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seekerman 10-27-2013 05:56 PM

Decline Of The Family Unit
 
This is quite a long read, but I know of people who are doing this....very disturbing to say the least.

I'm over 60 years old and I've seen society change from marriage being sacred to divorce being used whenever a selfish life and lust become more important than the marriage. And I know there are divorces for reasons other than that, but I see that mindset becoming more and more prevalent.

I fear to think about what society is going to be for my grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/26/living...html?hpt=hp_c3

ILG 10-27-2013 08:11 PM

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Okay.....I really have trouble wrapping my head around that....

berkeley 10-27-2013 08:14 PM

It's biblical.


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seekerman 10-27-2013 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by berkeley (Post 1284105)
It's biblical.


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Please, don't do this to us! Give scripture. :icecream

berkeley 10-27-2013 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by seekerman (Post 1284107)
Please, don't do this to us! Give scripture. :icecream

no time...

David... Samson.. Et al

seekerman 10-27-2013 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by berkeley (Post 1284108)
no time...

David... Samson.. Et al

David was sharing his wives?

berkeley 10-27-2013 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by seekerman (Post 1284109)
David was sharing his wives?

the wives were sharing David

seekerman 10-27-2013 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by berkeley (Post 1284112)
the wives were sharing David

Yes they were, that's polygamy. The article was speaking of something else entirely....

"Polyamory is the nonpossessive, honest, responsible and ethical philosophy and practice of loving multiple people simultaneously. Polyamory emphasizes consciously choosing how many partners one wishes to be involved with rather than accepting social norms which dictate loving only one person at a time. Polyamory is an umbrella term which integrates traditional multipartner relationship terms with more recent terms. Polyamory is from the root words Poly meaning many and Amor meaning Love hence "Many Loves" or Polyamory."

I don't find that practiced in the bible unless it was in pagan circles. Certainly not practiced by David and his family or Solomon and his family.

ILG 10-28-2013 07:43 AM

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Polygamy was practiced in the Bible and doesn't seem to be condemned anywhere except for Bishops. However, God did give Adam Eve only. You won't find me signing up for anything else.

Aquila 10-28-2013 09:26 AM

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I think there is a spiritual hunger for fellowship, openness, oneness, and intimacy that isn't being met through spiritual fellowship... so they end up looking for this intimacy in "all the wrong places".

Aquila 10-28-2013 09:29 AM

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Some might just have some freaky sexual "kinks" that they can't work out personally and so they experiment with this thinking that it will bring them happiness. I believe the happiness will be short lived. Everyone wants to ultimately be a single somebody's everything. When that instinct rears it's head, jealousy will break forth shattering their "polyamory".

Luke 10-28-2013 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Aquila (Post 1284152)
Some might just have some freaky sexual "kinks" that they can't work out personally and so they experiment with this thinking that it will bring them happiness. I believe the happiness will be short lived. Everyone wants to ultimately be a single somebody's everything. When that instinct rears it's head, jealousy will break forth shattering their "polyamory".

Great post. That article was both sad and sick.

renee819 10-28-2013 03:14 PM

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I'm afraid that, love is leaving this earth. When I say that, I realize, that God is love. And God won't leave the earth, because He is everywhere.

But those people, in that article, don't want anything to do with God. And they certainly don't know what love is. (I wonder how many of that group would claim to be Christians?)
What they have is lust and the desire for selfish pleasure, because they are sinners. No use for anyone to preach morals to them. They will sin until God (in His mercy) uses a 2 x 4 to wake them up.

But the sad thing is, that is the way that the world is going. But even sadder, some in Christianity through lack of true teaching, and by listening to the Media, and psychology of this world, are following in their footsteps. It will get worse.

Quote:

Matthew 24:12 And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.
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2 Timothy 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
:4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
All you have to do is turn on the TV and see all of that displayed right in front of you. Except, many don't even claim a form of godliness, unless it is a Christian channel, and then you also see that "form of godliness".

But most advertise their sins as if they have found the pleasure of all pleasures, therefore they want others to join them. Besides if others join, it soothes their conscience, and shows their supposedly, more wisdom than others.

Brothers and sisters above all else, we must not lose our love for one another. If we don't love one another, we don't love God.

Blackxeas 10-28-2013 10:26 PM

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(Yawn)

Praxeas 07-28-2014 12:02 AM

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Evang.Benincasa 07-28-2014 06:25 AM

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