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good samaritan 12-11-2020 01:08 PM

Do you have a pastor?
 
I was thinking about how church leaders can become isolated. They sometimes can even lose connection with their pastor. It maybe because of death or distance, etc... How important is having a pastor and does everyone need one?

Ron 12-11-2020 02:25 PM

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Yes, I do. One needs a Pastor to be saved. Every Evangelist I know has a home Church and a Pastor.

diakonos 12-11-2020 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597751)
Yes, I do. One needs a Pastor to be saved. Every Evangelist I know has a home Church and a Pastor.

Why don’t you need an apostle or prophet to be saved?

good samaritan 12-11-2020 04:10 PM

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Did Moses have a pastor. What about the 12apostles? I find that leadership is very lonely. Thank God for his anointing and wherever it leads, but people often don’t realize the blessing of having someone speak into their lives. My pastor passed away several years ago and I miss having that voice in my life. I have other voices, but sometimes I would love to hear it frommmy mentor Bro. Loyd Hardy.

Amanah 12-11-2020 04:27 PM

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Moses had council from his father in law. The Apostles had Jesus and then each other. Paul was taught by the Lord himself, and coveted the prayers of those he evangelized. My Pastor councils with a neighboring Pastor. Bro after reading your post you have been on my heart to keep you in prayer and the comfort of the Spirit.

Ron 12-11-2020 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by diakonos (Post 1597755)
Why don’t you need an apostle or prophet to be saved?

You may not see an Apostle or a Prophet in your walk with God but you will have a Pastor.

good samaritan 12-11-2020 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Amanah (Post 1597761)
Moses had council from his father in law. The Apostles had Jesus and then each other. Paul was taught by the Lord himself, and coveted the prayers of those he evangelized. My Pastor councils with a neighboring Pastor. Bro after reading your post you have been on my heart to keep you in prayer and the comfort of the Spirit.

Thank you for your prayers, I certainly can use them. I still seek godly counsel, but today I was just thinking how much we need it. Also finding godly counsel can be tricky, because we have to carefully choose the voices we allow into our lives. I am thankful for pastors who feed the flock and maintain their integrity.

Originalist 12-11-2020 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597751)
Yes, I do. One needs a Pastor to be saved. Every Evangelist I know has a home Church and a Pastor.

Pastors do not save us. They are not a requirement for salvation.

Ron 12-11-2020 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Originalist (Post 1597771)
Pastors do not save us. They are not a requirement for salvation.

Why do you say that? Don't you believe you need a body of believers to belong to?

coksiw 12-11-2020 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by good samaritan (Post 1597768)
Thank you for your prayers, I certainly can use them. I still seek godly counsel, but today I was just thinking how much we need it. Also finding godly counsel can be tricky, because we have to carefully choose the voices we allow into our lives. I am thankful for pastors who feed the flock and maintain their integrity.

Why don’t you train and build a council of elders in your church, and truly give them ruling authority?
There are so many benefits to that.
I can post links to a UPCI pastor that practice that and even Bylaws from other churches that make it part of their constitution.

Nicodemus1968 12-11-2020 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by coksiw (Post 1597773)
Why don’t you train and build a council of elders in your church, and truly give them ruling authority?
There are so many benefits to that.
I can post links to a UPCI pastor that practice that and even Bylaws from other churches that make it part of their constitution.

How does one give authority?

james34 12-11-2020 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597772)
Why do you say that? Don't you believe you need a body of believers to belong to?

It’s a good question. Why don’t we need a prophet or gifts of healing to be saved? To put the emphasis on one part of the body( this is a common thing about The gift of a pastor among the Apostolics) the way it is when we say “You can’t be saved without a pastor”, elevates the need for this part of the body to a higher position than that of the rest of the body. We do need the body to be saved. But “ Pastor “ is not the whole body.

Nicodemus1968 12-11-2020 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by james34 (Post 1597776)
It’s a good question. Why don’t we need a prophet or gifts of healing to be saved? To put the emphasis on one part of the body( this is a common thing about The gift of a pastor among the Apostolics) the way it is when we say “You can’t be saved without a pastor”, elevates the need for this part of the body to a higher position than that of the rest of the body. We do need the body to be saved. But “ Pastor “ is not the whole body.

Then can you do away with a Pastor/prophet/evangelist/teacher/apostle and be saved?

good samaritan 12-11-2020 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by coksiw (Post 1597773)
Why don’t you train and build a council of elders in your church, and truly give them ruling authority?
There are so many benefits to that.
I can post links to a UPCI pastor that practice that and even Bylaws from other churches that make it part of their constitution.

. Our personal church is not that far along in the process. There is already deacons in our church who do have authority. I agree that we have to train presbytery in our churches. That does not negate the role of a pastor.

Originalist 12-11-2020 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597772)
Why do you say that? Don't you believe you need a body of believers to belong to?

I do belong to a body of believers. That is a natural result of being "baptized by one Spirit into one body." It is not something I have to make happen. It is a fact. Now, what segment of that body I will minister in and to is a matter of prayer. I've been around the block for 40 years. I was Assemblies of God for the first 13 years of my Christian walk and have been a self-styled "Oneness Pentecostal" ( to put into an understandable man-made term) ever since. But the exaggerated and unbiblical emphasis that Apostolics have on church-culture and pastoral authority finally drove me into a sort of exile. Oh, I fellowship regularly and am active in ministry. My relationship with Christ has never wavered these past 4 years because it was focused on Christ to begin with and not men. I pray for the day I can return to a gathering that is more in keeping with my own doctrinal convictions, but it is not possible in my current geographical location. I must stress, I never "rebelled" or anything like that. But there were certain things I was being expected to conform to that were literally IMPOSSIBLE for me to do, and I was kicked to the curb and shunned. That was my "red-pill" moment and I will never subject myself and my family to such rubbish again.

Ron 12-11-2020 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by james34 (Post 1597776)
It’s a good question. Why don’t we need a prophet or gifts of healing to be saved? To put the emphasis on one part of the body( this is a common thing about The gift of a pastor among the Apostolics) the way it is when we say “You can’t be saved without a pastor”, elevates the need for this part of the body to a higher position than that of the rest of the body. We do need the body to be saved. But “ Pastor “ is not the whole body.

Ah, but a Pastor is Gods idea of leading a flock. Look, I am a firm believer in the Five good ministry. I believe it should be in every Church. That being said, not every Church is big enough to have all five operating, but you do need a Pastor at the very least.

Originalist 12-11-2020 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597824)
Ah, but a Pastor is Gods idea of leading a flock. Look, I am a firm believer in the Five good ministry. I believe it should be in every Church. That being said, not every Church is big enough to have all five operating, but you do need a Pastor at the very least.

The goal of the 5-fold ministry is to disciple you to the point that you don't "need" them anymore.

Ron 12-11-2020 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by good samaritan (Post 1597811)
. Our personal church is not that far along in the process. There is already deacons in our church who do have authority. I agree that we have to train presbytery in our churches. That does not negate the role of a pastor.

I was a Deacon from 1994-2008 we dealt mainly with the finances. Two deacons would count the offerings. I was also a Trustee from 1994 till present. We deal with legal aspects of the Church. I am also an elder after being in the church for almost 40 years. I am a minister without a license, by my choice. I don't need a license to pray for someone, baptize someone, his it someone in the hospital. Teach a Bible Study, or teach or preach. I just need a Pastor I am accountable to.

Ron 12-11-2020 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Originalist (Post 1597828)
The goal of the 5-fold ministry is to disciple you to the point that you don't "need" them anymore.

I am sorry for whatever you have gone through, or whatever you may have experienced, but one always needs the five told ministry in their lives. A member of the general board and an elder said that one never gets to big that they never need correction. He said even he needs a good old proverbial kick in the pants every do often.

Michael The Disciple 12-11-2020 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597751)
Yes, I do. One needs a Pastor to be saved. Every Evangelist I know has a home Church and a Pastor.

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Originally Posted by Ron View Post
Why do you say that? Don't you believe you need a body of believers to belong to?
A body of believers of WHAT?

Ron 12-11-2020 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple (Post 1597836)
A body of believers of WHAT?

A local assembly.

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597763)
You may not see an Apostle or a Prophet in your walk with God but you will have a Pastor.

The Bible says you need all four, the teaching pastor, the evangelist, the apostle, and the prophet. All working together to build the believers to replace them as the believers mature. Sounds like a plan :thumbsup

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple (Post 1597836)
A body of believers of WHAT?

Good point.

Michael The Disciple 12-11-2020 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597839)
A local assembly.

What does the local body have to believe since we have to be part of it to be saved?

Originalist 12-11-2020 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597834)
I am sorry for whatever you have gone through, or whatever you may have experienced, but one always needs the five told ministry in their lives. A member of the general board and an elder said that one never gets to big that they never need correction. He said even he needs a good old proverbial kick in the pants every do often.


And who is this man in submission to that gives him these need kicks? And "having the 5-fold ministry in our lives" does not mean we must conform to the church leadership model and culture of the UPC and many Evangelical churches.

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Originalist (Post 1597828)
The goal of the 5-fold ministry is to disciple you to the point that you don't "need" them anymore.

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597834)
I am sorry for whatever you have gone through, or whatever you may have experienced
, but one always needs the five told ministry in their lives. A member of the general board and an elder said that one never gets to big that they never need correction. He said even he needs a good old proverbial kick in the pants every do often.

This is such an odd reply to Originalist's statement.

Ron, why did you reply with the above? I may of missed the dialogue, because I'm still reading the thread. But why did you say that?

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple (Post 1597846)
What does the local body have to believe since we have to be part of it to be saved?

Another good point.

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Originalist (Post 1597847)
And who is this man in submission to that gives him these need kicks? And "having the 5-fold ministry in our lives" does not mean we must conform to the church leadership model and culture of the UPC and many Evangelical churches.

This is what inevitably has to happen. You have to have a Pope somewhere. The Catholic clergy system was built a certain way. To come to a specific conclusion.

Ron 12-11-2020 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple (Post 1597846)
What does the local body have to believe since we have to be part of it to be saved?

I have seen to many line wolves in my years in Church. In fact, I almost want to scream when I ask someone if they will be attending Church service next Sunday and they say, "as the Lord leads!"🙄
It's amazing that if the Lord is leading them that the same God never leads someone into stability, and connection with a local assembly of like minded faith. These people usually have no fruit, no direction, no guidance, (save for that same as the Lord leads). We may not like it but I does say in the Bible to not forsake the assembly of ourselves together as the manner of some is, but so much more as you see the day approaching.
Now, I haven't got a clue where most of you live but I know Bro Bennie is about 4,000 miles away. I probably won't be meeting up with him for service Covid 19 or ko Covid 19. Just because of the distance. Where will it happen? In my local assembly.

Ron 12-11-2020 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1597848)
This is such an odd reply to Originalist's statement.

Ron, why did you reply with the above? I may of missed the dialogue, because I'm still reading the thread. But why did you say that?

You have two quotes highlighted and both are mentioning different things. Maybe read the whole thread then ask me.

Ron 12-11-2020 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Originalist (Post 1597847)
And who is this man in submission to that gives him these need kicks? And "having the 5-fold ministry in our lives" does not mean we must conform to the church leadership model and culture of the UPC and many Evangelical churches.

It does mention in the Bible in Hebrews to obey them that have the rule over you. That being said, I like what my Pastor says, we are not a cult, and my job is to be there for you, and he is, pray for us, and he does, be a minister and example, and he does both those things.
The onus is on you to read your Bible, follow along and see if what he says a teaching you is Biblically based. If you believe differently, then find another Church that preaches what you believe.

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597852)
You have two quotes highlighted and both are mentioning different things. Maybe read the whole thread then ask me.

Why don't you tell me? The goal of the 5-fold ministry is to disciple you to the point that you don't "need" them anymore. Then you add 'I am sorry for whatever you have gone through, or whatever you may have experienced" Followed with the conjunction ""but." This would lead anyone to assume that what you are saying after the portion I bolded in your quote, means you have a problem with Originality statement on a collegial eldership?

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597854)
It does mention in the Bible in Hebrews to obey them that have the rule over you. That being said, I like what my Pastor says, we are not a cult, and my job is to be there for you, and he is, pray for us, and he does, be a minister and example, and he does both those things.
The onus is on you to read your Bible, follow along and see if what he says a teaching you is Biblically based. If you believe differently, then find another Church that preaches what you believe.

The obey them is plural. What I mean is, that it doesn't say obey him. But them.

Ron 12-11-2020 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1597856)
Why don't you tell me? The goal of the 5-fold ministry is to disciple you to the point that you don't "need" them anymore. Then you add 'I am sorry for whatever you have gone through, or whatever you may have experienced" Followed with the conjunction ""but." This would lead anyone to assume that what you are saying after the portion I bolded in your quote, means you have a problem with Originality statement on a collegial eldership?

Whaaatt?🙄 You quoted him on something I disagreed with, then you commented on something I was responding to about something else. You are all over the map Bro.😎

Ron 12-11-2020 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1597857)
The obey them is plural. What I mean is, that it doesn't say obey him. But them.

It does indeed say them, doesn't Pastor fall into them?

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597859)
It does indeed say them, doesn't Pastor fall into them?

Yes, if there are more than one. The letter is being written to one congregation. Later these letters would be handed around. But literally, the writers were writing to a certain group of believers in a certain area, with specific problems?

Michael The Disciple 12-11-2020 09:23 PM

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It's amazing that if the Lord is leading them that the same God never leads someone into stability, and connection with a local assembly of like minded faith.
So one will be saved if they attend a church that is "like minded"? What if they attend a Church that teaches heresies? Are they safer than one who does not attend to stay pure from them?

Ron 12-11-2020 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa (Post 1597861)
Yes, if there are more than one. The letter is being written to one congregation. Later these letters would be handed around. But literally, the writers were writing to a certain group of believers in a certain area, with specific problems?

Okay, so you believe that you are or should be accountable to a Pastor. I actually like accountability, there is protection there. Ultimately, I vanswrr for my own soul, and then the souls of my family, but I am thankful for a Pastor.

Ron 12-11-2020 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple (Post 1597862)
So one will be saved if they attend a church that is "like minded"? What if they attend a Church that teaches heresies? Are they safer than one who does not attend to stay pure from them?

Did you not read the post where I said the Word of God is saying forsake not the assembly of yourselves together as the manner of some is.

Evang.Benincasa 12-11-2020 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 1597865)
Okay, so you believe that you are or should be accountable to a Pastor. I actually like accountability, there is protection there. Ultimately, I vanswrr for my own soul, and then the souls of my family, but I am thankful for a Pastor.

Bro, we all have tons of accountability. Mostly everyone we meet. Don't get me wrong, I believe in church family, with ministry. But who you are in the dark is who you really are. We attend the Body of Christ, not ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS! You come into the church as a neophyte a baby, but when you are a full aged man you no longer need to call a sponsor. The drinking days are over.


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