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Amos 08-26-2007 01:10 PM

Homosexuality Or Legalism--Which Is Worse?
 
On another thread, tv1a and RandyWayne are promoting the idea that legalism is worse and more difficult to overcome than homosexuality.

What say ye?

Amos 08-26-2007 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tv1a
It may be better to cruise the gay bars for a youth pastor before checking out some of the churches for a youth pastor. Won't find much legalism in a gay bar.
This is the beginning of the line of thought.

Amos 08-26-2007 01:16 PM

I posted that I thought it was quite a stretch to prefer homosexuality over legalism.

This was RW's response, and my rebuttal.

Originally Posted by RandyWayne
Quote:

Why not? The pharisees were the only ones that Jesus got truly angry with.
The spirit of homosexuality denies the power and ored of God and creation itself. In that dimension, it is more akin to the Saducees, who were completely unspiritual. Jesus had NO time for them. The Pharisees He did at least deal with, and salvaged some of them.

You will find nowhere in the Gospels where He spent any time working on a Saducee.

Homosexuality is a far bigger problem to deal with than legalism. At least with a legalist, you have a person who values the Word of God and can be taught.

Generally speaking, homosexuals totally deny the authority of God or His Word.

If this is a common conception--that homosexuality is preferable to legalism--then the movement is in worse shape than I thought.

That is a sick and totally twisted perception.

tv1a 08-26-2007 01:20 PM

I do question if legalists can be taught. Without going into detail, I've observed the best legalists make the best homosexuals. I shouldl go through the similarities between homosexuality and legalism, but I don't want to be accused of calling all legalists homosexual.

Sister Alvear 08-26-2007 01:28 PM

My Jesus help us...

Brett Prince 08-26-2007 01:30 PM

Again, speak truths about something, but then attach that title concerning that truth to people who do not fit the description, and then you can paint them in a bad line...guilty by association.

I'm sorry. I don't agree with Steve Epley on everything, but I do not see Steve Epley as legalistic. The same goes for Bros. Boyd, Groce, White, etc. Those of you who TRULY believe them to be legalistic DON'T KNOW ENOUGH ABOUT THEM OR WHERE THEY STAND, HOW THEY VIEW THINGS.

You need to listen rather than label.

Sister Alvear 08-26-2007 01:30 PM

I really think the question is a little far out. The wording should be changed or something. I feel grieved in my spirit for some reason.
And I am off to church...

OP_Carl 08-26-2007 01:31 PM

The righteous are scarcely saved.

The legalists are preferable, for there is a chance that at least some of them will not be lost.

None will make heaven from a stool in a gay bar.

Amos 08-26-2007 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 225298)
I really think the question is a little far out. The wording should be changed or something. I feel grieved in my spirit for some reason.
And I am off to church...

Dearest Sister Alvear,

I regret that you are grieved by this thread.

I was grieved when the assertion was made that "legalists," whatever they are, are worse off than homosexuals.

I wanted to have some serious discussion of the concept that was being espoused.

Please pardon if I was offensive in wording this thread. That was not my intention.

johnmark93 08-26-2007 01:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amos (Post 225289)
I posted that I thought it was quite a stretch to prefer homosexuality over legalism.

This was RW's response, and my rebuttal.

Originally Posted by RandyWayne


The spirit of homosexuality denies the power and ored of God and creation itself. In that dimension, it is more akin to the Saducees, who were completely unspiritual. Jesus had NO time for them. The Pharisees He did at least deal with, and salvaged some of them.

You will find nowhere in the Gospels where He spent any time working on a Saducee.

Homosexuality is a far bigger problem to deal with than legalism. At least with a legalist, you have a person who values the Word of God and can be taught.

Generally speaking, homosexuals totally deny the authority of God or His Word.

If this is a common conception--that homosexuality is preferable to legalism--then the movement is in worse shape than I thought.

That is a sick and totally twisted perception.

I share your concerns Amos. Romans 1 is a harsh condemnation against those who "turned the truth of God into a lie, worshipped the creature more than the creator, and left the natural use" of the opposite sex. They even went so far as to remove every thought of God from their minds.

I can also see the hideous, soul-crushing effects of legalism as well. Jesus seemed to address the issue of legalism on a fairly regular basis. It was a huge issue in His day. The Pharisees were using legalism as a tool to keep people away from right relationship with God. In this way legalism was perversion of another stripe.

There are similarities and I, for one, would not want to be in a position to defend either sin. Both sins lead to separation from God. The only real difference I see is that homosexuality is a personal choice that primarily affects the consenting parties while legalism can affect entire groups of innocent individuals whose only desire is to attain close proximity to Jesus.

OP_Carl 08-26-2007 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tv1a (Post 225291)
I do question if legalists can be taught.

Dare we question what it is, in your opinion, legalists ought to be taught?

Quote:

Without going into detail,
An excellent decision.

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I've observed the best legalists make the best homosexuals.
"make" = transform into, or "make" = raise up? If you're talking about people who are shallow and completely devoid of understanding beyond their clothesline, I can see your point. The facts on the ground are not usually as stark as they are painted to be when aspersions are cast. Holding fast to old truths strictly can still be done with all power, spirit, and righteousness.

Quote:

I shouldl go through the similarities between homosexuality and legalism, but I don't want to be accused of calling all legalists homosexual.
Although we could compare your similarities to his, the comparison alone won't make you a Darwinian relative of a chimpanzee. Here, have another banana. :D

RandyWayne 08-26-2007 01:42 PM

I too agree that the question is a little far out in that it is a bit like asking "Would you rather drink a nice big gulp of sewage from house A? Or a tiny little sip from house B?" We're basically asking whether a BIG gulp is worse then a small sip and what constitutes what.

But going to the meat of the question, I'll stipulate that the "BIG gulp" is better represented by legalism. BOTH sins tend to be of a blinding nature and thus very hard for the sinner to see what they are doing is wrong.....

FRINGE_NUTTER 08-26-2007 01:44 PM

Who was worse Hitler or Stalin? They were both wrong. As homosexuality and legalism are both wrong. Having the love of God and following his commandments are what save us.

tv1a 08-26-2007 01:44 PM

Why mention names? This thread has nothing to do with personalities. I don't know about others, but I had no intentions of naming people in this discussion. This has nothing to do with personalities, but whcih is worse, legalism or homosexuality. I pointed out comparisons not to accuse anyone. That is why I said there are comparisons, but if I were to mention them, I would be accused of calling all legalists homosexuals. There are parallels between legalism and religious tolerance of homosexuality. Let's take the personalities out of the equation and look at this as grown ups.

Why does the word homosexual scare the snot out of us while we accept the word legalism as a term of endearment?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brett Prince (Post 225297)
Again, speak truths about something, but then attach that title concerning that truth to people who do not fit the description, and then you can paint them in a bad line...guilty by association.

I'm sorry. I don't agree with Steve Epley on everything, but I do not see Steve Epley as legalistic. The same goes for Bros. Boyd, Groce, White, etc. Those of you who TRULY believe them to be legalistic DON'T KNOW ENOUGH ABOUT THEM OR WHERE THEY STAND, HOW THEY VIEW THINGS.

You need to listen rather than label.


Praxeas 08-26-2007 01:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amos (Post 225287)
On another thread, tv1a and RandyWayne are promoting the idea that legalism is worse and more difficult to overcome than homosexuality.

What say ye?

I say that is a pretty stupid statement to make and reeks of hatred :hypercoffee

Amos 08-26-2007 01:47 PM

It was a stretch when it was originally said and it is a stretch now. A massive one.

We live in a time when the very worst sin a man can commit is preach standards; legalism has been set up as the ultimate monster, worse even than gross sexual perversion.

Tell me, you guys on the other side of this issue...would you rather see your son going to an Ultra-Con church, or being a homosexual?

That ought to make it a little easier to dial in on.

A lot of things are fun to theorize about.

Praxeas 08-26-2007 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tv1a (Post 225311)

Why does the word homosexual scare the snot out of us while we accept the word legalism as a term of endearment?

Nobody here used the word Legalism as a term of endearment. IN fact they are all denying they are legalists...apparently they don't like the term

Praxeas 08-26-2007 01:55 PM

Maybe we should start a thread and make comparisons between homosexuals and liberals?

tv1a 08-26-2007 01:55 PM

I'll pass on the bananna. I can't stand them. If you have grapefruit however.. lol

I don't know if you closely read the post I was referring to that stated legalists can be taught. That was response to that quote.

Again it is a personal observation that the best legalists make the best homosexuals. Some may remember the situation my family went through a couple years back. I care not rehash or open up old wounds. Needless to say it wasn't too much of a stretch to go from legalism to homosexuality.

Quote:

Holding fast to old truths strictly can still be done with all power, spirit, and righteousness.
A huge AMEN from me. But that's not the point. There is truth and there is opinion. We need to get back to the place where we can differentiate between the two.

Quote:

Originally Posted by OP_Carl (Post 225308)
Dare we question what it is, in your opinion, legalists ought to be taught?

An excellent decision.

"make" = transform into, or "make" = raise up? If you're talking about people who are shallow and completely devoid of understanding beyond their clothesline, I can see your point. The facts on the ground are not usually as stark as they are painted to be when aspersions are cast. Holding fast to old truths strictly can still be done with all power, spirit, and righteousness.


Although we could compare your similarities to his, the comparison alone won't make you a Darwinian relative of a chimpanzee. Here, have another banana. :D


johnmark93 08-26-2007 01:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amos (Post 225316)
It was a stretch when it was originally said and it is a stretch now. A massive one.

We live in a time when the very worst sin a man can commit is preach standards; legalism has been set up as the ultimate monster, worse even than gross sexual perversion.

Tell me, you guys on the other side of this issue...would you rather see your son going to an Ultra-Con church, or being a homosexual?

That ought to make it a little easier to dial in on.

A lot of things are fun to theorize about.

Why would a person choose either one? Legalism and homsexuality are equally monstrous.

OP_Carl 08-26-2007 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 225309)
I too agree that the question is a little far out in that it is a bit like asking "Would you rather drink a nice big gulp of sewage from house A? Or a tiny little sip from house B?" We're basically asking whether a BIG gulp is worse then a small sip and what constitutes what.

But going to the meat of the question, I'll stipulate that the "BIG gulp" is better represented by legalism. BOTH sins tend to be of a blinding nature and thus very hard for the sinner to see what they are doing is wrong.....

Even if they are highly illustrative, your metaphors stink!

RandyWayne 08-26-2007 02:00 PM

Just like OUR septic tank..... Good Lord.

tv1a 08-26-2007 02:09 PM

Here's the problem

1. Preaching standards is not universal. If by standards one means the preaching of a dress codes were that important, than there would be an universal guide. The way it is now one can go to any number of churches and find a different ''standard" in each congregation.

2. Standards ultimately boils down to the personal tastes and interpretation of the pastor. If he doesn't want television, he'll preach find a Biblical principle to preach against it. If he says internet is okay, he'll find another principle to justify it.

3. Legalism kills a move of God quicker than a Nagasaki Nuke.

4. This is a topic about legalism, not conservatives or liberals. If you want to label legalists go ahead, but we know conservatives who are not legalists. Too bad there aren't enough of them.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amos (Post 225316)
It was a stretch when it was originally said and it is a stretch now. A massive one.

We live in a time when the very worst sin a man can commit is preach standards; legalism has been set up as the ultimate monster, worse even than gross sexual perversion.

Tell me, you guys on the other side of this issue...would you rather see your son going to an Ultra-Con church, or being a homosexual?

That ought to make it a little easier to dial in on.

A lot of things are fun to theorize about.


Jack Shephard 08-26-2007 02:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amos (Post 225287)
On another thread, tv1a and RandyWayne are promoting the idea that legalism is worse and more difficult to overcome than homosexuality.

What say ye?

I think they are both wrong and sinful and damning to hell! :poloroid Just kidding.

I think that is tough to overcome both. I overcame legalism. It can be done! I know people that overcame homosexuality. It can be done too! Though sometimes it is easier to talk to Homosexuals cause they understand that everyone is different whereas the legalist do not understand how anyone can be different than them.

ILG 08-26-2007 02:14 PM

I think legalists are very much at risk for sexual sins. Unrepentant legalists are sinners of the worst stripe....and I think sexual sins are often bred out of it. But there are many who practice a form of conservativism that may have some legalism....but they are living what they believe with an honest heart. I think there is a big difference.

tv1a 08-26-2007 02:17 PM

Where were you at the beginning of this thread? Some people have a hard time not taking this as an attack on conservatism. The discussion is about legalism not conservatism.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILG (Post 225348)
I think legalists are very much at risk for sexual sins. Unrepentant legalists are sinners of the worst stripe....and I think sexual sins are often bred out of it. But there are many who practice a form of conservativism that may have some legalism....but they are living what they believe with an honest heart. I think there is a big difference.


RandyWayne 08-26-2007 02:17 PM

Quote:

Tell me, you guys on the other side of this issue...would you rather see your son going to an Ultra-Con church, or being a homosexual?
I see Amos is great generator of deep thoughts.

For ME it is like asking, would you rather see your son sitting in the court of King Herod or sitting under the teachings of a Pharisee? Neither are good, constructive, or desirable by any stretch, so the question is, What is worse?
Well, again it goes back to the point made many times in the New Testament that the pharisees were the only ones that Jesus got truly angry with. Most likely because they were supposed to know better!

Brett Prince 08-26-2007 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILG (Post 225348)
I think legalists are very much at risk for sexual sins. Unrepentant legalists are sinners of the worst stripe....and I think sexual sins are often bred out of it. But there are many who practice a form of conservativism that may have some legalism....but they are living what they believe with an honest heart. I think there is a big difference.

This is a good post.

tv1a 08-26-2007 02:23 PM

Good point made again.

Quote:

Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 225351)
I see Amos is great generator of deep thoughts.

For ME it is like asking, would you rather see your son sitting in the court of King Herod or sitting under the teachings of a Pharisee? Neither are good, constructive, or desirable by any stretch, so the question is, What is worse?
Well, again it goes back to the point made many times in the New Testament that the pharisees were the only ones that Jesus got truly angry with. Most likely because they were supposed to know better!


RevDWW 08-26-2007 02:40 PM

I think that legalists and homosexuals are different in that legalists are trying to serve God but a homosexual is serving themselves.

Would you rather have someone who serves God and may go overboard in their concept of standards, or have a someone who's only real concern is serving them self?

tv1a 08-26-2007 02:53 PM

Legalists are serving something.

Quote:

Originally Posted by RevDWW (Post 225368)
I think that legalists and homosexuals are different in that legalists are trying to serve God but a homosexual is serving themselves.

Would you rather have someone who serves God and may go overboard in their concept of standards, or have a someone who's only real concern is serving them self?


RevDWW 08-26-2007 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tv1a (Post 225379)
Legalists are serving something.

As Bob Dylan sang "You gotta serve somebody, it might be the devil or it might be the Lord, but you're gonna have to serve somebody".

Now have about answering my question.......:nah:nod

tv1a 08-26-2007 03:15 PM

You caught me in a rare terse moment. I was trying to be diplomatic. But since you ask, legalists are serving a spirit of control and manipulation. It's got a name, but I've dealt with the spirit in real life. I don't have a desire to deal with it in cyberspace.

Quote:

Originally Posted by RevDWW (Post 225380)
As Bob Dylan sang "You gotta serve somebody, it might be the devil or it might be the Lord, but you're gonna have to serve somebody".

Now have about answering my question.......:nah:nod


ILG 08-26-2007 05:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tv1a (Post 225394)
You caught me in a rare terse moment. I was trying to be diplomatic. But since you ask, legalists are serving a spirit of control and manipulation. It's got a name, but I've dealt with the spirit in real life. I don't have a desire to deal with it in cyberspace.

Very true.

Sheltiedad 08-26-2007 05:36 PM

Good thing the question isn't, "Who is more pleasant to be around, homosexuals or legalists?". :D

Sister Alvear 08-26-2007 05:55 PM

How could we decide who is a legalist?
By what standard?
We all KNOW what Homosexuality is but how would we define a legalist? Yes, I know the dictionary might tell us something but I mean among us how would we decide if we wanted too just who is a legalist?

deacon blues 08-26-2007 06:09 PM

In answer to the original question----sin is sin is sin. There are different severities as to the consequences of sin, but ultimately we don't want to be bound by sin. Whether its perversion OR religiosity, neither is pleasing to the Lord, so quit worrying about which is worse and GO AND SIN NO MORE!!!!!!

tv1a 08-26-2007 06:17 PM

Everyone has their own interpretation of apostolic. I think we could come up with a couple million different definitions of legalism.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 225470)
How could we decide who is a legalist?
By what standard?
We all KNOW what Homosexuality is but how would we define a legalist? Yes, I know the dictionary might tell us something but I mean among us how would we decide if we wanted too just who is a legalist?


tv1a 08-26-2007 06:18 PM

It's a no brainer....

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sheltiedad (Post 225460)
Good thing the question isn't, "Who is more pleasant to be around, homosexuals or legalists?". :D


pelathais 08-26-2007 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by johnmark93 (Post 225304)

... Quoting Amos ....
The spirit of homosexuality denies the power and ored of God and creation itself. In that dimension, it is more akin to the Saducees, who were completely unspiritual. Jesus had NO time for them. The Pharisees He did at least deal with, and salvaged some of them.

You will find nowhere in the Gospels where He spent any time working on a Saducee.
... end Amos quote ...

I share your concerns Amos. Romans 1 is a harsh condemnation against those who "turned the truth of God into a lie, worshipped the creature more than the creator, and left the natural use" of the opposite sex. They even went so far as to remove every thought of God from their minds.

I can also see the hideous, soul-crushing effects of legalism as well. Jesus seemed to address the issue of legalism on a fairly regular basis. It was a huge issue in His day. The Pharisees were using legalism as a tool to keep people away from right relationship with God. In this way legalism was perversion of another stripe.

There are similarities and I, for one, would not want to be in a position to defend either sin. Both sins lead to separation from God. The only real difference I see is that homosexuality is a personal choice that primarily affects the consenting parties while legalism can affect entire groups of innocent individuals whose only desire is to attain close proximity to Jesus.

I don't think Jesus deliberately avoided the Sadducees; they were just more isolated and unavailable than the Pharisees. The Pharisees were also having the greater impact upon the lives of the people.

The Sadducee sect was primarily limited to the Temple hierarchy while the Pharisees had set up a nationwide alternative to the Temple's schools- the synagogue system. Thus the Pharisees were literally everywhere you went in 1st Century Israel. Granted that's a minor point- but important when asking why Jesus didn't spend more time on the Sadducees.


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