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Steadfast 03-02-2007 05:19 PM

Pastors: How Seriously do you take the Training of Young Ministers?
 
Okay folks... in the midst of so many substance defunct threads let's try something significant to all those precious Saints that feel a call of God on their lives.

DISCLAIMER: I'm not against Bible College. I've spoken in all but one of our colleges and have no axes to grind with those that have, are or will be attending Bible College.

Having said that I have to admit that one of my greatest pet peeves is to see young men come to their Pastors feeling a call to preach only to be told "Okay, go to Bible College". Again, I'm not against Bible College but I think many Pastors see Bible College as an easy way to get out of the effort it requires to train young ministers.

I have 19 preachers who are (a) in training in my Church, (b) Pastoring, (c) Evangelizing, (d) full time Assistant Pastors and (e) retired Pastors who call me 'Pastor'. Obviously this means that I have spent serious time dealing with them, training them and opening doors for them to be around other viable ministries that come through our Church.

I tread softly here because I don't want to be perceived as attacking the role of a Pastor. I cherish my own Pastor and hold in the highest regard those precious Patriarchs that walk in Apostolic ministry and hold the Apostolic message as sacred. However, I'm literally shocked by the number of Pastors who feel absolutely no responsibility to work with young ministers in their Churches. In my travels I have heard such things as:
> "I came up the hard way and if they are going to be tough they need to come up the hard way, too!"
> "He came to me and told me he was called to preach so I told him to get a trailer he could evangelize in and get out of here!"
> "I was called to preach to Saints... not babysit immature preachers."

QUESTION A / PASTORS: How many of you Pastors take mentoring young ministers seriously and what are some of the things you do to teach and train them.

QUESTION B / MINISTERS: What things did your Pastor do that seemed to help you the most as you were maturing in ministry?

Carpenter 03-02-2007 06:58 PM

You don't wanna know what I think...

Well, I'll tell you anyway.

There are a few different schools of thought or pastors...if you will. There are those pastors who do not feel training ministers in their church is their calling. 2. Pastors who feel it is necessary to duplicate themselves and their ministry by cultivating ministers in their church. 3. Ministers who call men themselves to the ministry even though God is calling them only to faithfulness.

I know one pastor where most every single minister to my knowledge from that church has gone on to positive ministries. One pastor who came from this man is duplicating this and has planted at least 3-4 QUALITY men as pastors of burgeoning churches in the NORCAL area.

I know of another pastor that over a 20 year period, every single assistant pastor, associate pastor, and music director (save TWO, and one being his son-in-law), has left or been run out of town with a black cloud over their heads, and NOT ONE SINGLE ONE became a pastor or evangelist somewhere else in or out of the city. Most, in fact have left the church period...

I know yet of another who put men in positions to preach and they had absolutely no calling whatsoever. I have seen these men leave jobs to start churches and end up emotionally and spiritually damaged.

I think it depends on the pastor, if I were certain of a calling, I would leave running and screaming from some places.

Carpenter 03-02-2007 06:59 PM

On another note, it could be that there are pastors who do not cultivate ministers in their church because they are a little self conscience that the preacher may end up being a little more effective than they are/were...thus influencing people to leave their church?

Just a guess...

LaVonne 03-02-2007 07:04 PM

Steadfast, what about those Pastor's out there who do not believe in sending their young men to Bible College, but then still do very little to help develop or mentor them? For instance, there have been many who have felt the call to preach come through our church only to leave and get their license elsewhere because the pastor did not feel this person is called. Also, is it the pastor who should feel the calling upon a young man, or the man himself? There are only a few who the pastor felt was called, but to this day they are still not really doing much for God...they are still doing the same things they did 20 years ago. Is this the norm?

Frustrated!

Steadfast 03-02-2007 11:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Carpenter (Post 25243)
On another note, it could be that there are pastors who do not cultivate ministers in their church because they are a little self conscience that the preacher may end up being a little more effective than they are/were...thus influencing people to leave their church?

Just a guess...

That is a sad thing... and yet a true one. Some men are intimidated by anything resembling a viable ministry.

My greatest desire is that every preacher from under my ministry is twice the preacher I am. In fact, I think some of them probably are now.

Ronzo 03-02-2007 11:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 25686)
That is a sad thing... and yet a true one. Some men are intimidated by anything resembling a viable ministry.

My greatest desire is that every preacher from under my ministry is twice the preacher I am. In fact, I think some of them probably are now.

That's the right attitude bro.

Steadfast 03-02-2007 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CareyM (Post 25246)
Steadfast, what about those Pastor's out there who do not believe in sending their young men to Bible College, but then still do very little to help develop or mentor them? For instance, there have been many who have felt the call to preach come through our church only to leave and get their license elsewhere because the pastor did not feel this person is called. Also, is it the pastor who should feel the calling upon a young man, or the man himself? There are only a few who the pastor felt was called, but to this day they are still not really doing much for God...they are still doing the same things they did 20 years ago. Is this the norm?

Frustrated!

I think it's only fair, if you won't allow Bible School, that you help develop the gift in that person. Mind you, I can't say for your Pastor... and I won't say anything pertaining to that. However, I feel a genuine obligation to help those hungry to work for God.

As to who 'feels' the call? I can honestly tell you that those who have genuinely been called from among our congregation were recognized by (1) myself, (2) many in the congregation and (3) eventually themselves.

That is the beauty of a real call... people usually see it before you do. I do know, however, that I have been very mindful that I never eliminate someone from potentially having a call because of a bad homelife, an inferior potential or a less than perfect past.

Steadfast 03-02-2007 11:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ronzo (Post 25691)
That's the right attitude bro.

I sure hope so... if not I need to do some real repenting! :heeheehee

LaVonne 03-03-2007 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 25692)
I think it's only fair, if you won't allow Bible School, that you help develop the gift in that person. Mind you, I can't say for your Pastor... and I won't say anything pertaining to that. However, I feel a genuine obligation to help those hungry to work for God.

As to who 'feels' the call? I can honestly tell you that those who have genuinely been called from among our congregation were recognized by (1) myself, (2) many in the congregation and (3) eventually themselves.

That is the beauty of a real call... people usually see it before you do. I do know, however, that I have been very mindful that I never eliminate someone from potentially having a call because of a bad homelife, an inferior potential or a less than perfect past.

Thank you for your reply. Just for the record, I meant no disrespect toward my pastor...this is all in the past. I appreciate the way you operate and it seems that you truely walk in the Spirit and feel after it. God bless!

berkeley 03-03-2007 05:09 PM

Quote:

Okay folks... in the midst of so many substance defunct threads let's try something significant to all those precious Saints that feel a call of God on their lives.

DISCLAIMER: I'm not against Bible College. I've spoken in all but one of our colleges and have no axes to grind with those that have, are or will be attending Bible College.

Having said that I have to admit that one of my greatest pet peeves is to see young men come to their Pastors feeling a call to preach only to be told "Okay, go to Bible College". Again, I'm not against Bible College but I think many Pastors see Bible College as an easy way to get out of the effort it requires to train young ministers.
Never heard of this happening. In the church that I attended, bible college was frowned upon. "You will not learn anything in bible college that can't be learned at your home church."
"I think I'm called into the ministry." is always met with "we will pray about it together." The man is encouraged to be involved in other areas of ministry, sunday school.. etc.

StillStanding 03-03-2007 05:58 PM

Steadfast, I obviously am not a pastor, but I must say that you are a true leader. True leaders make an art out of developing other people. I wish all pastors were like you! :)

LaVonne 03-03-2007 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pianoman (Post 26274)
Steadfast, I obviously am not a pastor, but I must say that you are a true leader. True leaders make an art out of developing other people. I wish all pastors were like you! :)

Amen!

Steadfast 03-04-2007 12:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Berkeley (Post 26236)
Never heard of this happening. In the church that I attended, bible college was frowned upon. "You will not learn anything in bible college that can't be learned at your home church."
"I think I'm called into the ministry." is always met with "we will pray about it together." The man is encouraged to be involved in other areas of ministry, sunday school.. etc.


Berkeley, I hate to bring you to 'my' reality but I tell many people when they come to me feeling a call to preach that "We will pray about it... get involved in other areas of ministry like Sunday School, Outreach, etc... and let's see if that satisfies the desire you have to be used of God." If that satisfies them then they obviously aren't called of God to preach.

It's those that are faithful in those 'other' areas and still have a passion to do more for God are usually the ones who are genuinely called to preach.

ANOTHER KEY MISTAKE I feel that we Pastors make is that we fail to teach that there are other viable, valuable ministries that have nothing to do with a pulpit or getting up in front of people! Because there are some that think that the preacher's role is a 'cure all' for every need they, by their silence about other ministries, promote the idea that the pulpit is the only place to be used of God. What an incredibly sad mistake!

As sad as it is that there are people who are genuinely called that never get training it's equally as sad that there are people in pulpits that should never have been taken there by a Pastor.

They just put them there because they, themselves, don't understand how important other ministries are.

:dunno

Steadfast 03-04-2007 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pianoman (Post 26274)
Steadfast, I obviously am not a pastor, but I must say that you are a true leader. True leaders make an art out of developing other people. I wish all pastors were like you! :)

Thank you, Pianoman... I do, sincerely, try to duplicate real Apostolic ministry in others. I made a vow to God years ago that, because someone took the time to help me, I would give my strength and experience to develop others who were genuinely hungry to do something for God.

Steadfast 03-04-2007 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CareyM (Post 25877)
Thank you for your reply. Just for the record, I meant no disrespect toward my pastor...this is all in the past. I appreciate the way you operate and it seems that you truely walk in the Spirit and feel after it. God bless!


I expected this was the way you felt... but wanted to clarify it in a post so that others would know that we weren't shooting at your - or anybody else's - Pastor. :highfive

Thanks for the compliment.

berkeley 03-04-2007 01:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 26733)

Berkeley, I hate to bring you to 'my' reality but I tell many people when they come to me feeling a call to preach that "We will pray about it... get involved in other areas of ministry like Sunday School, Outreach, etc... and let's see if that satisfies the desire you have to be used of God." If that satisfies them then they obviously aren't called of God to preach.

It's those that are faithful in those 'other' areas and still have a passion to do more for God are usually the ones who are genuinely called to preach.

ANOTHER KEY MISTAKE I feel that we Pastors make is that we fail to teach that there are other viable, valuable ministries that have nothing to do with a pulpit or getting up in front of people! Because there are some that think that the preacher's role is a 'cure all' for every need they, by their silence about other ministries, promote the idea that the pulpit is the only place to be used of God. What an incredibly sad mistake!

As sad as it is that there are people who are genuinely called that never get training it's equally as sad that there are people in pulpits that should never have been taken there by a Pastor.

They just put them there because they, themselves, don't understand how important other ministries are.

:dunno

Good post, doc. :: thumbs up ::

BoredOutOfMyMind 03-04-2007 09:42 AM

I personally learned more from Hospital and Funeral Home visits than any other aspect of the ministry. This is an interesting thread.

stmatthew 03-04-2007 10:31 AM

Pastors: How Seriously do you take the Training of Young Ministers?
 
Let me put a twist in this thread and asked a very sincere question.

What do you do with those older ministers that seemed to have fallen through the cracks in being trained? Those that attended churches where they were not cultivated and helped. Those that did not attend bible school. What do those older ministries do now that they have lost much of their youth, and have become discouraged in the fight?

Tina 03-04-2007 04:00 PM

Bumping this back to the first page... so that StMatt's question can be answered without this thread being lost

Truthseeker 03-04-2007 04:14 PM

Some pastors have made the church their business, not the house of God. This how we get these problems and family runned churches and passing the church unto their sons.

Ferd 03-04-2007 04:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Carpenter (Post 25241)
You don't wanna know what I think...

Well, I'll tell you anyway.

There are a few different schools of thought or pastors...if you will. There are those pastors who do not feel training ministers in their church is their calling. 2. Pastors who feel it is necessary to duplicate themselves and their ministry by cultivating ministers in their church. 3. Ministers who call men themselves to the ministry even though God is calling them only to faithfulness.

I know one pastor where most every single minister to my knowledge from that church has gone on to positive ministries. One pastor who came from this man is duplicating this and has planted at least 3-4 QUALITY men as pastors of burgeoning churches in the NORCAL area.

I know of another pastor that over a 20 year period, every single assistant pastor, associate pastor, and music director (save TWO, and one being his son-in-law), has left or been run out of town with a black cloud over their heads, and NOT ONE SINGLE ONE became a pastor or evangelist somewhere else in or out of the city. Most, in fact have left the church period...

I know yet of another who put men in positions to preach and they had absolutely no calling whatsoever. I have seen these men leave jobs to start churches and end up emotionally and spiritually damaged.

I think it depends on the pastor, if I were certain of a calling, I would leave running and screaming from some places.

Brilliant! Carp, this is one of your very best and most accurate posts... much appause bro.

Steadfast 03-05-2007 12:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stmatthew (Post 26826)
Let me put a twist in this thread and asked a very sincere question.

What do you do with those older ministers that seemed to have fallen through the cracks in being trained? Those that attended churches where they were not cultivated and helped. Those that did not attend bible school. What do those older ministries do now that they have lost much of their youth, and have become discouraged in the fight?

To be concise, I have to tell you that I'm not too sure that someone can be 'too old' to preach. However, I'm smart enough to know that it's somewhat harder to help train a man that is working a job, raising a family and taking care of a wife and home.

I've seen the unfortunate truth of a young man that was greatly used of God and would have developed into a priceless minister make bad decisions.
First, he met a woman and fell in love... and stopped praying.
Secondly, he - by his own admission - put ministry on the back shelf until he got married... and had no time to invest in ministry.
Thirdly, he became confused and disallusioned by those young men who had surrounded him becoming strong, stable ministers and wondered why he was left behind.

I guess he forgot about #1 and #2... Today I've salvaged him to be a solid Saint with a great heart. The problem is that much of what he needed to develop was lost in the 'interim' period where he put what was important on a back shelf.

Could he come on now and be used of God? Absolutely. To the exent his once could have? We may never know because he's too 'wrapped up' in his world to seek God's world.

As for being in a situation where the time is not taken to develop and train a young minister? Well, that's a whole new post for sure. I would surely seek God to give me someone willing to mentory me in those critical areas that young ministers need it most.

By way of dealing with 'lost time' and questioning the will of God I would suggest a message I preached called "The Will is Lost but the Way I Know".

Perhaps more later.

stmatthew 03-06-2007 06:18 PM

Bump for the "more later"

rrford 03-06-2007 10:04 PM

I think there is no Pastor nor no Bible College that can totally prepare a young man for ministry on their own. It takes many working together.

Steadfast 03-06-2007 11:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rrford (Post 30282)
I think there is no Pastor nor no Bible College that can totally prepare a young man for ministry on their own. It takes many working together.

I would agree with you completely... or maybe even more!

rrford 03-06-2007 11:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 30349)
I would agree with you completely... or maybe even more!

HEY! Someone is agreeing with me for a change. Not used to that lately on here. :killinme

Steadfast 03-07-2007 12:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rrford (Post 30352)
HEY! Someone is agreeing with me for a change. Not used to that lately on here. :killinme

You don't COME AROUND enough for anybody to agree with you! At least you don't POST ENOUGH for anybody to agree with you!

I miss the Posse days...................:drawguns

(Guaranteed to get a negative remark or two!)

:tease

rrford 03-07-2007 12:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 30381)
You don't COME AROUND enough for anybody to agree with you! At least you don't POST ENOUGH for anybody to agree with you!

I miss the Posse days...................:drawguns

(Guaranteed to get a negative remark or two!)

:tease

LOL! Not sue the Posse wants to ride here.


I am determined to not be in the Top 10 Posters on this Forum. Ever.

Steadfast 03-07-2007 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rrford (Post 30385)
LOL! Not sue the Posse wants to ride here.


I am determined to not be in the Top 10 Posters on this Forum. Ever.


Chicken........................................... .........................







Ain't never known you to be skeered, rrford!



:tease

rrford 03-07-2007 12:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 30388)

Chicken........................................... .........................







Ain't never known you to be skeered, rrford!



:tease

"Wisdom is the better part of valor."

BoredOutOfMyMind 03-07-2007 12:46 AM

Ok, now we have determined rrford is chicken, what about Matt's question?

stmatthew 03-07-2007 11:27 PM

bumping this. I really would like to hear more on this.

Malvaro 03-19-2007 10:32 AM

both my pastors (past and present) have had leadership classes for leaders in the church.... I think that is important, even if a person doesn't feel called to preach and helps in other ministry areas....

chseeads 03-19-2007 11:16 AM

My pastor died within a matter of short months after I acknowledged any calling....

I had to take on a lot of roles that were a matter of pure sink or swim.

It ain't always easy bein' cheesy.

Felicity 03-19-2007 11:40 AM

My husband has helped mentor several young men. Most of them are pastoring today. One is pastoring the church we left a few years back and doing a great job!

Steadfast 01-05-2008 10:37 PM

:bumpsign

Got to bump this thread up again as the whole Ministry Training thing has been premiere in my spirit lately. I just finished preaching two Minister's Conferences in the last few months and, while many are well prepared for ministry demands, I'm amazed at how many are severely lacking in areas vital to a successful ministry.

I'd still like to hear some answers to the initial questions this thread posed:

QUESTION A / PASTORS: How many of you Pastors take mentoring young ministers seriously and what are some of the things you do to teach and train them.

QUESTION B / MINISTERS: What things did your Pastor do that seemed to help you the most as you were maturing in ministry?

Cindy 01-05-2008 11:39 PM

Bro. Steadfast do you ever preach in Texas?

Steadfast 01-06-2008 08:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cneasttx (Post 349398)
Bro. Steadfast do you ever preach in Texas?


I Pastor in Texas... and preach there every now and then!

Rev 01-06-2008 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 349297)
:bumpsign

Got to bump this thread up again as the whole Ministry Training thing has been premiere in my spirit lately. I just finished preaching two Minister's Conferences in the last few months and, while many are well prepared for ministry demands, I'm amazed at how many are severely lacking in areas vital to a successful ministry.

I'd still like to hear some answers to the initial questions this thread posed:

QUESTION A / PASTORS: How many of you Pastors take mentoring young ministers seriously and what are some of the things you do to teach and train them.

QUESTION B / MINISTERS: What things did your Pastor do that seemed to help you the most as you were maturing in ministry?


When I came into the truth and then felt the call the pastor a a couple of teaching sessions for about five of us. We also began to preach after many months. Almost no one is ready to start preaching when they first feel the call. So the pastors that will sent someone out to preach as soon as the call comes is just trying to get rid of the newly called for some reason.That first pastor eventually destroyed that church because he became bitter. Fifteen people was left in the church when finally left.

I searched for many years for someone that would actually take an interest in me and help me. I sat under some big name preachers that never lifted a finger to help me or any other preacher in their church. I think that the mentality of too some pastors is - come and help me build my kingdom. Be sure to pay tithes and let me have a body count so that I can show people that I'm growing, etc. If a pastor doesn't want to help young preachers that should send them to someone that will. But again far too many won't do that because they want the tithes and the body count.

Steadfast 01-06-2008 01:34 PM

Rev,


While that's unfortunate... and hopefully an experience pertaining to the minority of Pastors... I have to admit that there are FAR too few that really strive to help equip young preachers.


I have classes from time to time but spend a lot of time 'one on one' with my young preachers. I do a lot of traveling for speaking engagements and often, if it's within my capability, will take young preachers with me to those engagments.


It helps them see things not only from a 'Pastoral' viewpoint but they see me in the 'Evangelist' role and learn from that as well.


Let's be more specific...


PASTORS:

* Do any of you Pastors give your young preachers tips for reading materials?

* Do any of you Pastors have a 'rotation' schedule giving young men a chance to preach and develop their calling?

* Do any of you Pastors include your young ministers in the 'fellowship' with visiting ministers after Church? And what is your criteria for doing so... Reaching a certain stage of development? Length of time preaching? According to what that visiting minister has to offer them?


YOUNG MINISTERS:

* What are the kinds of things that you want to be trained in from the Pastor / Elders in your life?

* What area do you, personally, feel unfulfilled in and perceive as needing specific help?

* Would you prefer a regular class for training (like on Sunday Mornings) or sporatic meetings with the Pastor as he feels led to speak to you about something?


Anxious to see some answers!


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