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Ferd 12-11-2013 09:54 AM

Middle Age is insulting!
 
Its true. every day it seems i find some new proof.

I just did a look at my facebook, and there are no less than 5 of my friends reporting in on some status related to some surgery.

its crazy! i didnt post on me, but i am on the list too! LOL!

(im doing great and it was nothing major at all just middleageisinsultingstuff).

KeptByTheWord 12-11-2013 10:31 AM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Who made up the saying about the "golden years".... I wonder about that! lol...

I guess it is kinda like when you buy a new car. It is beautiful, unflawed, and unbroken. But as the years pass, it requires more maintenance, time and care, and things continue to break down that have to be fixed.... and the older it gets, the more maintenance it requires...

Just like us .... we are born new as babies, and the older we get, the more maintenance we require to keep us working and in good condition... just part of the getting old process I guess!

Ferd 12-11-2013 12:27 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by KeptByTheWord (Post 1291981)
Who made up the saying about the "golden years".... I wonder about that! lol...

I guess it is kinda like when you buy a new car. It is beautiful, unflawed, and unbroken. But as the years pass, it requires more maintenance, time and care, and things continue to break down that have to be fixed.... and the older it gets, the more maintenance it requires...

Just like us .... we are born new as babies, and the older we get, the more maintenance we require to keep us working and in good condition... just part of the getting old process I guess!

Who? some lying liar thats who! LOL

serously I have to take my glasses OFF to read now. One might say that is a good thing...right up until I stop reading, move along to the next thing and remember that I have forgotten where I last had MYSTINKINGGLASSES!!!!!!

LOL.

Sorry for shouting. but my hearing is going (too many overly loud concerts in the halcion days of my youth)....

MawMaw 12-11-2013 12:53 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
But we do get those senior discounts! Hey!! :D

ILG 12-11-2013 01:51 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
I've been thinking about all this lately since some problems with a tooth and my husband being recommended some minor surgery. :( It seems like it's all downhill from here! But that's too negative. What are some of the positives? (Besides that senior discount??)

navygoat1998 12-11-2013 02:25 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Ferd (Post 1291972)
Its true. every day it seems i find some new proof.

I just did a look at my facebook, and there are no less than 5 of my friends reporting in on some status related to some surgery.

its crazy! i didnt post on me, but i am on the list too! LOL!

(im doing great and it was nothing major at all just middleageisinsultingstuff).


Its over rated! I am going back to my 30's cya!

Ferd 12-11-2013 02:38 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by navygoat1998 (Post 1292054)
Its over rated! I am going back to my 30's cya!

amen brotha!

Abiding Now 12-11-2013 03:21 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
When I turned 45, someone made a comment about MID-life and I asked, "How many 90 year olds do you know".

:foottap

Rose 12-11-2013 03:50 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Try to find something 'golden' in Diminishing hearing and vision, extra pounds, irregularity, dental plates, doctors visits, memory and breathing problems.

I'm currently recovering from a knee arthroscopy. Ahhhhh, youth!

Timmy 12-11-2013 04:18 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Got to order from the senior's menu at Denny's a few years ago. (Yes. I've been old for that long.) What joy! A lot less food for a little less money! :lol

KeptByTheWord 12-11-2013 06:50 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Ya'll are making me wanna turn the clock back now! :lol

Well, I guess I can sort of look forward to the discounts.... the thrifty part of my soul will like that... ;)

ILG 12-12-2013 08:08 AM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
So, the discounts are it, eh?? LOL!

Honestly, it looks like a scary road. I am not sure how much medical attention I want. I think I will be picking and choosing from that platter like a buffet. Take this, reject that. Thank God for Google. ;)

Sometimes I think societies that are a little more accepting of aging have some of it right.

KeptByTheWord 12-12-2013 09:53 AM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Yes, the older you get, the more scary the thought of a nursing homes becomes!

Indeed, other countries seem to place more emphasis on the elderly, and it is without question a matter of fact that a family pitches in to take care of the elderly. However, in our country, a nursing home seems more convenient. And there are times when someone just cannot be cared for in a home.

But I am talking about someone just getting old and forgetful, who can't drive any longer, who ends up in an institution because no one in the family is willing to make the sacrifice to care for them at home.

I've already starting talking to my kids about those days hopefully far off in the future where their dad or I may need to live with them... lol.... and we have talked to our parents as well, and let them know they are always welcome to live with us should the days come that they need help, and cannot live alone.

Rose 12-12-2013 10:52 AM

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I only have a DIL and she has stated she is not keeping me or her mother should the need ever arise. Therefore, instead of a nursing home I'm praying to go in the rapture. :)

MawMaw 12-12-2013 02:01 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Well I have a sweet DIL who is going to nursing school
so as she puts it...."I can take care of my parents and
my husbands parents, if the need ever arises."
Bless her sweet darlin heart! :heart

(plus she's hopin to make some money too of course!) :p

Rose 12-12-2013 03:36 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Sister Lacey, you are blessed!

Esaias 12-12-2013 04:38 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Pro 16:31
The hoary head is a crown of glory, if it be found in the way of righteousness.

Lev 19:32

Thou shalt rise up before the hoary head, and honour the face of the old man, and fear thy God: I am the LORD.

MawMaw 12-12-2013 04:49 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Rose (Post 1292239)
Sister Lacey, you are blessed!

TY Sis Rose!!! I really am blessed
with 2 wonderful DIL!! :heart

Abiding Now 12-13-2013 09:24 AM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Getting old is not for wimps...............

:grumpy

:IAM

:grampa

:gpagripes

shazeep 12-13-2013 11:39 AM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Rose (Post 1292073)
Try to find something 'golden' in Diminishing hearing and vision, extra pounds, irregularity, dental plates, doctors visits, memory and breathing problems.

I'm currently recovering from a knee arthroscopy. Ahhhhh, youth!

Well, for what it's worth, i am completely convinced that all (or almost all) of that can be cured with real food; which you cannot find in a grocery store anymore--not even in the produce section.
Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 1292086)
Got to order from the senior's menu at Denny's a few years ago. (Yes. I've been old for that long.) What joy! A lot less food for a little less money! :lol

...or in Denny's :)

The Mrs 12-13-2013 01:38 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Ferd (Post 1291972)
Its true. every day it seems i find some new proof.

I just did a look at my facebook, and there are no less than 5 of my friends reporting in on some status related to some surgery.

its crazy! i didnt post on me, but i am on the list too! LOL!

(im doing great and it was nothing major at all just middleageisinsultingstuff).

You forgot the hashtag. :heeheehee

Abiding Now 12-13-2013 04:20 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
My kid told me that if I was bad, she would come to the nursing home, push me out in the sun and leave me. I kinda watch that kid pretty close. :D

shazeep 12-14-2013 11:35 AM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
lol

Abiding Now 12-14-2013 12:31 PM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
My knees hurts really bad.

Just sayin................

Ferd 12-16-2013 07:25 AM

Re: Middle Age is insulting!
 
I was at a party this weekend.

the conversation among the guys ended up going to the Annual Exam.... ugh

again, middleageisinsulting HASHTAG!


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