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Jesuswins 10-22-2007 09:35 AM

Church Dinner.... Need help
 
We are going to begin doing a Sunday dinner once a month as a fund raiser for our Music Department. I have taken the responsibility of coordinating this each month, the more I think about it the more I feel overwhelmed about it, so I'm looking for some advice.
We run about 250-300 on Sunday mornings (I'm sure everyone won't stay, I hope everyone wont stay:runhills) we may be able to seat 100 people in our fellowship hall. I have about 65 people in the Music Department that I can use as rotating staff to facilitate the event and to bring food. I plan to get a committee together of about 5 people to help me over see things and delegate the work.
So I need some ideas on how to do this, from menu ides, serving ideas, should I have people bring food or just donate money for food to be bought, what's a good price. Those of you that have done this before or seen it done at your church please let me know how it works best for your church. I would like for this to be as organized as possible, but nice and simple is what I'm going for.

Tina 10-22-2007 09:59 AM

These are some of the menus we've used with our Young at Heart dinners-

Turkey (or chicken) and dressing
Mashed potatoes
Candied Yams
Green beans
Corn
Rolls
Choice of drink
Choice of dessert

~
BBQ
Potato Salad
Baked Beans
Slaw
Buns/Rolls
Drink
Dessert
~~~~

Spaghetti
Potatoes
Green Beans
Slaw or salad
French Bread
Drinks
Desserts
~~~~~

Boneless Ham
Scalloped potatoes
Choice of beans
Slaw
Rolls
Drinks
Desserts

~~~
Chili
Homemade Vegetable Soup
Crackers
Cornbread
Drinks
Desserts

~~~~

Hamburger steak
Baked Potato
Salad
Texas Toast
Drinks
Desserts

~~~~

Chicken Strips
Mashed potatoes
Green Beans
Corn
Slaw
Rolls
Drinks
Desserts

Malvaro 10-22-2007 10:00 AM

some questions that might help us offer reasonable suggestions....

a) does the church have full kitchen? if not, whats available?
b) what kind of tables are available (long-tables, round, etc)?
c) what basic design of room (square, rectangle, kitchen attached, etc)

Tina 10-22-2007 10:01 AM

oh... and you could always buy a carton of the take out trays... and just sell dinners to go- then you wouldn't have to worry about seating people.

Timmy 10-22-2007 10:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesuswins (Post 277705)
We are going to begin doing a Sunday dinner once a month as a fund raiser for our Music Department. I have taken the responsibility of coordinating this each month, the more I think about it the more I feel overwhelmed about it, so I'm looking for some advice.
We run about 250-300 on Sunday mornings (I'm sure everyone won't stay, I hope everyone wont stay:runhills) we may be able to seat 100 people in our fellowship hall. I have about 65 people in the Music Department that I can use as rotating staff to facilitate the event and to bring food. I plan to get a committee together of about 5 people to help me over see things and delegate the work.
So I need some ideas on how to do this, from menu ides, serving ideas, should I have people bring food or just donate money for food to be bought, what's a good price. Those of you that have done this before or seen it done at your church please let me know how it works best for your church. I would like for this to be as organized as possible, but nice and simple is what I'm going for.

Dominos!

Esther 10-22-2007 10:22 AM

I have done many.

cost depends on what your market will bare. :)

We get as much donated as possible for the desserts and salads. The main ingredients like meats we usually buy and cook in the kitchen.

Spegatti is the most cost effective.

Also Chicken Spegatti is good.

Jesuswins 10-22-2007 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Malvaro (Post 277747)
some questions that might help us offer reasonable suggestions....

a) does the church have full kitchen? if not, whats available?
b) what kind of tables are available (long-tables, round, etc)?
c) what basic design of room (square, rectangle, kitchen attached, etc)

We have round tables that will seat 6-8 and long tables that we could squeez 10 at. We do have a full Kitchen but it is small and would be crowded if more than 4 were in there at one time, the building is rectangle, and I would "guess" (?) the seating area is at least 20-25 feet wide and about 75 feet long.
We have had buffets set up in there in the past and it is always so crazy trying to get all those people through a buffet line, so we thought about having servers. Since we are going to do it that way I think the Menu should be simple so that there are not any choices except dessert and drink, they will get everything on the menu.
The suggested menu for November is Turkey w/ dressing and gravy, Mashed potatoes, green beans, roll, dessert and drink. I want the cost to be cheap enough so everyone can come but I don't want it too cheap. Maybe $5 or $6 for adults and $3 or $4 for kids 3-10, 2 and under free.

What do you think?

tamor 10-22-2007 11:21 AM

When we did dinners in the past, we usually made more money if we did it on a donation basis. That way, folks who might not have the money will come and give "something" but there were always some that would throw in anywhere from five to twenty to even a hundred bucks. Just something else to consider......

Tina 10-22-2007 11:22 AM

I'd suggest that you set up a donation jar instead... and have the minister announce that all proceeds go for the music dept. In our church, if people know in advance what the proceeds are going for, they will give an extra donation in support of the cause into the jar. We didn't charge per plate.....

tamor 10-22-2007 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tina (Post 277745)
These are some of the menus we've used with our Young at Heart dinners-

Turkey (or chicken) and dressing
Mashed potatoes
Candied Yams
Green beans
Corn
Rolls
Choice of drink
Choice of dessert

~
BBQ
Potato Salad
Baked Beans
Slaw
Buns/Rolls
Drink
Dessert
~~~~

Spaghetti
Potatoes
Green Beans
Slaw or salad
French Bread
Drinks
Desserts
~~~~~

Boneless Ham
Scalloped potatoes
Choice of beans
Slaw
Rolls
Drinks
Desserts

~~~
Chili
Homemade Vegetable Soup
Crackers
Cornbread
Drinks
Desserts

~~~~

Hamburger steak
Baked Potato
Salad
Texas Toast
Drinks
Desserts

~~~~

Chicken Strips
Mashed potatoes
Green Beans
Corn
Slaw
Rolls
Drinks
Desserts

You can stop anytime now. You're making me hungry!!

Tina 10-22-2007 11:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tamor (Post 277872)
You can stop anytime now. You're making me hungry!!

haha.. just wait. When I get back from my errands I'm going to PM you details about the fall fest that is Sunday evening... and you'll really be hungry. LOL

tamor 10-22-2007 11:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tina (Post 277876)
haha.. just wait. When I get back from my errands I'm going to PM you details about the fall fest that is Sunday evening... and you'll really be hungry. LOL

Yum! Not fair!! And I would hate to come since we didn't make it for anniversary services. It would look like we're only coming down when there is food!! :pirate

Jesuswins 10-22-2007 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tamor (Post 277869)
When we did dinners in the past, we usually made more money if we did it on a donation basis. That way, folks who might not have the money will come and give "something" but there were always some that would throw in anywhere from five to twenty to even a hundred bucks. Just something else to consider......

I wouldn't have thought of that, thanks for the idea!!

Jesuswins 11-12-2007 02:39 PM

Had the "Dinner" Yesterday after SS, everything went very smoothly. We only freaked out a little when someone ran up and told us that the Pastor decided to dismiss 30 minutes early........ :reaction At that time that left us 30 minutes to finish preparing everything!! Aaaaaaauughhhhhh!!!!:aaa
But we threw it into high gear and got it done!!

Whew........... I'm tired!:spirit

NightOwl 11-12-2007 02:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 277751)
Dominos!


sounds good here

now I am hungry

tamor 11-12-2007 03:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesuswins (Post 299497)
Had the "Dinner" Yesterday after SS, everything went very smoothly. We only freaked out a little when someone ran up and told us that the Pastor decided to dismiss 30 minutes early........ :reaction At that time that left us 30 minutes to finish preparing everything!! Aaaaaaauughhhhhh!!!!:aaa
But we threw it into high gear and got it done!!

Whew........... I'm tired!:spirit

So what did y'all serve and how did y'all do? Did ya charge or ask for donations?

trent4 11-12-2007 05:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesuswins (Post 299497)
Had the "Dinner" Yesterday after SS, everything went very smoothly. We only freaked out a little when someone ran up and told us that the Pastor decided to dismiss 30 minutes early........ :reaction At that time that left us 30 minutes to finish preparing everything!! Aaaaaaauughhhhhh!!!!:aaa
But we threw it into high gear and got it done!!

Whew........... I'm tired!:spirit


Ya'll did a GREAT job! The food was very good and the service too!
Within a couple minutes we had 4 different people come to our table to see if we needed anything....Nathan and I never get that kind of service.:)

AmazingGrace 11-12-2007 08:51 PM

Ok here are just a few suggestions from the peanut gallery (or a former assistant pastors wife who did these stinkin dinners about every month for 3 yrs!!!!) GRRRRR

Ok first of all the menu's that were posted are wonderful and actually all but one of them are identical to ones we have used.

2. The idea of the takeout boxes is wonderful and it is something we did because we had a lot of elderly families that just couldnt handle standing and waiting so we had about 30 of the takeouts ready at the end of service and then the rest we made as we went that way we wouldnt lost out on much food.

3. We did the majority of it by the main course asking all of the ladies to donate 5-10 dollars each and either bring a dessert or bread and one can of the selected veggie for that dinner. This makes the veggie about the only thing that has to be made right then... You heat the rolls up right at the end and you can actually have most of the main course finished by the time you head off to church. Set it in the oven on low and it will be nice and ready for service at the end of church.

It is really best for 1 or 2 people to prepare the main course and we either met at the church or sometimes at each others home and did the majority of the prep the night before or sometimes if it was something that would refridge good we actually made it the night before. Tooooo many cooks in the kitchen is never a good thing and especially if you have a small work area it is very hard on the day of right before to be preparing all of this food.

4. As for charging for the dinner. This all depends upon the demographics of your church. We did the donation thing for a long time but then we ended up buying a building in a very poor part of town and (disclaimer I am not trying to sound rude as our church had a ministry that did nothing but feed homeless every week and also a halfway house ministry but this was not that) word ended up getting out that we were having dinners at the church and it ended up being a free for all... we spent 350 one day and made 85 dollars!!! It killed us! It was all funded by the youth dept and we didnt have a lot of funds at that time and so we ended up even deeper.

It is best to set a charge for the dinners if you have any chance of these things happening. 5 dollars was the perfect amount and as long as the dinners are announced in advance everyone should be able to afford that as it is being done as a fundraiser. Now for an actual church dinner thats another story.. we never charged for our thanksgiving and christmas dinners just because that was dinner for the church... so depends on the reason you are having the dinner and the demo of the dinner.

Hope some of this has helped you and if I think of more I will let you know!

God bless you in your adventures! I can gladly say I will NOT be doing the church dinner this year!!!!!!! :shockamoo

Jesuswins 11-13-2007 07:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tamor (Post 299534)
So what did y'all serve and how did y'all do? Did ya charge or ask for donations?

We ended up charging $5 for adults and $3 for kids 3-11. We had several that bought extra tickets and said to give them to those who couldn't afford it. Plus we had "tip" jars on each table.
Menu was Turkey, dressing w/gravy, mashed potatoes (real, not instant), green beans, roll, peach cobbler or choc cake, tea or lemonade.

When all was said and done... we had enough turkey left to fix 15 take home boxes which were sold at the end of the evening service. So that was cutting it close!!
whew....:hanky

Jesuswins 11-13-2007 08:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by trent4 (Post 299640)
Ya'll did a GREAT job! The food was very good and the service too!
Within a couple minutes we had 4 different people come to our table to see if we needed anything....Nathan and I never get that kind of service.:)

I'm glad, I was stuck in the kitchen making up plates, so I was hoping that the service was good! We had many compliments about how efficient everything was, so I'm hoping for another big crowd when we do it again in January! Not even going to try it in December...... my husband will divorce me!! :tissue

He said I stressed him out!!:woot


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