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Monterrey 03-29-2016 12:46 PM

Another Pastor arrested for child abuse
 
Sorry folks, I have no tolerance for this stuff.

I try to give the benefit of the doubt on these situations but 7 counts? By a grand jury?

And......

They have to spread it that he is a pastor!!!!

Nothing like giving the adversary something to work with!

If it is true then he needs to pay the penalty.

This is going to be spread from the proverbial Dan to Bersheeba.

http://www.wtvm.com/story/31585033/j...use-of-a-child

Why? Why do men do this?

randyabrown 03-29-2016 08:41 PM

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He's Apostolic too.

Evang.Benincasa 03-29-2016 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1427883)
He's Apostolic too.

Not anymore.

randyabrown 03-30-2016 10:05 PM

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Here's more info:

http://www.al.com/news/index.ssf/201...ors_child.html

Whoop Harted 03-31-2016 09:52 AM

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To bad.

Sad story.

FlamingZword 03-31-2016 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1427883)
He's Apostolic too.

The catholic Church claims loudly to be Christian, but we know it is not.

randyabrown 03-31-2016 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by FlamingZword (Post 1428215)
The catholic Church claims loudly to be Christian, but we know it is not.

True. Several groups use the term. By Apostolic I'm referring to Oneness Pentecostal. I know him personally and I've preached in his Church many times.

Monterrey 03-31-2016 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1428232)
True. Several groups use the term. By Apostolic I'm referring to Oneness Pentecostal. I know him personally and I've preached in his Church many times.

Is the evidence as strong as they are saying in the reports?

Wasn't he pretty conservative?

good samaritan 03-31-2016 08:55 PM

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Evidently he wasn't. conservative should be an attribute and not a label. This is a shameful story and my prayers to the victims and their families. It would be a hard thing to recover. The church should be a safe place. These things forever leave scars and nothing short of a miracle is able to heal them. Forgiveness is essential to salvation, and some things will be hard for the families to forgive.

randyabrown 03-31-2016 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Monterrey (Post 1428262)
Is the evidence as strong as they are saying in the reports?

Wasn't he pretty conservative?

He was very conservative. They're not releasing the evidence at this time, so I'm not sure what it is.

FlamingZword 03-31-2016 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1428285)
He was very conservative. They're not releasing the evidence at this time, so I'm not sure what it is.

Why do we not simply wait for the final verdict before we throw him under the bus? :D

randyabrown 04-01-2016 05:57 AM

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Originally Posted by FlamingZword (Post 1428298)
Why do we not simply wait for the final verdict before we throw him under the bus? :D

Amen! He hasn't been proven guilty and he says he's innocent.

Evang.Benincasa 04-02-2016 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1428322)
Amen! He hasn't been proven guilty and he says he's innocent.

Whether he is innocent or guilty.

His name is mud in whatever circles he ever traveled in.

It is a sad situation.

randyabrown 04-02-2016 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1428593)
Whether he is innocent or guilty.

His name is mud in whatever circles he ever traveled in.

It is a sad situation.

Very true! His ministry is ruined and no one will even visit their Church now even though he stepped down isn't in ministry anymore.

Evang.Benincasa 04-02-2016 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1428623)
Very true! His ministry is ruined and no one will even visit their Church now even though he stepped down isn't in ministry anymore.

That's why preachers have to be extra careful.

Being wary of one's actions no matter who they are with.

FlamingZword 04-02-2016 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1428626)
That's why preachers have to be extra careful.

Being wary of one's actions no matter who they are with.

Hey didn't I see you with you know who? :D

I though you were doing something strange. :foottap

Evang.Benincasa 04-02-2016 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by FlamingZword (Post 1428656)
Hey didn't I see you with you know who? :D

I though you were doing something strange. :foottap

This is why I'm sure you are Birddog. :foottap

LongBeachCA 05-08-2016 08:01 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Monterrey (Post 1427794)
Sorry folks, I have no tolerance for this stuff.

I try to give the benefit of the doubt on these situations but 7 counts? By a grand jury?

And......

They have to spread it that he is a pastor!!!!

Nothing like giving the adversary something to work with!

If it is true then he needs to pay the penalty.

This is going to be spread from the proverbial Dan to Bersheeba.

http://www.wtvm.com/story/31585033/j...use-of-a-child

Why? Why do men do this?

Well if you are a PASTOR that is YOUR JOB TITLE. You are a PASTOR 24 hours a day 7 days a week, 365 days a YEAR. They take on that roll when they sign up to watch over the CHURCH. Therefore why would they NOT say he is a PASTOR??????? ABUSE OF POWER.

LongBeachCA 05-08-2016 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by FlamingZword (Post 1428215)
The catholic Church claims loudly to be Christian, but we know it is not.

There is GOOD & BAD in every Church. Whats the point of comparing this situation to the Catholic Church? The Apostolic Pentecostal Movement has many many many stories just like this one , yet you don't hear them because they try very hard to shove these types of situations under the rugs. Children almost never recover from child abuse especially sexual child abuse. A lot of human beings don't grasp the seriousness of this offense. And they often don't really care until it hits their home. This is not just a PREIST or CATHOLIC PROBLEM this is an ABUSE OF POWER PROBLEM PERIOD.........no one can ever know how this offense can torture your mind and heart until it happens to you. The parents of an abused child don't often get it either. Sexual Abuse DESTROYS a persons mind more than just physical abuse. IT goes so much deeper and often it will carry over into your life as a person grows up. if this story turns out to be true, you can bet that he has a history of Abusing his Power.

Jito463 05-08-2016 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by good samaritan (Post 1428284)
Evidently he wasn't. conservative should be an attribute and not a label.

I like that. I'm going to start using that.

Jito463 05-08-2016 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by LongBeachCA (Post 1433200)
There is GOOD & BAD in every Church. Whats the point of comparing this situation to the Catholic Church? The Apostolic Pentecostal Movement has many many many stories just like this one , yet you don't hear them because they try very hard to shove these types of situations under the rugs. Children almost never recover from child abuse especially sexual child abuse. A lot of human beings don't grasp the seriousness of this offense. And they often don't really care until it hits their home. This is not just a PREIST or CATHOLIC PROBLEM this is an ABUSE OF POWER PROBLEM PERIOD.........no one can ever know how this offense can torture your mind and heart until it happens to you. The parents of an abused child don't often get it either. Sexual Abuse DESTROYS a persons mind more than just physical abuse. IT goes so much deeper and often it will carry over into your life as a person grows up. if this story turns out to be true, you can bet that he has a history of Abusing his Power.

Many, many stories, you say? Name a few.

Evang.Benincasa 05-08-2016 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Jito463 (Post 1433211)
Many, many stories, you say? Name a few.

I guess LBC, is a tad irritated? :dunno

Evang.Benincasa 05-08-2016 08:24 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by LongBeachCA (Post 1433200)
There is GOOD & BAD in every Church. Whats the point of comparing this situation to the Catholic Church? The Apostolic Pentecostal Movement has many many many stories just like this one , yet you don't hear them because they try very hard to shove these types of situations under the rugs. Children almost never recover from child abuse especially sexual child abuse. A lot of human beings don't grasp the seriousness of this offense. And they often don't really care until it hits their home. This is not just a PREIST or CATHOLIC PROBLEM this is an ABUSE OF POWER PROBLEM PERIOD.........no one can ever know how this offense can torture your mind and heart until it happens to you. The parents of an abused child don't often get it either. Sexual Abuse DESTROYS a persons mind more than just physical abuse. IT goes so much deeper and often it will carry over into your life as a person grows up. if this story turns out to be true, you can bet that he has a history of Abusing his Power.

Pedophiles don't have to be authoritarian, they just need oppertunity.

So, LBC, what's your history?

randyabrown 05-09-2016 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by LongBeachCA (Post 1433200)
if this story turns out to be true, you can bet that he has a history of Abusing his Power.

I know this guy personally. Unfortunately it did turn out to be true. He does not have a history of abusing his power. He was actually accused by several people of being too passive and weak in leadership (and I know this is the case).

Quote:

Originally Posted by LongBeachCA (Post 1433200)
The Apostolic Pentecostal Movement has many many many stories just like this one , yet you don't hear them because they try very hard to shove these types of situations under the rugs.

I would have to see evidence of this. Personally I think there are too many independent groups (like my Church) for this to even be possible. No one can sweep it under the rug if there isn't a governing body to do the sweeping.

Monterrey 05-09-2016 02:50 PM

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His trial is set for the 11th, I heard he has skipped town.

randyabrown 05-09-2016 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Monterrey (Post 1433435)
His trial is set for the 11th, I heard he has skipped town.

He has.

Evang.Benincasa 05-09-2016 07:32 PM

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Skipping town is one thing, not making the court appearance is another.

randyabrown 05-13-2016 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Monterrey (Post 1433435)
His trial is set for the 11th, I heard he has skipped town.

Monterrey, do you know him or the family?

Monterrey 05-13-2016 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1433883)
Monterrey, do you know him or the family?

Pure unadulterated gossip...... please pray for me!

At least that is what I am telling this forum!

Actually, I am a little closer than that. :icecream

I don't like it when I see this stuff happening in the ministry and take a strong stand against it.

I know that if he skips out on his court date that there is a house attached to the bail money that someone else will lose......

This is going to go hard for him no matter what. It is going to go hard for what is left of the assembly. Where will they go?

The best thing that they could do would be to dissolve the corp., form a new corp, move across town and start over.

Just my .02

Evang.Benincasa 05-14-2016 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Monterrey (Post 1433901)
Pure unadulterated gossip...... please pray for me!

At least that is what I am telling this forum!

Actually, I am a little closer than that. :icecream

I don't like it when I see this stuff happening in the ministry and take a strong stand against it.

I know that if he skips out on his court date that there is a house attached to the bail money that someone else will lose......

This is going to go hard for him no matter what. It is going to go hard for what is left of the assembly. Where will they go?

The best thing that they could do would be to dissolve the corp., form a new corp, move across town and start over.

Just my .02

This isn't the sort of court case one can just walk away from and hideout from the law. Usually individuals who have held certain positions and who have ran off, are found with a suicide note pinned to their jacket.

Nothing good about this, but what goes through a preacher's mind when he behaves in such a way is beyond demonic. When the Apostolic church goes away from her spiritual roots and drowns herself in the academic, she becomes not only fruitless, but spiritually psychotic.

It is like a virus, which incubates within its host victim. The preacher (or saint) stops praying, stops true worship, and ends up no longer believing in demons, angels, anything spiritual. They end up worse than they were when they first found God. It doesn't happen overnight, it takes time, because their situation is putting down deep roots. These roots are not only hard to remove, but so deep within the soul that the individual couldn't escape even if he wanted.

Monterrey 05-14-2016 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1434012)
This isn't the sort of court case one can just walk away from and hideout from the law. Usually individuals who have held certain positions and who have ran off, are found with a suicide note pinned to their jacket.

Nothing good about this, but what goes through a preacher's mind when he behaves in such a way is beyond demonic. When the Apostolic church goes away from her spiritual roots and drowns herself in the academic, she becomes not only fruitless, but spiritually psychotic.

It is like a virus, which incubates within its host victim. The preacher (or saint) stops praying, stops true worship, and ends up no longer believing in demons, angels, anything spiritual. They end up worse than they were when they first found God. It doesn't happen overnight, it takes time, because their situation is putting down deep roots. These roots are not only hard to remove, but so deep within the soul that the individual couldn't escape even if he wanted.

I mean, is this going to be another edition of "Bail Jumpers USA"?

You are right though about the note on the jacket. This is not going to end well.

Evang.Benincasa 05-14-2016 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Monterrey (Post 1434029)
I mean, is this going to be another edition of "Bail Jumpers USA"?

You are right though about the note on the jacket. This is not going to end well.

It can't end well.

It is so messed up on so many levels.

Discernment isn't suspicion. Discernment is being able to actually see what is going on spiritually in a congregation. This is usually mocked, and ridiculed by the the crowd who no longer believe God will show you anything. That means shows you what is happening with other people. Why? Because a lot of individuals have mimicked spiritual discernment, with cold reading, warm reading, and hot reading. Tools used by charlatans. So, just because you have some hoaxers, people tend to throw the baby out with the bath water.

As time goes by and Pentecost becomes less and less spiritual, and more and more liturgical. You will hear more horror stories.

randyabrown 05-17-2016 10:48 AM

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He showed up in court today.

Evang.Benincasa 05-17-2016 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by randyabrown (Post 1434361)
He showed up in court today.

At least he showed up.


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