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Felicity 08-18-2007 11:41 PM

Right Responses to Injustice
 
Perhaps this will help someone here to get over past hurt. I hope and trust so because these 5 guidelines work. :)



1. Choose to live in the present and not the past. Rather than let past injustices destroy any hope of being fruitful in the now, Joseph forgot the past and focused on the present. Through the grace of God, so can we.

2. Choose to free those who have injured you. Through God's grace, we can forgive even without discussing the past.

3. Remember that in the injustice, God is present. When God permits evil, He will use it for some higher end. We can move beyond our past when we can embrace it as part of His good plan.

4. Choose to bless those who have wronged you. Joseph did and Jesus commands us to (Matt. 5:44). Blessing those who have wronged you has the power to set you free.

5. Choose not to retaliate. Vengeance is God's business, not ours. Trust God to right all wrongs in the day of judgment.

MrsBOOMM 08-18-2007 11:48 PM

Thanks for that Felicity, I am at a place right now that i am trying to get free of. Sometimes it feels like I am in a deep deep ditch trying to climb up the sides, yet I keep falling back down. But your post although it seems simple if followed I believe will help me get my perception back on track.

Felicity 08-19-2007 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by MrsBOOMM (Post 219952)
Thanks for that Felicity, I am at a place right now that i am trying to get free of. Sometimes it feels like I am in a deep deep ditch trying to climb up the sides, yet I keep falling back down. But your post although it seems simple if followed I believe will help me get my perception back on track.

You're going to make it Sis. I don't know what your own personal situation or set of circumstances is or has been, but one of the keys to success in dealing with this sort of thing and getting up out of the ditch is having the "want to". Remember Bro. Ogg's mantra? "You gotta have the want to". :)

If there's a short supply of "want to", acknowledging that and going to the Source where there's a never ending supply of everything we need to live an overcoming life .... is the answer. God knows what we lack and He is the Provider for everything.

Feelings are such unstable things. Up one day, down the next. Happy one minute, angry the next. It never ends :) so we can't go by our feelings. Allowing feelings to reign rather than taking hold of the black and white reality of the Word of God will prevent us from ever living successfully for God.

You'll make it Sis! :)

MrsBOOMM 08-19-2007 12:15 AM

Thanks for your encouragement. Yes, I know I will make it, God is faithful. I just have had questions in my mind on just how to get over this situation. I cannot discuss it and won't but it is something that is on my mind daily. It does seem to be getting better as time has started to heal but the things that you said put some things in perspective and gave me an outline to assist with conquering the battle. The ministry has to be one of the lowliest places to be at times.

TK Burk 08-19-2007 12:56 AM

Good post Felicity! :ty2

I am saving this list for future use.

Barb 08-19-2007 05:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Felicity (Post 219947)
Perhaps this will help someone here to get over past hurt. I hope and trust so because these 5 guidelines work. :)



1. Choose to live in the present and not the past. Rather than let past injustices destroy any hope of being fruitful in the now, Joseph forgot the past and focused on the present. Through the grace of God, so can we.

2. Choose to free those who have injured you. Through God's grace, we can forgive even without discussing the past.

3. Remember that in the injustice, God is present. When God permits evil, He will use it for some higher end. We can move beyond our past when we can embrace it as part of His good plan.

4. Choose to bless those who have wronged you. Joseph did and Jesus commands us to (Matt. 5:44). Blessing those who have wronged you has the power to set you free.

5. Choose not to retaliate. Vengeance is God's business, not ours. Trust God to right all wrongs in the day of judgment.

Great post, Felicity...

Subdued 08-20-2007 03:32 PM

Did you write this, or is this the devotional you read at work that you said you'd post. Just wondering if I should continue to "stay tuned."

Felicity 08-20-2007 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Subdued (Post 220777)
Did you write this, or is this the devotional you read at work that you said you'd post. Just wondering if I should continue to "stay tuned."

No and no. The devotional was about friendship and the connections that we make. It was very short but good. If I can get it from my boss, I'll post it later. :)

freeatlast 08-20-2007 04:48 PM

Copied and pasted to WOrd Doc. I may use this for an outline for a Sunday morning some time.

Thanks for a thoughtful post Felicity. No wonder you are one of my most favorite posters.

ChTatum 08-20-2007 07:11 PM

Excellent post, sister.

I am fond of saying the true test of Christianity is to forgive when forgiveness is not asked for, and possibly not even appreciated.

RevDWW 08-20-2007 08:16 PM

Good stuff!

It all comes down to personal choices doesn't it!

rgcraig 08-20-2007 11:02 PM

Felicity,

Do you mind giving a reference to your first post - I'd like to read more.

Felicity 08-20-2007 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RevDWW (Post 220947)
Good stuff!

It all comes down to personal choices doesn't it!

It does, and an understanding of what the will of God is in regard to forgiveness and what the Word says about that.

Sometimes people don't want to know because then they don't have to deal with things in the right way.

Thanks!

Felicity 08-20-2007 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 220812)
Copied and pasted to WOrd Doc. I may use this for an outline for a Sunday morning some time.

Thanks for a thoughtful post Felicity. No wonder you are one of my most favorite posters.

Thank you sir. :o


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Originally Posted by ChTatum (Post 220907)
Excellent post, sister.

I am fond of saying the true test of Christianity is to forgive when forgiveness is not asked for, and possibly not even appreciated.

So true! I think that it's also a sign of true spirituality. Doesn't mean that there's no struggle involved because there often is in getting our own will and the old man in line with the will of God. But making up your mind to conquer "self" is half the battle at least.

Subdued 08-21-2007 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Felicity (Post 220800)
No and no. The devotional was about friendship and the connections that we make. It was very short but good. If I can get it from my boss, I'll post it later. :)

Okay... I hope you post the friendship devotional. I've been looking forward to reading it.

Regarding this thread; is there a book or something that you got this from? If so, I'm interesting in purchasing it & doing further reading on this. Please let me know. Thanks much!! :)

rgcraig 08-21-2007 08:01 AM

I think this thread would tie in good with the forgiveness thread!

Both threads are helping me have a different perspective on how others deal or don't deal with forgiveness. I've never had a problem with it because I don't hold a grudge, so sometimes it is hard for me to help others when I can't understand why they just don't move on.

Subdued 08-21-2007 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 221252)
I think this thread would tie in good with the forgiveness thread!

Both threads are helping me have a different perspective on how others deal or don't deal with forgiveness. I've never had a problem with it because I don't hold a grudge, so sometimes it is hard for me to help others when I can't understand why they just don't move on.

I like this (& the forgiveness thread), too. They've been very helpful. Just yesterday, something happened that really upset me. My husband kept telling me to let it go; but I really wanted to do something - take care of business - FIX the situation... NOT let it go. But he kept saying, over & over, "Just let it go." So I'm trying to do that. I spent time in prayer yesterday, asking the Lord to handle the situation for me.

Anyway, I was hoping to read more on this subject. So, Felicity, if there is a book or something that you got this info from, please let me know.

Subdued 08-21-2007 10:06 AM

Umm... Renda, what's up with your dog? LOL

Felicity 08-21-2007 11:21 AM

It's been a busy morning and I'm tired! :) Anyhow .... in regard to what you said about your husband saying "let it go" ......

You know I'm surrounded here by books, books, and more books - some very very good ones.

I just put 10 on the shelf of one title and it addressed this very thing -- letting go - at least it was one of the things addressed among others of course. That some women are so into control and they need to let go of that. That they'll be happier overall if they do that. Just "give it up" and "let it go" so to speak - just like your husband told you to do. Good advice.

I take books home with me and some I skim through at lunch and make notes. I've bought a journal just for that purpose - so that I can do this.

And I have lots of things saved on my computer - resources for messages and teaching I've done in the past as well. A lot of things I have no "source" for.

RevDWW 08-21-2007 11:36 AM

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Micah 6:1 - 16 (KJV)
1H ear ye now what the LORD saith; Arise, contend thou before the mountains, and let the hills hear thy voice. 2 Hear ye, O mountains, the LORD’S controversy, and ye strong foundations of the earth: for the LORD hath a controversy with his people, and he will plead with Israel. 3 O my people, what have I done unto thee? and wherein have I wearied thee? testify against me. 4 For I brought thee up out of the land of Egypt, and redeemed thee out of the house of servants; and I sent before thee Moses, Aaron, and Miriam. 5 O my people, remember now what Balak king of Moab consulted, and what Balaam the son of Beor answered him from Shittim unto Gilgal; that ye may know the righteousness of the LORD.

6 Wherewith shall I come before the LORD, and bow myself before the high God? shall I come before him with burnt offerings, with calves of a year old? 7Will the LORD be pleased with thousands of rams, or with ten thousands of rivers of oil? shall I give my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? 8 He hath showed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?

9 The LORD’S voice crieth unto the city, and the man of wisdom shall see thy name: hear ye the rod, and who hath appointed it. 10 Are there yet the treasures of wickedness in the house of the wicked, and the scant measure that is abominable? 11 Shall I count them pure with the wicked balances, and with the bag of deceitful weights? 12 For the rich men thereof are full of violence, and the inhabitants thereof have spoken lies, and their tongue is deceitful in their mouth. 13 Therefore also will I make thee sick in smiting thee, in making thee desolate because of thy sins. 14 Thou shalt eat, but not be satisfied; and thy casting down shall be in the midst of thee; and thou shalt take hold, but shalt not deliver; and that which thou deliverest will I give up to the sword. 15 Thou shalt sow, but thou shalt not reap; thou shalt tread the olives, but thou shalt not anoint thee with oil; and sweet wine, but shalt not drink wine. 16 For the statutes of Omri are kept, and all the works of the house of Ahab, and ye walk in their counsels; that I should make thee a desolation, and the inhabitants thereof an hissing: therefore ye shall bear the reproach of my people.
Bolded is what the Lord requires of us.
Underlined is what appears to be what happens if we don't meet the requirements.

I choose to act justly no matter the injustice done to me.

I am not responsible for anyones actions or choices other than my own.

I choose to show mercy when none is shown to me.

I am not responsible for anyones actions or choices other than my own.

I choose to be humbled in knowing that I have erred and sinned against Him yet He has shown abundant mercy to me.

I am not responsible for anyones actions or choices other than my own.

Subdued 08-21-2007 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by RevDWW (Post 221358)
Bolded is what the Lord requires of us.
Underlined is what appears to be what happens if we don't meet the requirements.

I choose act justly no matter the injustice done to me.

I am not responsible for anyones actions or choices other than my own.

I choose to show mercy when none is shown to me.

I am not responsible for anyones actions or choices other than my own.

I choose to be humbled in knowing that I have erred and sinned against Him yet He has shown abundant mercy to me.

I am not responsible for anyones actions or choices other than my own.

Excellent post! Thank you.


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