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KeptByTheWord 11-03-2015 09:09 AM

Once Saved Always Saved
 
Our single widowed neighbor, who is a staunch Baptist, had a discussion with us where she said she believes in once saved always saved. We had a discussion about how we view it. She did not really have any scripture to back up her position, but said she was going home to study it, and present it to us at a later time.

What is the best way to refute this doctrine?

We took her to Revelation where Jesus was speaking to the churches, and it was quite obvious that they were believers, and yet he was rebuking them strongly, and if they didn't repent, he would "spue them out of his mouth". Her response to this was that they were never believers in the first place for this to happen. This is the card they play to get out of the concept of not being once saved always saved.

Any scriptures, pointers or ideas/concepts in which it can be discussed with her that we can't just live recklessly after our faith in Jesus, and still expect to be saved? She is not doing that of course - she loves the Lord dearly, and I believe the Lord has led her to come into our path to lead her to more truth. I just want to handle this carefully. She has been coming to our home group meetings, and she has expressed how wonderful it is to gather like this, and feel the sweet spirit of the Lord in our meetings. We believe the Lord wants to lead her on to greater truth.

mfblume 11-03-2015 09:26 AM

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God wills that one be lost or perish. That shuts the whole thing down right there. If He wills none perish, then there is no such thing as Him willing only certain ones to be saved. OSAS believes God chooses not to save everyone, but only some ,and he chooses the rest to go to hell. They hate putting it that way, but that's what OSAS essentially is saying.

2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.

shazeep 11-03-2015 09:56 AM

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amen, and what God wills gets accomplished. But i would counsel against trying to "prove" either side of this argument, and instead see that there is support for both sides, and coming to a better understanding of a mystery should be paramount.

KeptByTheWord 11-03-2015 09:56 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1401431)
God wills that one be lost or perish. That shuts the whole thing down right there. If He wills none perish, then there is no such thing as Him willing only certain ones to be saved. OSAS believes God chooses not to save everyone, but only some ,and he chooses the rest to go to hell. They hate putting it that way, but that's what OSAS essentially is saying.

2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.

Ok thanks, Bro. MF. So, just to recap - essentially the Calvinist idea behind OSAS is that God determines who will be saved or lost, and if you are saved, you will be saved regardless of how you live, because God has determined you will be saved or go to hell.

But then the verse in Peter refutes that, because it says that God wills that none should perish, but all come to repentance.

This scripture speaks pretty solidly that one can lose their salvation, I think.

Heb. 10:26 "For if we sin wilfuly after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, but a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries."

KeptByTheWord 11-03-2015 09:57 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by shazeep (Post 1401440)
amen, and what God wills gets accomplished. But i would counsel against trying to "prove" either side of this argument, and instead see that there is support for both sides, and coming to a better understanding of a mystery should be paramount.

Right, that is exactly what I want to avoid. I just want to show her the other side of the argument, which I don't think she has ever considered.

KeptByTheWord 11-03-2015 10:02 AM

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In the case of Esau, Pharaoh, and Judas... it does seem that God used their existence to bring about a greater good... so... was it God's will for those three to come to repentance, or was their existence and evil works allowed without repentance, to bring about His greater purpose?

Esaias 11-03-2015 10:04 AM

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Hebrews 6:4-8 utterly refutes OSAS.

Romans 11:20-21 does likewise.

Esaias 11-03-2015 10:10 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by KeptByTheWord (Post 1401441)
Ok thanks, Bro. MF. So, just to recap - essentially the Calvinist idea behind OSAS is that God determines who will be saved or lost, and if you are saved, you will be saved regardless of how you live, because God has determined you will be saved or go to hell.

But then the verse in Peter refutes that, because it says that God wills that none should perish, but all come to repentance.

This scripture speaks pretty solidly that one can lose their salvation, I think.

Heb. 10:26 "For if we sin wilfuly after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, but a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries."

Not all Baptists who believe OSAS are Calvinists. Many just simply believe once you get saved you cannot afterwards be lost regardless of what you do. Calvinists would reject such a notion.

Heb 10:26 is speaking about under the Mosaic economy presumptuous sin had no offering to take care of it. And there is no additional offering for us either if we sin presumptuously. But if we press it to mean once saved and you voluntarily sin you face judgment, then we are in effect saying nobody will be saved, for who can say they NEVER ONCE SINNED after becoming a Christian?

Esther 11-03-2015 10:15 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 1401431)
God wills that one be lost or perish. That shuts the whole thing down right there. If He wills none perish, then there is no such thing as Him willing only certain ones to be saved. OSAS believes God chooses not to save everyone, but only some ,and he chooses the rest to go to hell. They hate putting it that way, but that's what OSAS essentially is saying.

2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.

That is not what OSAS believe but those that believe in predestation.

I have most of mine and my husbands family are Baptist
And they are adament about it.

God told Moses He would blot out the names He would blot out. (Paraphrased)

This tells me you can't be OSAS.

kclee4jc 11-03-2015 10:32 AM

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I personally would not chose to focus on her OSAS doctrine but instead to give her a more clear understanding of the New Birth experience. If she can get a revelation of Acts 2:38 then I would say her OSAS persuasion will not be much of an issue.

The Baptists borrow OSAS (or the perseverance of the saints) from Calvinism, while rejecting the other 4 points. If she becomes ardent in defending the OSAS doctrine you might show her its roots. Then, the scriptures against it are irrefutable. One excellent verse is I Cor. 6:9.

shazeep 11-03-2015 10:48 AM

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there are certainly also Scriptures that seem to be for OSAS, so you might contemplate those...

Pliny 11-03-2015 11:01 AM

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Ananias and Saphira.

Esaias 11-03-2015 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by shazeep (Post 1401454)
there are certainly also Scriptures that seem to be for OSAS, so you might contemplate those...

There is not one scripture that actually teaches OSAS. Any supposed proof texts, if taken to support OSAS, contradict vast swaths of scripture. Yet, every single supposed proof text for OSAS, when examined as to what is actually stated, is seen NOT to support OSAS.

Ezekiel ch 18:24-26 is a clear, unambiguous declaration that OSAS is a false doctrine. If OSAS is true, the prophet was a liar. If the prophet is correct, then OSAS cannot possibly be true, AT ALL.

Pressing-On 11-03-2015 01:53 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401445)
Hebrews 6:4-8 utterly refutes OSAS.

Romans 11:20-21 does likewise.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401447)
Not all Baptists who believe OSAS are Calvinists. Many just simply believe once you get saved you cannot afterwards be lost regardless of what you do. Calvinists would reject such a notion.

Heb 10:26 is speaking about under the Mosaic economy presumptuous sin had no offering to take care of it. And there is no additional offering for us either if we sin presumptuously. But if we press it to mean once saved and you voluntarily sin you face judgment, then we are in effect saying nobody will be saved, for who can say they NEVER ONCE SINNED after becoming a Christian?

We don't always agree politically, (:heeheehee ) but I do agree with you here! :thumbsup

shazeep 11-03-2015 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401459)
Yet, every single supposed proof text for OSAS, when examined as to what is actually stated, is seen NOT to support OSAS.

I'm not disagreeing, but i am saying pull them out now, in order to answer later.

shazeep 11-03-2015 02:18 PM

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For instance, this guy makes some good points, that Mike might have issue with:
"If 'once saved, always saved' is not true, then by necessity we are saved both by our faith and our works."

http://www.allaboutgod.com/once-saved-always-saved.htm

and it prolly contains most of the Baptist arguments.

Esaias 11-03-2015 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by shazeep (Post 1401481)
"If 'once saved, always saved' is not true, then by necessity we are saved both by our faith and our works."

If we are justified by faith only, then by necessity nobody is condemned because of their sins. So, sin is irrelevant, in all cases whatsoever. Nobody needs to worry about sinning, whether they are Christians or not. Woo-hoo! All those people being judged 'according to their works' can notify God on Judgment Day that since we are justified by faith only, He needn't bother opening up those books...

Note: The bible explicitly states 'a man is not justified by faith only.'

Esaias 11-03-2015 02:42 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 1401468)
We don't always agree politically, (:heeheehee ) but I do agree with you here! :thumbsup

Well, we'll have to work on that political business... :icecream

Pressing-On 11-03-2015 02:49 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401487)
Well, we'll have to work on that political business... :icecream

Good luck! :heeheehee

Esaias 11-03-2015 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 1401492)
Good luck! :heeheehee

Luck is for heathens. I am praying for you, though!:dogpat

good samaritan 11-03-2015 02:52 PM

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Jesus prayed for Peter that his faith fail not. I think our definition of faith is often the problem. If faith is just being cognitive of Christ then it wouldn't make sense, but when you see faith as lifestyle system it makes sense. I as a Christian have doubted things in regards to Jesus, but my faith did not cease. I continued in what I believed even when my mind would sometimes be in and out. James that faith without works is dead.

Simply put, you can leave the faith. That does not mean that you quit believing in his existence. People leave the faith(walk) they have with him. Abraham's faith in God led to a covenant relationship and that is still key to our salvation. PS I don't think any of us can judge someone to hell. We can only point to Biblical truth that we have found and warn of the real consequences.

shazeep 11-03-2015 04:48 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401486)
If we are justified by faith only, then by necessity nobody is condemned because of their sins. So, sin is irrelevant, in all cases whatsoever. Nobody needs to worry about sinning, whether they are Christians or not. Woo-hoo! All those people being judged 'according to their works' can notify God on Judgment Day that since we are justified by faith only, He needn't bother opening up those books...

Note: The bible explicitly states 'a man is not justified by faith only.'

yup! Unfortunately, it also states explicitly that he is! :lol
"For we maintain that a man is justified by faith."

shazeep 11-03-2015 04:50 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401487)
Well, we'll have to work on that political business... :icecream

i would put it with your eschatology, and bet that your ice cream survives longer in the fire, lol.

mfblume 11-03-2015 06:00 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by KeptByTheWord (Post 1401444)
In the case of Esau, Pharaoh, and Judas... it does seem that God used their existence to bring about a greater good... so... was it God's will for those three to come to repentance, or was their existence and evil works allowed without repentance, to bring about His greater purpose?

Esau never served his brother when we read the elder shall serve the younger. It's Esau's descendants as a nation. And pharaoh was dealt with as leader of. A nation to affect the nation alone.

mfblume 11-03-2015 06:02 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Esther (Post 1401449)
That is not what OSAS believe but those that believe in predestation.

I have most of mine and my husbands family are Baptist
And they are adament about it.

God told Moses He would blot out the names He would blot out. (Paraphrased)

This tells me you can't be OSAS.

Osas and predestination go hand in hand, though.

Esaias 11-03-2015 06:34 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by shazeep (Post 1401540)
yup! Unfortunately, it also states explicitly that he is! :lol
"For we maintain that a man is justified by faith."

Actually, it never says a man is justified by faith ONLY. But you should have known that.

Sean 11-03-2015 06:45 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by good samaritan (Post 1401495)
Jesus prayed for Peter that his faith fail not. I think our definition of faith is often the problem. If faith is just being cognitive of Christ then it wouldn't make sense, but when you see faith as lifestyle system it makes sense. I as a Christian have doubted things in regards to Jesus, but my faith did not cease. I continued in what I believed even when my mind would sometimes be in and out. James that faith without works is dead.

Simply put, you can leave the faith. That does not mean that you quit believing in his existence. People leave the faith(walk) they have with him. Abraham's faith in God led to a covenant relationship and that is still key to our salvation. PS I don't think any of us can judge someone to hell. We can only point to Biblical truth that we have found and warn of the real consequences.



Interesting thought.

This comes to me when I think of someone leaving the faith....

Jude 1:3 Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.

Leaving the original doctrines and experience, is what I view as leaving the faith.

good samaritan 11-03-2015 07:58 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sean (Post 1401566)
Interesting thought.

This comes to me when I think of someone leaving the faith....

Jude 1:3 Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.

Leaving the original doctrines and experience, is what I view as leaving the faith.

:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

votivesoul 11-03-2015 10:36 PM

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I address OSAS and other related views here, if anyone cares to read:

https://votivesoul.wordpress.com/201...redestination/

KeptByTheWord 11-03-2015 11:43 PM

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Thanks for all of your input! I had a busy day today, and will try to get back tomorrow and respond to the posts. :)

Godsdrummer 11-04-2015 05:52 AM

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Reading down through the post, I realize that everyone responded with there own view of what they believe OSAS means. If we have not learned anything else on AFF, we should have learned we cannot put someone into a box of what we think they believe bases on a statement like "I believe in OSAS salvation".

Stop putting people into a box of preconceived perceptions, each individual is different, and most times sees things a bit different from someone else. Before blowing someone out of the water trying to convert them to something, first find out how and what they believe don't just assume you know.

Example I have discussed the trinity with many people over the course of my life. When I was younger I would assume they believed the trinity the way I had been told they believe it by my pastor. I argued from that point of view, and never really got anyone to change their view point. In later years I began to probe their beliefs and understanding, and found many of the lay people actually saw oneness, more than trinity. So I used the common ground and was able to show them into oneness the rest of the way.

With OSAS the first thing I see thrown out is "you can sin all you want because once saved you are always saved" Friends that is BS. There may be a small minority that believe they can sin and still be saved, but the vast majority believe that someone that does not live for God, was never saved in the first place.

Anyway the whole point to this long post is to ask the question, Why do you feel you must persuade this person to believe exactly the way you do? Does she not have a Christian spirit, does she not love to study the bible, has her belief caused your bible group to become confused, is her life lived as a example of Christ?
Just maybe God put her in your group because there is a middle road between the two belief he wants you to find.

Sean 11-04-2015 07:03 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by votivesoul (Post 1401643)
I address OSAS and other related views here, if anyone cares to read:

https://votivesoul.wordpress.com/201...redestination/




Excellent rebuttal against predestination, Aaron!

Esaias 11-04-2015 07:07 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Godsdrummer (Post 1401666)
Reading down through the post, I realize that everyone responded with there own view of what they believe OSAS means. If we have not learned anything else on AFF, we should have learned we cannot put someone into a box of what we think they believe bases on a statement like "I believe in OSAS salvation".

Stop putting people into a box of preconceived perceptions, each individual is different, and most times sees things a bit different from someone else. Before blowing someone out of the water trying to convert them to something, first find out how and what they believe don't just assume you know.

Example I have discussed the trinity with many people over the course of my life. When I was younger I would assume they believed the trinity the way I had been told they believe it by my pastor. I argued from that point of view, and never really got anyone to change their view point. In later years I began to probe their beliefs and understanding, and found many of the lay people actually saw oneness, more than trinity. So I used the common ground and was able to show them into oneness the rest of the way.

With OSAS the first thing I see thrown out is "you can sin all you want because once saved you are always saved" Friends that is BS. There may be a small minority that believe they can sin and still be saved, but the vast majority believe that someone that does not live for God, was never saved in the first place.

Anyway the whole point to this long post is to ask the question, Why do you feel you must persuade this person to believe exactly the way you do? Does she not have a Christian spirit, does she not love to study the bible, has her belief caused your bible group to become confused, is her life lived as a example of Christ?
Just maybe God put her in your group because there is a middle road between the two belief he wants you to find.

So the original poster should do what you did NOT do here in your post? Roger, that...

good samaritan 11-04-2015 07:51 AM

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The teaching of osas is a very destructive teaching. To some people it may not matter because they desire to please God regardless. To others it is a false security that they have to continue in willful sin. The teaching must be corrected for the sake of all. false doctrine doesn't balance out the church. I agree we must try to enter friendly dialogue and not come out with guns blazing. Prayer should be made in advance if possible before entering such bible studies. Sometimes we can only shake the dust off of our feet and move on.

houston 11-04-2015 08:04 AM

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GD,

Thanks for that post.

houston 11-04-2015 08:07 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by good samaritan (Post 1401686)
The teaching of osas is a very destructive teaching. To some people it may not matter because they desire to please God regardless. To others it is a false security that they have to continue in willful sin. The teaching must be corrected for the sake of all. false doctrine doesn't balance out the church. I agree we must try to enter friendly dialogue and not come out with guns blazing. Prayer should be made in advance if possible before entering such bible studies. Sometimes we can only shake the dust off of our feet and move on.

I lean toward Calvinism. At this point I know more Calvinists than OP's.
I do not know one Calvinist that believes a child of God can continue to live in willful sin.

shazeep 11-04-2015 08:18 AM

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false doctrine may not balance, but its fruit is at some point revealed, and i agree with GD that there is likely a middle ground, as evidenced by the lack of any conclusive "proof" for either side. This tells me that the question is likely irrelevant in some way, like most human questions are. If osas is deemed a license for one to sin against another, v some version of 'blessed assurance,' then this will quickly out either way; and then might be the time to shake the dust off, or not.

I've never been very comfortable with "saved" as a label, as an either/or choice, anyway. On/off. Yes/no. Life just doesn't work that way--not even spiritual life, i don't think.

mfblume 11-04-2015 08:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by houston (Post 1401692)

I lean toward Calvinism. At this point I know more Calvinists than OP's.
I do not know one Calvinist that believes a child of God can continue to live in willful sin.

I was at a baptist funeral. The preacher knew the man who passed was a drunkard. He said he wasn't sure of his relationship with God at the time of death, but he knew at an earlier point in life he gave his heart to God. So he's in heaven.

KeptByTheWord 11-04-2015 11:54 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401445)
Hebrews 6:4-8 utterly refutes OSAS.

Romans 11:20-21 does likewise.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1401447)
Not all Baptists who believe OSAS are Calvinists. Many just simply believe once you get saved you cannot afterwards be lost regardless of what you do. Calvinists would reject such a notion.

Heb 10:26 is speaking about under the Mosaic economy presumptuous sin had no offering to take care of it. And there is no additional offering for us either if we sin presumptuously. But if we press it to mean once saved and you voluntarily sin you face judgment, then we are in effect saying nobody will be saved, for who can say they NEVER ONCE SINNED after becoming a Christian?

I do understand that much like the Trinity, there can be a vast difference of what people believe in such doctrines as the Trinity, OSAS, and so on.

I am not trying to make this a hill to live or die on for our friendship and fellowship, but I just wanted to be aware of the various scriptures, and ideas that are born out of this OSAS doctrine, to be informed. She wants to discuss it, and so, I need to know. If she is open to seeing it in a different light, I would like to be prepared.

KeptByTheWord 11-04-2015 11:57 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Godsdrummer (Post 1401666)
Reading down through the post, I realize that everyone responded with there own view of what they believe OSAS means. If we have not learned anything else on AFF, we should have learned we cannot put someone into a box of what we think they believe bases on a statement like "I believe in OSAS salvation".

Stop putting people into a box of preconceived perceptions, each individual is different, and most times sees things a bit different from someone else. Before blowing someone out of the water trying to convert them to something, first find out how and what they believe don't just assume you know.

Example I have discussed the trinity with many people over the course of my life. When I was younger I would assume they believed the trinity the way I had been told they believe it by my pastor. I argued from that point of view, and never really got anyone to change their view point. In later years I began to probe their beliefs and understanding, and found many of the lay people actually saw oneness, more than trinity. So I used the common ground and was able to show them into oneness the rest of the way.

With OSAS the first thing I see thrown out is "you can sin all you want because once saved you are always saved" Friends that is BS. There may be a small minority that believe they can sin and still be saved, but the vast majority believe that someone that does not live for God, was never saved in the first place.

Anyway the whole point to this long post is to ask the question, Why do you feel you must persuade this person to believe exactly the way you do? Does she not have a Christian spirit, does she not love to study the bible, has her belief caused your bible group to become confused, is her life lived as a example of Christ?
Just maybe God put her in your group because there is a middle road between the two belief he wants you to find.

I think you've come out swinging at me GD, without fully understanding what I was asking. I have no intention to make this a fight to the bitter end with her. She wants to discuss it, and I wanted to know the various scriptures/ideas associated with it. If she is hungering for more truth, I want to be prepared. If she is closed minded about it, then I don't want her to stop coming to our meetings, because the Lord could still touch her heart. I obviously know that there is a vast difference between what the hard core Calvinists and Trinitarians believe, as opposed to the typical layman in the church.

I appreciate your input nonetheless, and agree with you completely in that this is not something to wrangle over if she is not open to seeing it in a different light.

I am writing down all the pro and con scriptures, just to have as a reference.


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