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The 'Saved Backslider' Blog
https://martynballestero.com/2011/03...ed-backslider/
Basically this brother's saying that backsliders today posses as different attitude about themselves. They don't feel any conviction for their backsliding to the things of this world, but yet feel defensive of their new lifestyle. What y'all think? |
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I rarely cut off backsliders, which means I still meet with them, even work with them at times.Yet, they know they aren't right, they know they are contrary to Jesus Christ. They make sure they don't do certain things (or say) in front of me out of respect. I have had some return and some return for visits, but that is only possible because of a relationship. They know if they need me I'm there.
As far as having an opinion on Elder Ballestero's views he doesn't post here, and therefore cannot comment a reply. So, Holy Roller what says you? |
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I heard someone say, “Did you ever think about why the father ran to meet the Prodigal Son? It may have been that he wanted to get to him first before the bitter brother got there, causing the Prodigal to turn around and leave by his hateful attitude and words.”
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First of all, there’s a difference in changing churches and dropping standards than, say, turning away from God and doing xyz. So, I don’t think highly of his blog. |
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You are so right! Sadly that is the case sometimes when someone comes back to the Lord. I think God wants us to have compassion and let him worry about the discipline if there needs to be any. :) |
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I have a family member and several friends/acquaintances who match some of these attitudes/descriptions. What say you? Quote:
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As for as mingling with backsliders, I done it often. Right now our church is scheduling a youth fellowship-type for those younger (and older) ones that are struggling with separation and stuff like that. Several people that I consider close friends go to churches where, as a whole, they're backsliding.
I don't see anything wrong with it. I would say approach such friendship with caution though because if you're like me, you'll cave and let go of stuff you know God's shown you. Don't do that. |
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I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:
1 Corinthians:5:9 Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world. 1 Corinthians:5:10 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat. 1 Corinthians:5:11 Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us. 2 Thessalonians:3:6 And if any man obey not our word by this epistle, note that man, and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed. 2 Thessalonians:3:14 Yet count him not as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother. 2 Thessalonians:3:15 So how do we obey these verses, then? |
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Prior Pastor had to comment from pulpit "when people make posts depicting their backslid lifestyle, don't like their posts on Facebook please." We are living in an environment where nothing is private and people don't know how to deal with it. Worldly lifestyles are flaunted without shame. So to answer the question, to start off with, don't like their posts on Facebook. |
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Certainly I Corinthians 5:9-11 and Galatians 6:1 are not at odds with each other. A balance of the two SHOULD produce an atmosphere of restoration for those who truly desire to be restored. Also, an atmosphere that will not be tolerable to those who want to be coddled in their sin.
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So, where is the line drawn between "unrepent consistent works of the flesh" and "we understand some minor points differently about how to obey the Scripture"? |
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I don't play that, that is sending a message not only to the church family, but to me personally. |
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It's important to note that while a Pastor may ask the congregation not to associate with someone, as with the scriptures above; it does not preclude that individual from attending church to get their lives right with God.
I read a comment on the site where someone claimed they really need and desired to get right with God but their friend was told not to associate with them. If one really needs and desires to get right with God, they will do it. |
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Dont worry bro. My wife would kill me if I brought a girlfriend to church! Lol so no girlfriends and no boyfriends here! 😂 |
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For example, this young lady started frequenting our church a little over a year ago. She had been raised in the Apostolic way, but had backslidden and her home/family had in some ways outcast her. She didn't feel welcome there, so she came to church with us when she felt the conviction to change. (Her mother has been a part of our church for a couple of years, and we all knew this young lady.) She prayed back through to the Holy Ghost at one of our sister churches, and she was back in the church for several months, maybe six or so. It wasn't long, however, that the "new" wore off (for the lack of better phrasing) and she gradually drifted away. Since then, she's been "in the church" a couple other times. She comes when she's broken and been hurt by the world, prays back through, and then gradually gets distracted and drifts off. We've all tried to reach a hand and encourage her, but once she's not interested, she's simply that: she's not interested. She cuts off contact, more or less, and reverts to circling with her friends outside of the faith. And that's only to be expected. She wouldn't want anything to do with her church friends when she's not living the life. I worry for her because she knows this Truth and she's lived it, but she's deliberately deciding not to live it. Right now she's going to a church that she previously said she knew wasn't right and worried about her father and stepmother going to. She posts pictures on social media as if trying to advertise her choice to backslide, and I know some of us have expressed our sorrows for this. It's an awful thing when people backslide from this Truth and know better. They know entirely too much to die lost. And it's sad. |
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Beyond that, there isn't a whole lot I can do. She's moved off, I believe, and some of her information that some of us had has been changed. Her mother keeps us updated and asks us to pray for her, which we do. |
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We've all tried to maintain contact, but it isn't easy. She doesn't really want us to it seems. No, the church she's going to now isn't an Apostolic church. It's not Pentecostal. It's not Oneness. It's a Connection Church, a interdenominational-type deal with slight charismatic leanings. I don't know a lot about it, but I know my brother and sister-in-law frequented one for a little while. They're becoming a common trend in our area, with several popping up in different towns and cities. |
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