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Any ever experienced severe job related burnout? How did you deal with it? Change jobs? Take a different job maing less money/responsibility? I feel like I'm at the end of my rope (professionally speaking). I read an article on wiki about burnout that speaks about with the exception of a change in values/depression type stuff-I feel like my faith in God has kept me level headed, but mentally/emotionally I am tired, drained, unproductive, and ready to give up and move on. But if I do that I throw all stability out the window, I'd have to move out of my house, find a new job, would probably efect where I go to church, be a huge paycut no matter where I go, etc.

I'm wondering what others have done? Did you leave a job you enjoyed because you got burned out? If you did, did you ever regret it, or were you glad to move on?

PS-yes I've prayed about it. Been praying, and will continue to pray. If you want to pray for me also I won't ask you not to. But in particular I'm asking whose dealt with this before, and did getting away from it help you or hurt you (did you have regrets) in the long run. Especially if someone left a job and immediately saw their income cut in half, if you did that, was it worth it?

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Well...

Always know you options... Maybe look into other jobs DONT DONT QUIT YOUR DAY JOB!

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I worked a Paper Mill for 16 years once. It was a great job making good money for me anyway. I just got where I dreaded going in every day. I lived in Ohio then.

I got the idea to move to the Somerset Ky area. Lots of chances to hike, camp, shoot, and fish. Maybe there could even be a real New Testament Church there!

Well we did move. Things have not quite panned out here. Yes I got another job. It started at half my former pay. We bought a modest trailer here so no more house payment.

Problem is the Churches here are far less spiritual than they are even in Dayton Ohio. At least seemingly. And of course much fewer.

The place we wound up getting is about an hours drive from the National Forest. Does not sound bad but on what I make now it makes it hard to actually get out and enjoy it. We went from hiking at least once a month down to about once or twice a year.

The worst thing is we have made no real friends here. I do have "work friends" but in 11 years here we have never had anyone come to our place to visit except people from Ohio.

I think if I had it to do over I would not have moved. Seems like it would have been better to keep pushing on at the old job.

Of course if the Lord is leading that's what one must follow.

I have been working with mentally disabled persons since I have been here. That has been quite challenging but quite rewarding at the same time.

My advice for people would GENERALLY be stay where you have family and friends unless you are reasonably sure the Lord is leading otherwise.

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You mean AFF? :)


(its not hating if I include myself)

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Thanks Mike. That's what I'm wondering about. I appreciate your honesty relating your experience.

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Go to Boston.

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Jason,

Not that you haven't done this already but sit down and make a list of pro's and con's.

I have been at the same job for over 14yrs now - I make good money and it is only 4-miles from my home. I have thought seriously on a few occasions about doing something different. I love to work with my hands fixing and making things. I do get to do some of that on my current job, but mostly it is office related.

That all being said, I have a wife and two children and I feel that the financial stability is a blessing to my home - also after 14-years I get a substantial amount of vacation, which I use to spend quality time with my family.

The list will help you identify the positives and negatives and draw a clearer picture as to the motivation for change. Bless you Bro.!

Words of advice given to me years ago: Don't close the door behind you until the door in front of you is opened.

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One idea would be to get trained in another field/area with your job. Just tell your employer whats going on and see if you can learn something new, or do something new, either while holding your current position or not.

I did this once and actually got a small raise :)

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He's at the top with no room for growth.

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To quote Highlander, "I have something to say. It is better to burn out, than to fade away!".

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I've been on my current job 14 years... The job before this one for 8 with two brief (couple of months each) jobs between. Essentially I'm doing the same work in different places with some slight variations.

When I quit the first job in this field I was totally burned out and wanted a change. Going into another field was not an option because I needed the money I was making where I had education and experience invested. My first move was out of the frying pan and into the fire. I went from a place where I was burned out but had good hours and was trusted and respected to workring for a nut that paid better for a reason... putting up with him and his crazy wife in the office. The work schedule was erratic, management was unprofessional...and at one point my check wouldn't cash... That was the end for me. Then I took a job in a huge corporation... lot's of being treated like a number and micromanaging.

So I felt fortunate to land where I am now. In my 14 years here I've had some moments of burnout... I just wait them out. I liken it to how long term marriage can feel... some days are diamonds and some are dust but if I am giving what I can there is always a way to eventually find satisfaction again.

Looking back I would have been better off to have stayed in my first job... I'd have nearly 25 years of seniority now and would be nearing possible early retirement. Instead I took and spent my 401K during a period of unemployment and lower wage earning after I left and had to start over... Now I will need to work probably an additional 10 or 15 years to make up for that.

If you are making a good wage and have good job security in the current climate you have gold... Maybe a change of attitude and gratitude would help?

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Love this! One caveat... one can not always know what is hiding behind door number 2. I actually looked really long and hard for a good job when I left my first job... It turned out that I should have been interviewing them instead of them interviewing me. If you go looking remember that. You have a good job, someone should be convincing YOU that you want to change. And whoever brought up vacation made a huge point... I went from 5 weeks a year of PTO to 1 week of PTO when I started over... Ugh, horrible!

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Another option is go volunteer for a few weekends.... Find a group that goes out to homeless camps, we did & you will get a new outlook & appreciate life (even your boring job) SOOOooooo much more

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It is so hard to make a change because you just don't know what you are going into. As they say, sometimes the devil you know is better than the devil you don't know. I made a big change in my life last year with attempting to go to nursing school. I felt like it was God's will for my life and I learned a great deal about myself and others and found a job in my original field immediately after leaving nursing school over a change in policy, which was a God-send. I think I did what I was supposed to do. However, I have lost some things as well. It's too bad we can't pick and choose the good from all places.

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I had yet another thought for you Jason... Have you considered starting your own business? I did that during a slump time at my husbands present job when he was sure he wanted out sooner rather than later... We bought a farm and began farming, using our higher earning potential to finance it.

We have just gotten to the point that Don could 'retire' to the farm as we're in a position to ramp up to replacing his income. That was a real possibility recently when he had surgery and it looked like he would not make it back before the end of his FMLA caused him to lose his job. Two things happened with that... We realized that we really do have the security of the farm and Don realized that he values his job and is not ready to leave it... More of the ebb and flow of burnout... right now the tide is out for him and he'd like to work a few more years.

Maybe start something small at home, involve family if you can (or make room for them when they are older) and just see where it goes... If it's something you are passionate about it may give you enough stress relief to see you happy again at work if just for the money... and if it takes off you could be the next Duck Commander :)

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Our businesses have both really taken off and we are getting to the point where doing them and our jobs is getting to be a lot. My husband is also concerned he may be being roped into a huge project at work. I have considered trying to get less hours at work if this happens to make things more manageable. After leaving my other job last year and managing to find the one I have, I really would be nervous to leave a job yet again. One of the hazards of going into business is that they just may be successful!! LOL!

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Jason, I’ve been thinking a lot about this thread. You have been on my heart for some reason. I’ve prayed for you.

I do have some words for you. I don’t know if it will help or not… Believe it or not, I just completed a series teaching on something that kind of follows this subject.

It all started with a sermon “Things that don’t exist” The point was, there is no such thing as a passive Christian and there really is no such thing as a passive sinner.

We are either working toward the goal (Paul’s “Mark for the high calling…”) or we are working at cross prepossesses. That lack of working toward the goal leaves us at cross purposes with God and we end up frustrated.

Paul talks about the “Old Man” and how we put him in the grave etc. What I find with most Christians is, they put down the old man, but often hold onto the thought process, goals, desires, intent of the old man. Not realizing that God intends the new man to have new ideas driving toward what God intends for us. Holding onto the desires and goals of the old man while being driven by the heart of the new man leads again to frustration. We work at cross purposes with ourselves!

Sin is the same. The bible talks about the WORKS of the flesh. Sin is WORK. It seems easy but it always leaves us empty. It is akin to taking a shovel and digging a giant hole in the ground. It is work and in the end, it is exhausting.

That led me to look for an answer. In the end I came up with something really simple. LIVE ON PURPOSE. Be intentional about your life!

Do you know where you are going? If you don’t, then you are just floating around allowing life to happen to you. And believe it or not, that is vastly MORE exhausting than WORKING toward the goals that God intends! Again, there is no such thing as a passive Christian.
I think in some measure your burnout is a result of this very thing. I mean no insult here. I came to this because of my own experience. My own burnout caused by much the same thing. Maybe I am projecting… If so, please forgive my intrusion, but I really believe in the commonality of our shared experience and if something is going on in one person’s life, chances are, it is common to mankind.

So what to do? Well first decide to really “run the race” that Paul talked about. Run. Really commit yourself to finding out what the goals, desires, intent and way of thinking God intends for YOU. Dig in and figure that out.

Know also that your personal life is not separate from your spiritual life! Rather, it is an extension of it. So if your personal life is not fulfilling, then maybe you have not connected the two.

Any race begins in the starting blocks. The starting blocks require the runner to go to their knees. Start there. In prayer. Now I am not suggesting you aren’t already doing that but I would be remiss to assume and not say it.

Pray. A lot. Then pray some more.

Then from that place start working on what you believe God intends for you. Then develop a plan. Do you have a 1 year plan for your life? I mean one that incorporates what God intends for you spiritually and how your personal life helps attain those goals?
You need that. You need a 5 year plan. You need a 10 year plan. And you need to take the baby steps to get you where you want to be.

You cannot quit a job because you don’t like it. But you can begin to prepare yourself for something that is fulfilling. You may find that by adjusting your goals to those that are from God, you become more satisfied with what you are doing in your personal life. When you see how it brings you into the place you need to be spiritually, how it helps fulfill that part of your life, you may find a better outlook.

OR you may find that were you are at work is just all wrong. Don’t quit working. That will just frustrate everything. Instead, begin to change the things about yourself that bring you where you need to be. Start learning new skills. Skills that are in line with your new goals. Start working on understanding what you are SUPPOSED to be doing. Then build a plan to get there.

Working toward something that has the stamp of approval by God Almighty will absolutely change your outlook and rejuvenate you.


One last thing. I am going to start teaching Purpose Driven Life this Sunday. It is a good fit for the subject at hand. Get the book if you don’t have it. Go thru it.

Just START Bro! I believe in you!

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Posts like that remind me of why I participate here. God has used you today Ferd. :)

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Well so far this week has been a little better. I have a meeting with the owner tomorrow at 9am, partly to come up with a solution regarding responsibilities and time off so that "everyone has a life." Including myself, and the VP (his son). I got a little relief this week, in that my Wednesday work day was shortened to 5 hours (as it stands I work 6 days a week-normally Saturday is a "half da" which ranges from 3 to 7 hours, normally closer to 7 than 3). I'll see how things turn out. I was checking in on AFF and saw several comments so I'll reply.

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I think StillStanding's advice was good. I would say the first thing to do is don't do anything out of frustration. The old saying about the grass not being greener on the other side is usually true.

Whatever frustrations you have on your current job might be the same or worse if you leave and have to take a job paying less. Then you will have that same frustration plus money problems.

I faced your same situation about 15 years ago and actually had my wife tell me she was with me to make a drastic move that would have meanat much less income and living in a small apartment with children vs the home we were in. Just knowing my wife was with me if I decided to do it kind of freed my mind and when I thought it through I knew that I had to live my life with my kids first and I was not going to impact their lives in a negative way by bringing economic hardship to them. It was not like I would be spending more time with them as I probably would have had to get two jobs to pursue the dream I had.

As soon as I resolved to do what was best for my family and not me personally God opened a door that meant a move to a cool place and a considerable increase in income. I was glad I did not do anything rash in that year I wrestled with what you are now.

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Thanks Lemon. I haven't done this on paper, but in my mind several times. There are a lot more pros than cons, really there are just 2 big cons 1)my job consumes most of my time and 2)stress. The stress isn't a constant sometimes it comes in big waves, and then at other times I fell good for weeks at a time. But the demand on my time is constant. Beside that the pros are, like you, 1) I live extremely close to my job. My boss helped me to find a home less than 1/2 mile from my job (used to live 45 minutes away) and it is the nicest home, nicest neighborhood I've ever lived in. 2)I enjoy being "the boss", not because of "power" but because it is a great opportunity to help people. There is no better feeling (secularly speaking) than giving someone a raise, telling them they are getting a promotion, handing out bonus checks, or even giving a job to someone that no one else will hire (usually because of criminal record). 3)I love not having a schedule. While its true that I am working 6 days, if I go in at 6am 8am or 9am no one says "you're late". I go to work when I want, and to a certain degree I can take off when I want. Which sounds great, but in reality its not as good as it sounds because whether I go in at 6 or 9, I have a solid 10hrs of work ahead of me, and if I take off a certain day, or leave early, then I just put myself further behind. Still overall its a plus. 4)Financial stability. I'm making nearly 3 times more than I ever made anywhere else. 5)I never have to work Sundays, unless I want to, and when I do I can work after church.
6)I've been here 8 years, and the vacation time is another plus.

Good advice. I've always said don't quit a job until you have another one, and talked about foolish people I have who quit (usually w/o notice), then attempt to come back after a couple of months because they can't find another job, or realize they didn't have it so bad. I don't want to find myself rowing in that same boat.

Ironically this is what has kind of led me into burnout. I started with the company at 24yrs old as a dept mgr. A month later I became a supervisor (sometime called district manager) for that department. But we were going through a lot of store managers, so I convinced my employer to give me a chance at store manager (even though I had zero mgmt. experience outside of my dept) and they did, but I was still responsible for the district mgr duties of my dept. Then I noticed another dept struggling, didn't have a supervisror, so I offered to supervise that department for all of our locations. All this happened within a year and a half to 2 yrs. So I'm 26, and doing the job of 2 district mgrs., plus a store manager, really 3 peoples jobs at the time. Then I get promoted from store mgr to asst gen mgr (but still keep the 2 depts. I'm responsible for), so then I begin to be involved with all aspects of the operation. After a couple more years, and some shake ups, I end up as General Mgr, and oversee essentially all day to day operations, and still am heavily involved in many of the duties I picked up while being asst gen mgr. (Previously Gen Mgr was responsibly for store level ops, and as Asst GM I was responsible for advertising, buying, some pricing, etc). So now, I got all the responsibilities I ever asked for, and now I'm wishing I had some people to delegate them to. I've tried, and continue to try, but to this point most of the people we've tried in supervision haven't worked out, I'm hoping for better success from recently promoted supervisors, but still have 2 vacant positions. I used to want to prove myself, but now I just want some help. I've even put in a standing resignation, i.e. I'm willing to resign at any time if the company feels it has someone qualified for the job.

The only growth I more I could have would to be an heir. Only the owners son is above me. They both treat me well (its the stress and time demand of the job that gets me), but I can't do anything more. I'm looking to do less, or at the very least, just do the job of one person.

I've heard it said (I think by a now famous missionary to China) "Let me burn out for thee, O God." That one of the things weighing on me. I give so much of my time to something that in and of itself is useless. God is my witness, I don't care about the money or material things. But at the same time, I have 2 children and as Lemon said, a responsibility to provide them a stable home, which this job easily does. My kids are 10 & 12yrs old. If they weren't at home anymore, I think I'd have long since downsized house, cars, and financial liabilities. So in a way I'm torn between providing well for them, and wanting to spend time with them. (I'll get on the religious aspect later). I think, "what if I quit, I'll have more time, but will we have any money to do anything?" What if we have time, but just sit around at the house on all my days off because I can't afford extra expense on gas, food, or anything that costs to do? Right now at least when I do take time off, I can cover anything they want to do (locally and within reason-I'm not saying I can afford to go on big vacations at will or anything like that). But, back to the burn out comment, I'd rather burn out for God. I'd rather give the majority of my time to Him, then to my family, and third to work. That's my priorities, but my time mgmt. doesn't always fit, and that's partly because my standard workweek for the last 7 years has been 6 days almost every week, plus taking work home 2 or 3 nights a week, sometimes 4 or 5 nights a week. Its a job that literally never ends, you're never caught up, it is never completed, not even for a day. Its constant, and unless you worked 20hrs/day 6 days a week, you really can't even stay caught up....so I don't. I try to limit my hours to 55, sometimes I've worked only about 50, many times I'm probably about 75.

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This, like MTD and CC1s post are really helpful to me. It seems that the consensus is, you're not always benefitted by leaving. All 3 of you kind of describe what I feel, and it helps to hear how things turned out for yall.

I'm not in a fearful mode, like "what if I quit this job will my life fall apart", because I believe that God will be with me doing whatever, as He has also been with yall. In the UPC sometime there is so much hocus pocus about God's will, one can be worried they may move to a house that isn't God's will, buy a car that isn't God's will, work a job that isn't God's will, etc. (That was the mindset of my first pastor, and it affected my thinking for several years-it wasn't until about 2008 I began to realize that even if I did something, and made a mistake God wasn't going to punish me for not being in the right place that was "His will" I've since grown in my thinking to understand that God's will is for me to live my life for Him, and he gives me the freedom to live, work, drive what I want to, so long as He comes first in my life. There isn't a special house, car, and job that I must do, or else God can't bless me.....but yes, that's how I used to think. Probably wouldn't have admitted to it verbally, but psychologically it caused me some mental anguish.

BUT, now my only fear is....what if I leave, then after the stress and pressure goes away I always live with regrets? What if I regret leaving in 2 weeks, or 2 months, or 2 years? If I left, I'm pretty sure I could even come back, but it would probably never be the same again. The owner of the company has such confidence in me, and has helped me do so many things in my life, if I did leave, and try to come back, I'm sure they'd have a place for me, but I'm fairly sure our relationships would never be the same again.

But posts like these are helping me see the other side. Really the greatest concern is the unknown.

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Interesting. I've thought about it, but it was a brief thought. I'm still really young (just turned 32) and I don't have the assets or capital to start a business, or the time. And after being so involved in my current business, I don't think I want to deal with all the corporate taxes, licenses, unemployment hearings, etc that go with it. And more than anything, I just don't have the time.

Duck Commander.......Hmmmmm....:heeheehee

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Thank Ferd. This really means a lot to me, because I'm nothing more than an internet persona to you with a profile pic, but you read my anguish, and care enough to remember me in your prayers. Thank you. I don't take it lightly. :)
Good words. :thumbsup

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Jason,

One caveat to my advice and experience is that if I were a young single man with no debt and was in the situation I probably would make a change.

My biggest regret in life is probably not following what I really wanted to do when I was young before I had a family and those financial responsibilities. Once you have that you have to put your family first.

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I'd love to do something like this. Actually one of my desires for having some time off (going to a 5 day workweek) is so I can start a year round food pantry at our church. We did a one time thing at Christmas, but I organized it and helped oversee it. The church is small, and if we are going to start something like that, it would require my time, of which I am more than willing to give.

I also go preach at the county jail on various Thursday evenings, and that is rewarding. Though almost every single time I am working up until time to go to the jail, and throughout the day I battle with mental exhaustion, and think, maybe I should just call them and tell them I am working late tonight and cant make it (like I said in another post, my work never ends, and so many nights I works up to or past 7pm, which is the time I have to be at the jail to go through security/check in.) But then after I get there and preach, I am so encouraged, I NEVER regret going. In fact, I many times walk into the jail drained and exhausted, and walk out refreshed and energized. I've told my wife, "I go to minister to them, but its like they are ministering to me and they don't even realize it."

Really all of this intensified when I came back from vacation (first week of May) to find out I was now going to be the preacher at the church I attend. (I'm not the pastor, technically that church hasn't had a pastor since its inception in Feb 2012, but the responsibilities are the exact same). I was already wanting to get some more free time before that happened anyway, but since then it is really been getting to me. Feels like I'm trying to do everything, but I don't want to do everything. The struggle is, its the job that pays the bills, and takes care of the needs of my family. Its the church and work with people (both the lost in outreach and the saved in their growth with Christ) that is really what I want to give my life to (Ferd this is also a response to your post-in that I'm torn 2 ways). I don't feel like I don't have purpose, I feel like I can't give the time and effort I want to to the church, unless I neglect my family (because work is a necessity right now, either where I am or somewhere else). I think that's where my rub is.

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Right. This is clear to me. I've got a meeting in the morning, and I'm in good spirits hoping we are going to get something resolved.

I've been pretty open on this thread, and I'm posting with my real name, so theres the possibility someone could come across it from work or church (but I think its unlikely anyone will find it here on AFF). That said I don't regret what I've shared, and I appreciate everyones feedback. Expressing myself has also been helpful for me. Sometime an outlet to vent helps.

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Jason,

The scary thing about using your real name as a screen name on any forum is that a google search somebody does for your name will pull up your posts.

I just did a google search of your name and the third result was a thread here you have posted in!

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Can you hire someone to lighten your work load?

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Bro. Jason, I will be praying that the Lord somehow lightens this burden that you are carrying. Like Houston, I think it sounds like you don't necessarily need to change jobs, but just need some help, an assistant, or someone to help carry the heavy load you have.

Just wanted you to know that I will spend time in prayer for your situation that the Lord will undertake and help you through this.

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And I'm cheap labor. Ha.

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We're trying that. I'm about 40 minutes out of the D/FW metroplex, so most of the qualified workers aren't willing to make the drive. We used to get a lot more pull from there before gas went above $3/gallon consistently (pretty much since Hurricane Katrina), and there is a real shortage of qualified people in my area. We recently hired someone who moved from the Seattle, Wa area and then promoted them to asst GM within the last 4 months, so if that move works out it could spell relief some for me. But I'm still weak on management at every level. I have a recently promoted meat supervisor (but this is his first time as a DM, he's only in his late 30's), and I'm trying to work my best Del-Bkry mgr into a superivosory position. But none of these people have ever been in these roles before. Plus I'm weak at store mgr, asst mgrs, dept mgrs, and slim pickins amongst lower level employees who have potential to train for any of those positions. Pretty much every applicant has had 4 jobs in the last year or 2, spent chunks of time not working, and had an averaged about 1-3 months on each job. Slim pickins.

Perhaps you should move up from Houston....its only a 5hr drive.

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Thank you KBTW.

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Alright. Good thing about my business is though, you don't have to worry about selling something to get commission.

Some people come to AFF attempting to evangelize people to their points of view.....perhaps I should evangelizing people to come to work.

Such is the Obama economy.

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Hi Jason,

Now that you have shared more about your situation I've only got a couple of questions for you.

1. Have you talked to your boss?

Honestly that is where I'd start. I have known several people who have left their jobs for just the reasons you state and also know the people they have worked for (mostly doctors and nurses). When the employer later comes to understand that the employee needed more of their lives back they usually say "If I'd only known I would have hired her some help".

It's easy to keep piling a workload on someone who is able to handle a lot of work and to give the most difficult tasks to the person who will do a good job at them. Still more employers are not trying to make life miserable for someone they value. My advice, make a list of what you'd like to be different and take it to your boss. Let him know that you love and appreciate your job but that at this point you need more family time. If you have sufficiently bathed the situation in prayer I have every confidence that he will hear you and his response will be positive. If noting else maybe you could consider taking a lesser position in your current company where you have seniority and a history. Maybe offer to return to a store mgr. or some other position with the attendant pay cut... You might still be better off than starting over or leaving and coming back. I have seen a lot of people leave my job in 14 years and many have come back, it is never held against them that they tried something else.

The second question is: How much of this are you demanding of yourself rather than someone else demanding it of you? In my experience a lot of 'go-getter' types project that the workload they take on was somehow required when in reality a lot of what they have taken on comes from either a failure to delegate or the idea that 'If you want something done right do it yourself' overplayed in their work lives.

I'm not saying any of this is your situation for sure but could it be part of it? I also have a job that no one else does when I am gone and work piles up until I get back. This left me picking off vacation days one or two at a time because it is also work that can not wait weeks. With Don's recent surgery I realized that it was time to train someone to cover for me and so I have. I am now looking forward to a week long vacation with my grandchildren before school goes back in fall.

I pray peace over your situation.

Melissa

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Going back to school full time for two years following a layoff was the best for me at the time and was very rewarding as well as getting me a pretty good paying job. Don't ever move too hastily. Every time I moved to a different town/state it took a lot out of the family for obvious reasons. On the school note....pick your area of study carefully. Lots of degrees still being offered for dieing occupations.

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Or occupations that were never in much demand to begin with.

I am still somewhat regretting getting my masters degree in Erotic Clay Sculpturing even though the recruiter told me it would take me far. . . .

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12 years ago, I had a great contract job with INS (now known as ICE); worked there for several years and loved it. Then I responded to an offer by a Pastor to assist him. He said the church had an apartment and would take care of my living expenses, but that I could find a good part-time or full-time job to take care of any other expenses/amenities. I prayed about it, thought it was the thing to do....leap of faith kind of thing.

Well, the leap of faith turned out to be a massive face-plant. A couple weeks after I moved, I was told the church needed the apartment for another couple who was going to be the youth pastor, and the church wouldn't be able to cover any rent or living expenses. Suddenly, I was having to face paying rent/living expenses and anything else with my $8/hour job. At that time I was making close to $35,000 and had passed a promotion which would have paid up to $50,000. For a single young man, that would've been more than enough.

I wasn't able to recover from the financial hit. Going from $35K to 15K is a punch to the gut, even for a single guy. I started getting behind on bills just to pay rent/living expenses. One snowy morning before church, I went out and brushed the car off went back inside to get some things before leaving. I came back out 10 minutes later to find my car gone. Of course, I called the police to report it stolen, but was told it was not stolen; rather, it was repo'd.

For several years any tax refund was garnished because I had defaulted on my school loans. Three years ago, I finally was able to pay consistently enough for a year to get it out of default status. My credit is still messed up from the missed payments and collections.

I wasn't burned out. In fact, I thought I was doing God's will. If I had it to do over again, I wouldn't have left my job. Instead, I would have commuted on the weekends to the city where the church was to make sure it worked out.

Be careful leaving something that's secure for something that isn't. Regardless if it's because you're burned out or even if it's for a ministry.

Re: Burnout
 

As I read this, I thought, Wow, JB, you have a great job! Two thoughts come to mind to hopefully improve your situation. More vacations and more delegation. If you can do those two things, I think that would be great.