denying the power of God they felt come upon them?

surely that was not a sin !!!

Thad, I am sure folks feel the same thing when they shout with their first Copperhead or Rattler.

Sounds like emotions where very high.

God may bless women for dedicating their hair to him.

But Power in the hair?? :bubble

Scott Hutchinson 05-22-2007 07:23 AM

Is there power in natural hair? Muslim women have long hair does their hair have the power of God in it ?

chseeads 05-22-2007 07:25 AM

*sings*

There is power, power, wonder-working power in the hair, of the headdddd......

Kutless 05-22-2007 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 123063)
There is no scripture to back that story up...you might find a book or two written by other 'trapped' people;)!:heeheehee

This is one thing I find disturbing......that seemingly neither side can come up with scripture.

This argument is always used at/against (whatever) the UC's but then the opposing side never has scriture either.

:sshhh

tamor 05-22-2007 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 123112)
Is there power in natural hair? Muslim women have long hair does their hair have the power of God in it ?

Woo-Hoo. Awesome point, Bro Scott. And they're hair is uncut. :highfive

COOPER 05-22-2007 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 123112)
Is there power in natural hair? Muslim women have long hair does their hair have the power of God in it ?

Exactly.

Was the Power in Samson's hair? Or Gods Spirit?

COOPER 05-22-2007 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by tamor (Post 123117)
Woo-Hoo. Awesome point, Bro Scott. And they're hair is uncut. :highfive

And their whole body is covered.

COOPER 05-22-2007 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by chseeads (Post 123113)
*sings*

There is power, power, wonder-working power in the hair, of the headdddd......

:sing :sing :sing






:killinme :lol

Rhoni 05-22-2007 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Kutless (Post 123116)
This is one thing I find disturbing......that seemingly neither side can come up with scripture.

This argument is always used at/against (whatever) the UC's but then the opposing side never has scriture either.

:sshhh

My salvation is based on my repentance, baptism in Jesus name, and the infilling of the precious spirit of God. My uncut hair is only obedience to the authority over me when applicable.

Blessings, Rhoni

P.S. I have scripture for the obedience...but you know that one don't you?:haloplug

Scott Hutchinson 05-22-2007 07:37 AM

I do believe in distinction of the sexes in personal appearance and there is an outward aspect to Holiness.
If a Spirit filled woman has chemo and loses her hair or if a Jesus Name woman has to get her head shaved for surgery does she lose her standing with God ?

Trouvere 05-22-2007 07:39 AM

Anytime anyone is doing something special just for God he honors it.
The hair is a hassle hey but if the heart is right and its done for a dedication
to Gods word.Long hair is a sacrifice on the part of a woman.That sacrifice given to God is what brings annointing into the womans life.Its not the power of the hair but the power of committment.Big difference.A person may have long hair and never have cut it but not have the Holy Ghost and the hair will not take her to heaven.Its a result of a life given over.A result of a sacrifice given to God in the depths of prayer and consecration.I don't doubt the presence of God filled the room if this was the case.That would infact make it indeed beautiful.Its not that you don't cut your hair.Its why you don't cut it.
If you do it out of law because someone said you can't then forget the annointing.If you do it because you feel long hair pleases God and you have decided to never cut it again as a worship and dedication to Jesus then you have the right spirit.Its not just hair because hair in itself has no power.Its the dedication and consecration that goes on in the life of a Spirit Filled Woman who says,"Jesus I dedicate this area of my life to you."
Maybe that is where people are getting off teaching wierdie stuff.They have begun to teach law instead of allowing for dedication and consecration.

Kutless 05-22-2007 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 123124)
My salvation is based on my repentance, baptism in Jesus name, and the infilling of the precious spirit of God. My uncut hair is only obedience to the authority over me when applicable.

Blessings, Rhoni

P.S. I have scripture for the obedience...but you know that one don't you?:haloplug

I do agree with you Sis. Rhoni. I quoted your statement but wasn't directing my comment at you. :bubble

I don't believe the Holy Hair thing myself. My whole point was about the passage in Corin. from which this debate is derived. And I still maintain that the opposing side has not a scriptured come back.

bless ya right back :happydance

COOPER 05-22-2007 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Trouvere (Post 123127)
Anytime anyone is doing something special just for God he honors it.
The hair is a hassle hey but if the heart is right and its done for a dedication
to Gods word.Long hair is a sacrifice on the part of a woman.That sacrifice given to God is what brings annointing into the womans life.Its not the power of the hair but the power of committment.Big difference.A person may have long hair and never have cut it but not have the Holy Ghost and the hair will not take her to heaven.Its a result of a life given over.A result of a sacrifice given to God in the depths of prayer and consecration.I don't doubt the presence of God filled the room if this was the case.That would infact make it indeed beautiful.Its not that you don't cut your hair.Its why you don't cut it.
If you do it out of law because someone said you can't then forget the annointing.If you do it because you feel long hair pleases God and you have decided to never cut it again as a worship and dedication to Jesus then you have the right spirit.Its not just hair because hair in itself has no power.Its the dedication and consecration that goes on in the life of a Spirit Filled Woman who says,"Jesus I dedicate this area of my life to you."
Maybe that is where people are getting off teaching wierdie stuff.They have begun to teach law instead of allowing for dedication and consecration.

Great post!

COOPER 05-22-2007 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Cutlets (Post 123131)
I do agree with you Sis. Ronni. I quoted your statement but wasn't directing my comment at you. :bubble

I don't believe the Holy Hair thing myself. My whole point was about the passage in Corin. from which this debate is derived. And I still maintain that the opposing side has not a Scriptures come back.

bless ya right back :happydance

Emotional topic indeed.

If many of the holiness standards were viewed as consecrations; maybe there would be more respect from both sides of the fence.

Many standards are like vows or fas-tings unto Jesus and I am sure he is blessed and blesses those that do.

And kudos to those that do!

Kutless 05-22-2007 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by COOPER (Post 123144)
Emotional topic indeed.

If many of the holiness standards were viewed as consecrations; maybe there would be more respect from both sides of the fence.

Many standards are like vows or fas-tings unto Jesus and I am sure he is blessed and blesses those that do.

And kudos to those that do!

good point cropper

MissBrattified 05-22-2007 08:28 AM

*sigh*

While I don't believe that having uncut hair is our ticket to all-power-with-God, I do hesitate to deny someone else's experience.

What I believe is that obedience and submission to God results in power and favor with God, and of course men can do that as well as women. Unfortunately when the power of God shows up, some women assume (because of what they've been taught) that the power is there because of their long hair (which could be in indirect source, depending on what you believe, and your submission to God accordingly).

The point being: Whether the woman is wrong about a point of doctrine or not does not mean that she is wrong about the power of God being in the room. She could be misdiagnosing the reason.

I've seen God show up and heal folks and fill people with the Holy Ghost and do all sorts of wonderful things in churches where the doctrine was WAY off. *shrug* Ask Him why.

I feel very uncomfortable analyzing, critiquing, questioning or denying someone else's experience with the power of God. I'd much rather discuss this topic from a more generic point of view. There are a lot of faithful, godly, powerful, anointed women who wear their hair long simply because they believe its the right thing to do in obedience to God, and I do believe that submission and that consecration does translate into favor and blessing from God in many cases. I just don't think it has to do with hair in particular so much as a consecrated life in general, and men are just as capable as women of devoting their lives in such a manner.

I don't think we can say that because we believe the doctrine may be erroneous that the experience must be false, and her account is scary or creepy...I think that is a huge overreaction. To me, that would be like discounting every powerful experience held by any trinitarian as false, simply because their doctrine is erroneous. I believe many people, right or wrong, have had powerful, meaningful, even miraculous experiences with God, that defy reason, and defy the boundaries we place on what is possible. How the person perceives and interprets that experience is impossible to predict.

SDG 05-22-2007 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Pianoman (Post 123101)
I was in a crowd of 67,000 people that witnessed a miracle, the Music City Miracle!! Everyone was shockamooing! The Titans had beaten the Bills! :)

What an ending ... saw it live on TV ....made me shockamoo.

Steve Epley 05-22-2007 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 123031)
I read this on someone's EC page.



Someone please tell me this doctrine isn't being preached all over the UPC still today.

This impacted this lady why besmirch her??? Some have traded their glory for that which has no glory just like Jeremiah said.

rgcraig 05-22-2007 08:34 AM

A good chocolate dessert can make me feel this way!

Steve Epley 05-22-2007 08:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neckstadt (Post 123056)
It is a way for some trapped ladies to feel as if they are doing the right thing.

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I was in a crowd once of some 50,000 plus peole. In September 1992.

An event happened where it was exciting, and felt to me like any pressence of the Holy Ghost I have ever felt.

The problem being I was at County Stadium in Milwaukee.

Robin Yount had just collected his 3000th hit and the crowd went wild.

Not everything felt in the human experience is the power of God.

It's the excitement of the moment.....

Are you saying these folks did not know the difference in the HG and emotion felt at a ball game? And I was called a blasphemer for doubting Trinitarians?

Felicity 05-22-2007 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 123174)
*sigh*

While I don't believe that having uncut hair is our ticket to all-power-with-God, I do hesitate to deny someone else's experience.

What I believe is that obedience and submission to God results in power and favor with God, and of course men can do that as well as women. Unfortunately when the power of God shows up, some women assume (because of what they've been taught) that the power is there because of their long hair (which could be in indirect source, depending on what you believe, and your submission to God accordingly).

The point being: Whether the woman is wrong about a point of doctrine or not does not mean that she is wrong about the power of God being in the room. She could be misdiagnosing the reason.

I've seen God show up and heal folks and fill people with the Holy Ghost and do all sorts of wonderful things in churches where the doctrine was WAY off. *shrug* Ask Him why.

I feel very uncomfortable analyzing, critiquing, questioning or denying someone else's experience with the power of God. I'd much rather discuss this topic from a more generic point of view. There are a lot of faithful, godly, powerful, anointed women who wear their hair long simply because they believe its the right thing to do in obedience to God, and I do believe that submission and that consecration does translate into favor and blessing from God in many cases. I just don't think it has to do with hair in particular so much as a consecrated life in general, and men are just as capable as women of devoting their lives in such a manner.

I don't think we can say that because we believe the doctrine may be erroneous that the experience must be false, and her account is scary or creepy...I think that is a huge overreaction. To me, that would be like discounting every powerful experience held by any trinitarian as false, simply because their doctrine is erroneous. I believe many people, right or wrong, have had powerful, meaningful, even miraculous experiences with God, that defy reason, and defy the boundaries we place on what is possible. How the person perceives and interprets that experience is impossible to predict.

Good post overall Abigail.

Misdiagnosing the reason indeed! The power of God could have been present but the understanding of why -- if it's being attributed to hair length is way off.

The way you believe about something can affect how you interpret what is happening around you.


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