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Steadfast 07-15-2007 08:50 PM

Confession Time! How often do you take Communion?
 
Okay folks... We all know that God told us to take communion.

We do it. I suspect most of you do it.

One question that I've always pondered in my mind is just how often others take it? We generally do it a couple times a year; once around our 'Watch Night' service and I usually do it once (unscheduled) as I feel the need in the year somewhere.

Enough?

Too much?

I await your answers!

Steve Epley 07-15-2007 08:51 PM

We do it once a year as a rule but there have been years I did it twice I felt the need to do it.

Steadfast 07-15-2007 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 186167)
We do it once a year as a rule but there have been years I did it twice I felt the need to do it.


Great! But now let's make it harder now by allowing me to ask you this; what constitutes the 'need' as you see it to take communion again?

Sherri 07-15-2007 08:57 PM

Every "First Wednesday" service (monthly). We also have it available to take individually in our weekly Sunday morning 8 AM prayer service, if people want to go up and partake of it on their own.

Malvaro 07-15-2007 08:58 PM

once a year, twice tops....

freeatlast 07-15-2007 08:59 PM

I take it as oft as we do it. Four to six times a year I think.

Margies3 07-15-2007 08:59 PM

We have communion the first Sunday of every month at our church.

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Sherri (Post 186175)
Every "First Wednesday" service (monthly). We also have it available to take individually in our weekly Sunday morning 8 AM prayer service, if people want to go up and partake of it on their own.

Wow, that's different! Work well for you?

Margies3 07-15-2007 09:02 PM

So the other question is:

What 'form' do you use? Do you do intinction, where you dunk a piece of bread that you tear off of the loaf into the cup of juice? or do you use the little wafer things? Do you use juice or wine? does it make a difference?
Do you pass it out and then hold it so that you can all partake at the same time? or do you come to the altar and take it individually?

And the biggest question of all - does Jesus really CARE how we do it or even how often? As long as we DO it, is that good enough?

Steve Epley 07-15-2007 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 186173)

Great! But now let's make it harder now by allowing me to ask you this; what constitutes the 'need' as you see it to take communion again?

There have been times when there was division in the church and I could not preach or pray it out. There is something about communion service that makes folks examine themselves. I don't do this every little problem maybe twice in 13 years but ti has worked each time.

HeavenlyOne 07-15-2007 09:06 PM

I don't always partake, but I do it once in a while.

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Margies3 (Post 186186)
So the other question is:

What 'form' do you use? Do you do intinction, where you dunk a piece of bread that you tear off of the loaf into the cup of juice? or do you use the little wafer things? Do you use juice or wine? does it make a difference?
Do you pass it out and then hold it so that you can all partake at the same time? or do you come to the altar and take it individually?

And the biggest question of all - does Jesus really CARE how we do it or even how often? As long as we DO it, is that good enough?

My Bishop used grape juice but had, at one time, used wine. I thought his interpretation sounded correct and we've used grape juice... however, I think his spirit was incredible when he said, "I've taken it both ways. I've been blessed both ways. Now it's just a matter of following my beliefs and not wondering if someone can be blessed doing it the other way."

As for the bread? My wife makes our own unleavened bread. Just seems more 'personal' that way and is much more acceptable than those cardboard wafers.


:slaphappy

Sherri 07-15-2007 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 186181)
Wow, that's different! Work well for you?

Our First Wednesday service is an Encounter service, where we just have intense times of praise & worship, usually gifts of the Spirit flowing, deep prayer for healing, Holy Ghost, etc. We don't have preaching/teaching that night. At the end, we always have communion. Sometimes it's very solemn; sometimes very joyful.

We have what we call a "Soaking Service" every Sunday AM at 8:00. It's 45 minutes of just quiet meditative worship with music playing. Some people are prostrate on the floor; some are in seats; some walking and praying. The communion trays are at the front and people can just go up individually instead of corporately and partake. Some participate; some don't. It's an awesome time in the presence of the Lord.

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 186189)
There have been times when there was division in the church and I could not preach or pray it out. There is something about communion service that makes folks examine themselves. I don't do this every little problem maybe twice in 13 years but ti has worked each time.

I'm amazed at how identical our replies would have been... incredible, actually. Those are the very kinds of things that make it valuable.

I would think doing it too often would take away the sacredness of it to me.

Steve Epley 07-15-2007 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 186195)
My Bishop used grape juice but had, at one time, used wine. I thought his interpretation sounded correct and we've used grape juice... however, I think his spirit was incredible when he said, "I've taken it both ways. I've been blessed both ways. Now it's just a matter of following my beliefs and not wondering if someone can be blessed doing it the other way."

As for the bread? My wife makes our own unleavened bread. Just seems more 'personal' that way and is much more acceptable than those cardboard wafers.


:slaphappy

You are from Indiana and you are a juicier??????????????????????? Heaven help.:winkgrin

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Sherri (Post 186196)
Our First Wednesday service is an Encounter service, where we just have intense times of praise & worship, usually gifts of the Spirit flowing, deep prayer for healing, Holy Ghost, etc. We don't have preaching/teaching that night. At the end, we always have communion. Sometimes it's very solemn; sometimes very joyful.

We have what we call a "Soaking Service" every Sunday AM at 8:00. It's 45 minutes of just quiet meditative worship with music playing. Some people are prostrate on the floor; some are in seats; some walking and praying. The communion trays are at the front and people can just go up individually instead of corporately and partake. Some participate; some don't. It's an awesome time in the presence of the Lord.

Again, that is very interesting...

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 186202)
You are from Indiana and you are a juicier??????????????????????? Heaven help.:winkgrin

:sshhh

Sherri 07-15-2007 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 186202)
You are from Indiana and you are a juicier??????????????????????? Heaven help.:winkgrin

Bro. Epley, you use wine, right? I have always been leery of using wine because we have a lot of ex-alcoholics who don't need to taste it again in any form. Is that ever a problem?

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Sherri (Post 186209)
Bro. Epley, you use wine, right? I have always been leery of using wine because we have a lot of ex-alcoholics who don't need to taste it again in any form. Is that ever a problem?

It never has in any of my experience... but I'm interested to see Bro. Epley's response.

Steve Epley 07-15-2007 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Sherri (Post 186209)
Bro. Epley, you use wine, right? I have always been leery of using wine because we have a lot of ex-alcoholics who don't need to taste it again in any form. Is that ever a problem?

There twice the amount of alcohol in Nyquil and communion wine. I have served communion to many ex-alcoholic and none of them ever went on an alcoholic binge after a communion service. I believe the new birth delivers them from alcohol.

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 186218)
There twice the amount of alcohol in Nyquil and communion wine. I have served communion to many ex-alcoholic and none of them ever went on an alcoholic binge after a communion service. I believe the new birth delivers them from alcohol.

:winkgrin

deseret 07-15-2007 09:31 PM

Fruit of the vine is Bible talk for WINE. NOT for juice.

Sherri 07-15-2007 09:31 PM

Do you think they are never tempted again? I know some who are instantly delivered, but others struggle against temptation all their lives, even filled with the Holy Ghost. I don't think the New Birth keeps you from temptation. JMHO.

deseret 07-15-2007 09:44 PM

WINE is the BIBLE way! The BIBLE way!

ILuvFPC 07-15-2007 09:51 PM

Is not grape juice fruit of the vine as well............................ :crazy

Steadfast 07-15-2007 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ILuvFPC (Post 186255)
Is not grape juice fruit of the vine as well............................ :crazy

:winkgrin

deseret 07-15-2007 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by ILuvFPC (Post 186255)
Is not grape juice fruit of the vine as well............................ :crazy

You are probably one of those quacks that believes Jesus turned the water into juice and the people got drunk because of the sugar content!

Brother Strange 07-16-2007 06:46 AM

I insist on taking it at least once a year. I have missed regular communion which is always scheduled on Watch Night service. I then find myself so hungry for it, feeling a great need, I will call a few of my brothers around to share the elements with me, in repentance and contrition followed by a deep searching time of prayer with them. Though we do not have footwashing in our church, there have been times that I've called different ones into a private setting and washed their feet...often with tears.

freeatlast 07-16-2007 06:55 AM

if it was grape juice in the Bible, then please someone tell me how grape juice did the Corinthians drink to get get drunk and deswerve Paul's rebuke.
(answer found in 1 Cor 11:21)

Did God ever tell the Hebrews, his children to buy and enjoy fermented drink ?
(Answer found in Deut. 14:26)

If wine was grape juice in the bible why did God say, "wine and OTHER fermented drink." ??

Moderation is what is taught in the scripture concerning alcohol.
MODERATION..the most hated word amongst Pentecostal Conservatives.

Titus2Mom 07-16-2007 06:59 AM

Never. Our church only does it at the unbiblical "watch night" service, and I am not driving all the way to church (I live out in the country) amongst a bunch of drunk drivers and crazies in the wee hours. Sorry, that is past my bedtime, and my husband would have my hide!

I think the breaking of bread should really be at EVERY time of fellowship with other believers. And I have a big problem with the whole "communion" thing as I was raised catholic. But that's me :-)

Titus2Mom 07-16-2007 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 186575)
MODERATION..the most hated word amongst Pentecostal Conservatives.

Isn't that the truth!:killinme

Sherri 07-16-2007 07:14 AM

Our ex-Catholics really want to take communion. I guess I don't understand why it affected you in that way. I mean, I understand if we were doing it in Latin or something. LOL!

Maple Leaf 07-16-2007 07:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 186162)
Okay folks... We all know that God told us to take communion.

We do it. I suspect most of you do it.

One question that I've always pondered in my mind is just how often others take it? We generally do it a couple times a year; once around our 'Watch Night' service and I usually do it once (unscheduled) as I feel the need in the year somewhere.

Enough?

Too much?

I await your answers!


On a monthly basis.

I have never found that it has become common.

Personally, I would not have any objection to receiving communion every week.

Sister Alvear 07-16-2007 07:31 AM

We used to take it every month but Brother Alvear felt some of the people were not taking it serious as it should be taken so at the present the last time we had it was watch night service. He mentioned to me last week he was fixing to call a communion service. I am glad as it is a special time of remembering the great price that was paid for our salvation.
When I was single (a thousand years ago) ha... I leaned toward wine but Brother Alvear believes it should be grape juice.
Yes, and I do share the concern about people that have drinking problems as I have a sister that has had problems in the past and the doctor told my other sister she should never take communion with wine. Strange but true.
Yes, I do believe God delivers but there is always the human element involved...and we all are very much flesh...
And as someone else said I too have been blessed taking it either way. I make no fusses about it or about most things people fuss about.
I focus on what it represents…HIS precious sacrifice.

Steadfast 07-16-2007 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Titus2Mom (Post 186576)
Never. Our church only does it at the unbiblical "watch night" service, and I am not driving all the way to church (I live out in the country) amongst a bunch of drunk drivers and crazies in the wee hours. Sorry, that is past my bedtime, and my husband would have my hide!

I think the breaking of bread should really be at EVERY time of fellowship with other believers. And I have a big problem with the whole "communion" thing as I was raised catholic. But that's me :-)

I sincerely have never heard this kind of reasoning before.

Along with Sherri's congregation, we have many ex-Catholics and they seem to cherish the time of communion... but in no way want it every time they have Church.

You're perspective is unique to say the least!

Felicity 07-16-2007 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Maple Leaf (Post 186584)
On a monthly basis.

I have never found that it has become common.

Personally, I would not have any objection to receiving communion every week.

We have communion once a month - 2nd Sunday of the month normally. We never had practiced doing it so often until we came here and at first I wondered if it would become "common" by doing it this often but it hasn't become common at all.

Instead, each month it's a wonderful time in the service to reflect on Calvary and what all was accomplished there and what that means to me personally.

Steadfast 07-16-2007 09:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brother Strange (Post 186572)
I insist on taking it at least once a year. I have missed regular communion which is always scheduled on Watch Night service. I then find myself so hungry for it, feeling a great need, I will call a few of my brothers around to share the elements with me, in repentance and contrition followed by a deep searching time of prayer with them. Though we do not have footwashing in our church, there have been times that I've called different ones into a private setting and washed their feet...often with tears.

I find the footwashing service to be one of those 'forgotten' practices among most of our Churches. We used to do it on watchnight service but have started (for time restraints) to do it on other nights when the real need of footwashing can be stressed.

Steadfast 07-16-2007 09:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maple Leaf (Post 186584)
On a monthly basis.

I have never found that it has become common.

Personally, I would not have any objection to receiving communion every week.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Felicity (Post 186673)
We have communion once a month - 2nd Sunday of the month normally. We never had practiced doing it so often until we came here and at first I wondered if it would become "common" by doing it this often but it hasn't become common at all.

Instead, each month it's a wonderful time in the service to reflect on Calvary and what all was accomplished there and what that means to me personally.

Interesting that both of you have 'similar' communion schedules. Is that a Canadian thing?

ReformedDave 07-16-2007 09:09 AM

We have it ever Sunday morning. For those that think it becomes 'common', why don't you have preaching or singing once a month or once a year as well?

Felicity 07-16-2007 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 186681)
Interesting that both of you have 'similar' communion schedules. Is that a Canadian thing?

No, it isn't. We never practiced Communion this often before. Usually it was sporadic - a few times a year.

I like monthly better actually. :)


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