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deacon blues 03-18-2016 09:35 PM

Terry Shock Leaving Alexandria
 
This might be old news because I've been out of the loop a long time---don't know that I ever was in the loop---but news came to me that TS has resigned or is resigning from POA. Big move for him. God bless TS, he's a great person.

Barb 03-18-2016 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by deacon blues (Post 1426429)
This might be old news because I've been out of the loop a long time---don't know that I ever was in the loop---but news came to me that TS has resigned or is resigning from POA. Big move for him. God bless TS, he's a great person.

Wow! Is he gone already?

deacon blues 03-18-2016 09:52 PM

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I don't think so. I think it's in process.

CC1 03-18-2016 11:16 PM

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I could have prophesied this (and did but not on AFF). When the mantle that had been assured would be passed for many years didn't pass when AM turned 65 it was all but done.

As usual in Pentecost churches the work will be left to family. Blood is thicker than water and when AM's son went into ministry TS should have known it was over for him at POA.

Steve Epley 03-19-2016 07:42 AM

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Old news.

Evang.Benincasa 03-19-2016 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426433)
I could have prophesied this (and did but not on AFF). When the mantle that had been assured would be passed for many years didn't pass when AM turned 65 it was all but done.

As usual in Pentecost churches the work will be left to family. Blood is thicker than water and when AM's son went into ministry TS should have known it was over for him at POA.

Interesting, would you care to expound on this thought of ministerial nepotism?

:)

Evang.Benincasa 03-19-2016 08:55 AM

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Interesting bit I found on Wikipodium


Nepotism is favoritism granted to relatives. The term originated with the assignment of nephews to cardinal positions by Catholic popes and bishops. Nepotism can occur in various fields including: politics, entertainment, business, and religion.

n david 03-19-2016 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426433)
I could have prophesied this (and did but not on AFF). When the mantle that had been assured would be passed for many years didn't pass when AM turned 65 it was all but done.

As usual in Pentecost churches the work will be left to family. Blood is thicker than water and when AM's son went into ministry TS should have known it was over for him at POA.

Do you have proof of this, or are you just posting gossip and libel?

An Admin, no less.

Barb 03-19-2016 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426467)
Do you have proof of this, or are you just posting gossip and libel?

An Admin, no less.

Why is this gossip or libel?

Barb 03-19-2016 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1426453)
Interesting, would you care to expound on this thought of ministerial nepotism?

:)

Bro. Beni, I see it ALL the time, and in most cases it doesn't turn out well.

n david 03-19-2016 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Barb (Post 1426500)
Why is this gossip or libel?

It is gossip. Talking about someone and something of which he is not personally vested or involved.

And it's libel because he's accusing Anthony Mangun of shoving out Terry Shock over nepotism with no proof.

Barb 03-19-2016 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426502)
It is gossip. Talking about someone and something of which he is not personally vested or involved.

And it's libel because he's accusing Anthony Mangun of shoving out Terry Shock over nepotism with no proof.

It does not seem to me to be gossip when one hears that someone is leaving a position, and they ASK if it is so. I have not read where anyone ASKED if there was trouble between AM and TS...just wondering if he's leaving.

As for the libel bit, CC1 was not "accusing" anyone of anything. He was giving his opinion.

Of course, this is one woman's opinion...:nod

Evang.Benincasa 03-19-2016 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426467)
Do you have proof of this, or are you just posting gossip and libel?

An Admin, no less.

I think you have Trump overdose. :heeheehee

Evang.Benincasa 03-19-2016 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426502)
It is gossip. Talking about someone and something of which he is not personally vested or involved.

And it's libel because he's accusing Anthony Mangun of shoving out Terry Shock over nepotism with no proof.

No one is accusing anyone of anything. CC1 may just be connecting the dots? Who took Brother Shock's position at POA?

n david 03-19-2016 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1426522)

No one is accusing anyone of anything. CC1 may just be connecting the dots? Who took Brother Shock's position at POA?

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426433)
I could have prophesied this (and did but not on AFF). When the mantle that had been assured would be passed for many years didn't pass when AM turned 65 it was all but done.

As usual in Pentecost churches the work will be left to family. Blood is thicker than water and when AM's son went into ministry TS should have known it was over for him at POA.

Doesn't read like a question to me. More like an accusation.

Barb 03-19-2016 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426540)
Doesn't read like a question to me. More like an accusation.

Respectfully, that's your opinion. That doesn't make it so... :nod

n david 03-19-2016 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Barb (Post 1426545)

Respectfully, that's your opinion. That doesn't make it so... :nod

Of course.

Evang.Benincasa 03-19-2016 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426540)
Doesn't read like a question to me. More like an accusation.

Who is he accusing?

It is an opinion.

n david 03-19-2016 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1426551)
Who is he accusing?

It is an opinion.

Okay. It's an opinion. :thumbsup

CC1 03-19-2016 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426467)
Do you have proof of this, or are you just posting gossip and libel?

An Admin, no less.

What about my post needs "proof" or is libelous? I simply stated the obvious. Shock and the church had been told for many years emphatically that AM was retiring at 65 and Shock was taking it over. That is fact.

When AM was close to 65 years old rather than making that transition things were "put on hold" or "in a holding pattern" and it did not happen. That is a fact.

For those of us with relatives and friends associated with that church so are somewhat familiar with it we know that Gentry has become a preacher whose ministry has been progressing rapidly. Something of which I am sure his father is very proud of.

With that happening there is no leap in logic to believe that AM's change of heart about TS is associated with a desire to pass the church on to Gentry directly.

If you think my post is gossip or libelous you clearly have no idea what those terms mean.

n david 03-19-2016 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426569)
What about my post needs "proof" or is libelous? I simply stated the obvious. Shock and the church had been told for many years emphatically that AM was retiring at 65 and Shock was taking it over. That is fact.

When AM was close to 65 years old rather than making that transition things were "put on hold" or "in a holding pattern" and it did not happen. That is a fact.

For those of us with relatives and friends associated with that church so are somewhat familiar with it we know that Gentry has become a preacher whose ministry has been progressing rapidly. Something of which I am sure his father is very proud of.

With that happening there is no leap in logic to believe that AM's change of heart about TS is associated with a desire to pass the church on to Gentry directly.

If you think my post is gossip or libelous you clearly have no idea what those terms mean.

Whatever Anthony Mangun decided is between him and Terry Shock. You accusing Mangun of nepotism is uncalled for. Even if POA does make Gentry pastor one day, it's none of your concern.

Do you know for fact this is why TS is leaving or are you just spreading stuff?

CC1 03-19-2016 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by n david (Post 1426572)
Whatever Anthony Mangun decided is between him and Terry Shock. You accusing Mangun of nepotism is uncalled for. Even if POA does make Gentry pastor one day, it's none of your concern.

Do you know for fact this is why TS is leaving or are you just spreading stuff?

I am not the one who said TS was leaving. I have heard that he is but that was some months ago and I don't have any new information. I was simply commenting on the FACT that AM did not go through with the transition to TS when he turned 65 as he had said he was going to do for many years.

For what it is worth I thought it was a mistake for AM to repeatedly emphasize very specifically what his succession plans were so many years in advance and then emphatically repeating them year after year.

As far as your notion that it is nobody's business and we should just all stick our heads in the sand and not have questions or wonder about Pentecostal successions I am sorry but those days of Preachers being some sort of kings whose actions cannot be evaluated or questioned are long gone.

You can have great respect for men of God and honor them, etc without burying your head in the sand and ignoring that you have a brain and common sense.

Your admonition for folks to just "move along now, there is nothing to see here" is absurd. Are there instances where a son inheriting a church is a good thing? I am sure that happens many times. Are there instances where a man's judgement and ability to hear the will of God is colored by his carnal desires for his son? Also yes. Sadly I think the latter happens more often than the former. No hard statistics just over 50 years of anecdotal observation. You can't get away with just telling people it is none of their business anymore what goes on. If pastors have public ministry's and want their voices to be heard and respected they should have no problem with public or private comments on their actions as long as there are not false accusations or misrepresentations.

bishoph 03-19-2016 08:48 PM

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Actually, there was an archived video of the service in which Pastors Shock and Mangun announce his resignation and the plans for moving forward. In that video (which has now been removed) Pastor Shock says that he made a decision to decline the role of Senior Pastor a few years ago. Incidentally, there are two young men, (one of which is Gentry) who will now be assistants and a third young man will be in a similar role. Bro. & Sis. TF Tenney are also coming on staff at POA for a season.

CC1 03-19-2016 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by bishoph (Post 1426575)
Actually, there was an archived video of the service in which Pastors Shock and Mangun announce his resignation and the plans for moving forward. In that video (which has now been removed) Pastor Shock says that he made a decision to decline the role of Senior Pastor a few years ago. Incidentally, there are two young men, (one of which is Gentry) who will now be assistants and a third young man will be in a similar role. Bro. & Sis. TF Tenney are also coming on staff at POA for a season.

Thanks for the update!

votivesoul 03-19-2016 09:56 PM

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How does one pass a church off to another man?

How does a church board and the saints in general not have a vote in who becomes the next pastor?

If it's because of by-laws, who in their right mind would want to attend a church with such by-laws?

CC1 03-20-2016 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by votivesoul (Post 1426580)
How does one pass a church off to another man?

How does a church board and the saints in general not have a vote in who becomes the next pastor?

If it's because of by-laws, who in their right mind would want to attend a church with such by-laws?

If a church has a lot of confidence in their pastor and loves him or in some cases fears him they will respect his leadership enough to believe that whatever he says is the will of God is the will of God.Particularly in the culture of old time Pentecost and many Charismatic churches.

Likewise my observation has been that most or virtually all church boards are made up of "yes men" who for the most part just endorse whatever the pastor wants to do. Of course there are a few cases where the Pastor does something to anger some board members and then things can get contentious but I know of very few times of this happening.

I am not criticizing the board being folks who support the pastor. If I were a pastor I would want that also. However the board should be charged by the pastor with instructions to bring accountability to him, provide financial oversight with full transparent financial visibility to the board, etc.

consapente89 03-21-2016 06:40 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by votivesoul (Post 1426580)
How does one pass a church off to another man?

How does a church board and the saints in general not have a vote in who becomes the next pastor?

If it's because of by-laws, who in their right mind would want to attend a church with such by-laws?

People who believe ministry is appointed not elected. Of which opinion I am.

returnman 03-21-2016 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426625)
If a church has a lot of confidence in their pastor and loves him or in some cases fears him they will respect his leadership enough to believe that whatever he says is the will of God is the will of God.Particularly in the culture of old time Pentecost and many Charismatic churches.

Likewise my observation has been that most or virtually all church boards are made up of "yes men" who for the most part just endorse whatever the pastor wants to do. Of course there are a few cases where the Pastor does something to anger some board members and then things can get contentious but I know of very few times of this happening.

I am not criticizing the board being folks who support the pastor. If I were a pastor I would want that also. However the board should be charged with the pastor with instructions to bring accountability to him, provide financial oversight with full transparent financial visibility to the board, etc.

This is right on. There is currently one that is being passed to a son this year that I fear will not be best for him or the church. I hope it works out though. There will 3rd and 4th generational passing of churches. My personal opinion is that it is completely wrong and should only be a last resort. It goes along with the idolizing of men so prevalent in certain movements. It also goes hand in hand with how most oneness churches will not disclose the amount of tithes in an annual business meeting. That is another discussion but just another example of the control the pastor has.

CC1 03-21-2016 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by returnman (Post 1426738)
This is right on. There is currently one that is being passed to a son this year that I fear will not be best for him or the church. I hope it works out though. There will 3rd and 4th generational passing of churches. My personal opinion is that it is completely wrong and should only be a last resort. It goes along with the idolizing of men so prevalent in certain movements. It also goes hand in hand with how most oneness churches will not disclose the amount of tithes in an annual business meeting. That is another discussion but just another example of the control the pastor has.

Pastors are only human and it is a human instinct to protect what you have put blood sweat and tears into usually for many years. It is also a parents instinct to protect and promote their offspring. Sadly in some cases it is also a parents instincts to see their children through rose colored glasses and not the reality of what and who they are. All of the above can be a toxic mix in some cases.

canam 03-21-2016 09:12 AM

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I can think of one in texas that was passed on and its shocking to see the changes @ cornerstone ,not sure how you could anticipate it though !

houston 03-21-2016 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by canam (Post 1426752)
I can think of one in texas that was passed on and its shocking to see the changes @ cornerstone ,not sure how you could anticipate it though !

Is there a website?

CC1 03-21-2016 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by houston (Post 1426753)
Is there a website?

http://cornerstonefortworth.org/


Of course I am very excited about Cornerstone and Steve Pixler's changes!:happydance

aegsm76 03-21-2016 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426758)
http://cornerstonefortworth.org/


Of course I am very excited about Cornerstone and Steve Pixler's changes!:happydance

CC - I am sure you are. And you can be sure that I am not. I will defer to someone's opinion who used to be a prominent poster, here.
She and her husband also became convinced of the non-essentiality of some of the UPC teachings.
However, they left the church which they were pastoring and went and started another, in a different area of the country.
She stated that it was not right to attempt to move a church from those basic doctrines and that you would end up destroying people when you did it.
She was and still is right.
I still have the utmost respect for her and her husband.

CC1 03-21-2016 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by aegsm76 (Post 1426762)
CC - I am sure you are. And you can be sure that I am not. I will defer to someone's opinion who used to be a prominent poster, here.
She and her husband also became convinced of the non-essentiality of some of the UPC teachings.
However, they left the church which they were pastoring and went and started another, in a different area of the country.
She stated that it was not right to attempt to move a church from those basic doctrines and that you would end up destroying people when you did it.
She was and still is right.
I still have the utmost respect for her and her husband.

I think it all depends on how you do it. The mistake a lot of pastors make is that they will put on a congregation changes in thinking that took them years to get to in too short of a time frame.

I remember several decades ago talking to a UPC preacher who had visited a prominent exUPC Pastor seeking advice on how to implement change and he said that pastor told him that it was like steering a large, long ship. You had to tack slowly and make wide turns. I would add to that metaphor that sudden changes in directions causes some people to be thrown out of the ship and some end up drowning.

You are correct that sudden change will make some people feel as if the rug has been pulled out from under them and can end up destroying people. This comes back to the aspects of psychological conditioning that goes on in any type of intense indoctrination. I know it makes people angry when I say this but it is only natural that when you are taught week after week, year after year, a set of doctrines and rules it becomes your mental measuring stick of right and wrong so anything that controverts that causes confusion and guilt. People need to be brought along over time to look afresh at the Bible and christian teachings.

returnman 03-21-2016 11:34 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426740)
Pastors are only human and it is a human instinct to protect what you have put blood sweat and tears into usually for many years. It is also a parents instinct to protect and promote their offspring. Sadly in some cases it is also a parents instincts to see their children through rose colored glasses and not the reality of what and who they are. All of the above can be a toxic mix in some cases.

This is what I have departed from. It should be the sharing of everyone's blood and sweat. No one man should make or have that much influence......Elders, deacons, etc.

aegsm76 03-21-2016 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426765)
I think it all depends on how you do it. The mistake a lot of pastors make is that they will put on a congregation changes in thinking that took them years to get to in too short of a time frame.

I remember several decades ago talking to a UPC preacher who had visited a prominent exUPC Pastor seeking advice on how to implement change and he said that pastor told him that it was like steering a large, long ship. You had to tack slowly and make wide turns. I would add to that metaphor that sudden changes in directions causes some people to be thrown out of the ship and some end up drowning.

You are correct that sudden change will make some people feel as if the rug has been pulled out from under them and can end up destroying people. This comes back to the aspects of psychological conditioning that goes on in any type of intense indoctrination. I know it makes people angry when I say this but it is only natural that when you are taught week after week, year after year, a set of doctrines and rules it becomes your mental measuring stick of right and wrong so anything that controverts that causes confusion and guilt. People need to be brought along over time to look afresh at the Bible and christian teachings.

It's interesting to see that we agree on some of this, but from totally different sides of the issue.
"All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient".

Barb 03-21-2016 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426758)
http://cornerstonefortworth.org/


Of course I am very excited about Cornerstone and Steve Pixler's changes!:happydance

And I am NOT!!

Steve Epley 03-21-2016 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 1426758)
http://cornerstonefortworth.org/


Of course I am very excited about Cornerstone and Steve Pixler's changes!:happydance

Very sad.

Barb 03-21-2016 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 1426827)
Very sad.

Yes it is!!

CC1 03-21-2016 07:04 PM

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And I am NOT!!

Just For you!


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