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Rhoni 10-01-2007 08:53 PM

Get a life
 
The topics of these threads about the local gossip of the UPCI is driving me crazy. I'm taking time off until you guys can talk of something more interesting than T.V., Californica District, and GC.

Good night.

Rhoni

HeavenlyOne 10-01-2007 09:27 PM

Yet you posted on one just about ten minutes before starting this thread.

Go figure........LOL!

Praxeas 10-01-2007 09:29 PM

I thought this said "get a wife"...I was gonna ask how my "Well, here I am...what were your other two wishes" pick up line looked good to you guys :gclock

SoCaliUPC 10-01-2007 10:22 PM

Stay out of the Tab and onto the General Discussion area. Seriously.

If people don't want to read about certain things...don't click on it.

Right now, some of these things are current events in the UPC. We just came from a General Conference where 2 controversial resolutions were voted on and the implications of such we are seeing. If it does not interest you, stay out of the Tab or don't click on tabs that have that content in it.

There are more threads dealing with more relevant topics than what you describe here.

HeavenlyOne 10-01-2007 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SoCaliUPC (Post 259846)
Stay out of the Tab and onto the General Discussion area. Seriously.

If people don't want to read about certain things...don't click on it.

Right now, some of these things are current events in the UPC. We just came from a General Conference where 2 controversial resolutions were voted on and the implications of such we are seeing. If it does not interest you, stay out of the Tab or don't click on tabs that have that content in it.

There are more threads dealing with more relevant topics than what you describe here.

She didn't have a problem posting on them either, even just minutes before starting this thread, and she said nothing about it bothering her.

But you are right. If it bothers you, don't click and read!

Praxeas 10-01-2007 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 259865)
She didn't have a problem posting on them either, even just minutes before starting this thread, and she said nothing about it bothering her.

But you are right. If it bothers you, don't click and read!

My goodness....Now here is proof, the Internet can't be controlled by the sheeple...even those with a College degree....All good cons please come to her rescue and out law Internet :killinme:killinme:killinme:killinme

SoCaliUPC 10-01-2007 10:43 PM

The comment I made above may be interpretted as a personal rebuke. It is more universal then that in that if a topic does not interest you, you have the choice to not click into that thread.

Trouvere 10-01-2007 10:50 PM

Hey Rhoni I have one.We had a blast tonight.I have to share that one of the ladies that I met at the jail came to service Sunday night.She was a backslider and decided she had learned her lesson.God is good.She was up on the front pew worshipping.

Rhoni 10-02-2007 05:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 259693)
I thought this said "get a wife"...I was gonna ask how my "Well, here I am...what were your other two wishes" pick up line looked good to you guys :gclock

Prax,

You and all those other wonderful guys out there are single because you choose to be. There are many women out there praying that God would send a good man to them. Go find your rib my brother!

Be Blessed, Rhoni

Rhoni 10-02-2007 05:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trouvere (Post 259893)
Hey Rhoni I have one.We had a blast tonight.I have to share that one of the ladies that I met at the jail came to service Sunday night.She was a backslider and decided she had learned her lesson.God is good.She was up on the front pew worshipping.

Now that is what I love to hear about...God moving in our churches through outreach and inreach ministries. Thank you for the good news.

Blessings, Rhoni

redeemedcynic84 10-02-2007 05:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 260037)
Prax,

You and all those other wonderful guys out there are single because you choose to be. There are many women out there praying that God would send a good man to them. Go find your rib my brother!

Be Blessed, Rhoni

:killinme

sorry, not true... See, girls have unrealistic expectations in men...

They want a guy who is perfect in every way (even perfect in ways that are impossible and, sometimes, even contradictory to other things that they are)...

lol

PLUS, the simple fact of the matter is, no matter how much those girls may want to get married, it takes them YEARS of wanting to get married before they realize that the bad boy is not the boy they want...

so its not just about guys "going out and finding thier rib"...

Trouvere 10-02-2007 07:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by redeemedcynic84 (Post 260040)
:killinme

sorry, not true... See, girls have unrealistic expectations in men...

They want a guy who is perfect in every way (even perfect in ways that are impossible and, sometimes, even contradictory to other things that they are)...

lol

PLUS, the simple fact of the matter is, no matter how much those girls may want to get married, it takes them YEARS of wanting to get married before they realize that the bad boy is not the boy they want...

so its not just about guys "going out and finding thier rib"...

Girls???? There is the underlying problem.....immaturity.Find a woman and you
will feel different about it.BTW I still like the tough guys only mine got saved.
It depends what you feel a bad boy is.Rebellious? naw no woman in her right mind wants that kind of guy.Mr never grow up? No he won't pay his bills and is afraid of commitments and still lives with his mother.No woman in her right mind wants to
iron anyones underclothes.
Ladies don't want irresponsible partners.Think on these things.
Ask yourself some deep questions like,"Am I prepared to have a long term relationship financially?" You cannot live on love.A long term relationship that
includes possible marriage is going to take a concerted effort not just a drive by.:driving

Scott Hutchinson 10-02-2007 08:11 AM

Prax might find a gal that pokes him in his rib.

Rhoni 10-02-2007 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by redeemedcynic84 (Post 260040)
:killinme

sorry, not true... See, girls have unrealistic expectations in men...

They want a guy who is perfect in every way (even perfect in ways that are impossible and, sometimes, even contradictory to other things that they are)...

lol

PLUS, the simple fact of the matter is, no matter how much those girls may want to get married, it takes them YEARS of wanting to get married before they realize that the bad boy is not the boy they want...

so its not just about guys "going out and finding thier rib"...

Guess it is too much to ask for a man to hold down a stable job and love his wife like Christ loved the church...real hard for men to measure up to these days, huh?:hypercoffee

redeemedcynic84 10-02-2007 10:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trouvere (Post 260076)
Girls???? There is the underlying problem.....immaturity.Find a woman and you
will feel different about it.BTW I still like the tough guys only mine got saved.
It depends what you feel a bad boy is.Rebellious? naw no woman in her right mind wants that kind of guy.Mr never grow up? No he won't pay his bills and is afraid of commitments and still lives with his mother.No woman in her right mind wants to
iron anyones underclothes.
Ladies don't want irresponsible partners.Think on these things.
Ask yourself some deep questions like,"Am I prepared to have a long term relationship financially?" You cannot live on love.A long term relationship that
includes possible marriage is going to take a concerted effort not just a drive by.:driving

I meant "girls" as in female, not "girls" as in "young females"... lol

and I know what you mean, but being a guy, its not as simple as being those things because, when it comes down to it, that's not what girls want...

That's why things like "the Pickup Artist" are so popular (and thier techniques work)...

girls say they want a good guy, and deep down they do really want a good guy, they just, more often than not, don't pick the good guys until after they've been with enough ............ guys to realize that isn't what they want, or don't ever pick them at all...

redeemedcynic84 10-02-2007 10:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 260303)
Guess it is too much to ask for a man to hold down a stable job and love his wife like Christ loved the church...real hard for men to measure up to these days, huh?:hypercoffee

that's not what most single women nowadays (even those in the church) want...

at least, by thier actions, that's not waht they want because a lot of times the guys who are like that, don't have girlfriends... (and no, they don't have wives either)

LadyRev 10-02-2007 11:24 AM

Practice what you preach!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 259604)
The topics of these threads about the local gossip of the UPCI is driving me crazy. I'm taking time off until you guys can talk of something more interesting than T.V., Californica District, and GC.

Good night.

Rhoni

For some of us, the UPCI is a big part of the LIFE that we have.

I suppose "therapy" and "counseling" is more interesting???

I personally think NOT! Thats my personal opinion.

If you don't like the UPCI talk, GET A LIFE and get off the forum!

(Nothing personal Rhoni...your gripe just hit me wrong. Maybe I need therapy. :D )

Hegavmelif 10-02-2007 12:47 PM

:roseglasses
Quote:

Originally Posted by Trouvere (Post 260076)
Girls???? There is the underlying problem.....immaturity.Find a woman and you
will feel different about it.BTW I still like the tough guys only mine got saved.
It depends what you feel a bad boy is.Rebellious? naw no woman in her right mind wants that kind of guy.Mr never grow up? No he won't pay his bills and is afraid of commitments and still lives with his mother.No woman in her right mind wants to
iron anyones underclothes.
Ladies don't want irresponsible partners.Think on these things.
Ask yourself some deep questions like,"Am I prepared to have a long term relationship financially?" You cannot live on love.A long term relationship that
includes possible marriage is going to take a concerted effort not just a drive by.:driving

Sounds Like YOU have MAN issues....LOL!!!!! By the way, if I want a pair of socks ironed, my wife would iron them for me....:telephone. Futhermore, she would do because of all the NICE things I do for her...:roseglasses

DividedThigh 10-02-2007 01:16 PM

i think allof us need a life, sad but true this might be all we have, escape i say, lol,dt:hypercoffee

Rhoni 10-02-2007 05:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LadyRev (Post 260336)
For some of us, the UPCI is a big part of the LIFE that we have.

I suppose "therapy" and "counseling" is more interesting???

I personally think NOT! Thats my personal opinion.

If you don't like the UPCI talk, GET A LIFE and get off the forum!

(Nothing personal Rhoni...your gripe just hit me wrong. Maybe I need therapy. :D )

Lady Rev,

I won't take it personal...I've had a bad day myself. I hope you get over yours as i got over mine when seeing my roses on the table when I got home:). I am glad someone loves me.

Blessings, Rhoni

Trouvere 10-02-2007 11:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hegavmelif (Post 260417)
:roseglasses

Sounds Like YOU have MAN issues....LOL!!!!! By the way, if I want a pair of socks ironed, my wife would iron them for me....:telephone. Futhermore, she would do because of all the NICE things I do for her...:roseglasses

No way you got me pinned wrong.I have a wonderful hubby.I don't however iron his underwear or his socks.Forget it buster he does the laundry around here.I work twelve hour shifts and bring home big moola.I am the nurse with the purse.I just don't like whinning.Women don't want whiners we want real men.Men with jobs and businesses.Men who pray and fast and support us in our endeavors and we in theirs.No issues with men here.I just see alot of men and women in the church unmarried and harping when the truth is alot of them could not submit if they had to and others could not support if they
had too.For all of those mentioned do the rest of the church a favor....stay single.:killinme
BTW I am a fantastic cook and have alot going for me on a personal basis.My husband is happy with me.He is my fishing,camping buddy and always has been.The men in church stood to attention when I voiced a prayer request about a decison to buy him a new boat.A few of them even volunteered to help me check out motors.haha....

Rhoni 10-03-2007 02:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trouvere (Post 261336)
No way you got me pinned wrong.I have a wonderful hubby.I don't however iron his underwear or his socks.Forget it buster he does the laundry around here.I work twelve hour shifts and bring home big moola.I am the nurse with the purse.I just don't like whinning.Women don't want whiners we want real men.Men with jobs and businesses.Men who pray and fast and support us in our endeavors and we in theirs.No issues with men here.I just see alot of men and women in the church unmarried and harping when the truth is alot of them could not submit if they had to and others could not support if they
had too.For all of those mentioned do the rest of the church a favor....stay single.:killinme
BTW I am a fantastic cook and have alot going for me on a personal basis.My husband is happy with me.He is my fishing,camping buddy and always has been.The men in church stood to attention when I voiced a prayer request about a decison to buy him a new boat.A few of them even volunteered to help me check out motors.haha....

Trouvere,

You have well said! And I know that you are an honorable woman so whoever it is that thinks you have issues with men is nuts:)!:sshhh BTW...you are on target about those single harpin' people. Most of the singles I have met in the past 4 years who are in the church...the men don't work, and the women have little to no respect for them. So those...no work males...may they stay single and those independent women who work and are praying for a husband...I bet they'd submit if they found a real man.:hypercoffee

Blessings,Rhoni


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