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Steadfast 10-30-2007 11:34 PM

Tulsa: A Description from a Coordinator of the Meeting
 
I just preached a very unique conference last week with two great Men of God. On one hand I had one of the Assistant General Superintendants and on the other hand I had one of the Coordinators of the Tulsa meeting.

For all the talk about 'recruiting' and 'stealing members' and 'unethical' that abounds I have to tell you that this isn't the spirit of the coordinators at all! They are kind gentlemen that are simply providing a grass roots meeting to discuss what steps to take to maintain an Apostolic atmosphere without the diminishing of Apostolic distinctives.

I spent several days with them and - AMAZINGLY - not one time did they ask me to come to the meeting (I'm personal friends with most of the names on the mail out and have never been asked or recruited to come) or to drag others with me if I should decide to go.

We had several candid conversations about recent events and I asked the coordinator point blank if the meeting was going to be a 'preaching' type meeting, a bloodbath or what... only to be told that what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC. They simply want to talk options, hear suggestions and reiterate our goals as Apostolics.

I know this will seriously upset some people to know that it will neither be a...
  • Gripe session
  • UPC bashing meeting
  • Flashback to the vicious splits of days gone by or
  • A 'let's march out and make a statement' type meeting.

It's a meeting to gather suggestions and find a way to network men together who have begun to lose faith in the direction the Apostolic movement as a whole is going.

And, for what it's worth, I've talked to many who are involved or going to this meeting and have yet to hear any viciousness in their voices. Just a little sadness for the most part.

Thus, what most have surmised, heard gossiped about or interjected their own fabrications about... simply isn't true.

bishoph 10-31-2007 12:34 AM

Steadfast,

Thank you for this post! I doubt there will be a lot of response since many want to paint this meeting as the antithesis of the UPCI. However, as you have succinctly stated, the men that are coordinating this event not only love their fellow ministers, they are not denigrating the organization that they themselves have invested much passion, sweat, tears, and time in building. Rather they are trying to find a way to preserve Apostolic doctrine, experience, and culture, allowing men so inclined to remain in their respective fellowships/organizations.

Joseph Miller 10-31-2007 12:35 AM

Thanks for helping to shed more light on the meeting.

Steadfast 10-31-2007 12:43 AM

Well, it's not as sensational as some of the things being told but the truth isn't generally a high priority on those who love sensationalism!

:hypercoffee

mizpeh 10-31-2007 05:19 AM

Did either man say they were turning in their cards before the meeting? If not, that would suggest to me that what you say is the intent of their hearts.

Quote:

....only to be told that what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC. They simply want to talk options, hear suggestions and reiterate our goals as Apostolics.
If this is a meeting to consolidate the Apostolic teaching found in the Bible and present a united front then the conservatives will once again be a strong voice in the UPC. Otherwise why meet except to find a more viable and acceptable association apart from the UPC?

Maple Leaf 10-31-2007 05:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 288009)


. . . We had several candid conversations about recent events and I asked the coordinator point blank if the meeting was going to be a 'preaching' type meeting, a bloodbath or what... only to be told that what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC. They simply want to talk options, hear suggestions and reiterate our goals as Apostolics.

. . . Thus, what most have surmised, heard gossiped about or interjected their own fabrications about... simply isn't true.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 281386)
I have been told by several men who have spoken to both Booker & Godair this is definitely a formation conference with all the bells and whistles.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 281438)
I heard those men involved in sponsering the meeting are meeting next week?
What I mean about the bells and whistles they are going to have missions department and other departments but no salary officials. I don't have a dog in this but I had hoped they would just have a very loose minister's fellowship. There is already the IAM foundation for missions used by many pastors.


Pastor Steadfast

From your firsthand information, is this going to be a "formation conference?"

Your statement: ". . . only to be told that what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC." seems to directly contradict the reports that Pastor Epley has heard from the conference organizers.

Will there be a new organization following the Tulsa meeting?

rgcraig 10-31-2007 05:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maple Leaf (Post 288089)
Pastor Steadfast

From your firsthand information, is this going to be a "formation conference?"

Your statement: ". . . only to be told that what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC." seems to directly contradict the reports that Pastor Epley has heard from the conference organizers.

Will there be a new organization following the Tulsa meeting?

Exactly. If this meeting is for gathering those that are less than happy about the direction UPC is going and they are going to brainstorm how they can remain a part of UPC and make a difference, then I could understand, but I think we all know that is not the case.

Your point that there is no hatred, etc. is well taken, but still it appears to be a meeting to plan the next step of leaving UPCI.

Trouvere 10-31-2007 06:48 AM

I can hear that song echoing....Living on Tulsa time......Living on Tulsa time...

SDG 10-31-2007 06:50 AM

Would anyone expect the spin to be otherwise?

Is Baghdad Bob the coordinator of misinformation?

http://z.about.com/d/politicalhumor/...ob_conquer.jpg

ChicagoPastor 10-31-2007 06:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 288057)
Well, it's not as sensational as some of the things being told but the truth isn't generally a high priority on those who love sensationalism!

:hypercoffee

I have a friend that goes to Bro. Kenny Godair's chruch and he said that Bro. Kenny Godair has told his church publicly that they are pulling out of the UPC

Kutless 10-31-2007 07:31 AM

So far many credible rebutals......hmmmmmmmmm

revrandy 10-31-2007 07:35 AM

Bro. Steadfast...

I too have seen on some other forums that this is going to be the introduction of a New Organization by some that are spear-heading it...

I don't doubt the civility of the meeting but I do not doubt either that this is the culminating end of the Houston meeting last year....

I think this ball has been rolling for awhile and those who haven't got their way in the past amid a myriad of issues (not just Television) are looking to get theirs (if you will)....

imo...

I do think some are in this for recognition and position... something they haven't got from the UPC....

it will be interesting to say the least....

mizpeh 10-31-2007 07:51 AM

Bagdad Bob INTENTIONALLY misled. I don't believe Steadfast would deceive.

rgcraig 10-31-2007 07:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mizpeh (Post 288153)
Bagdad Bob INTENTIONALLY misled. I don't believe Steadfast would deceive.

Yea, that was a little over the top there Dan.

Kutless 10-31-2007 08:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 288158)
Yea, that was a little over the top there Dan.

maybe.....maybe not........but the picture painted by the initial post sure sounds like a bunch of folks getting together for a Sun Sch. candy rain and group hugs.

revrandy 10-31-2007 08:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kutless (Post 288160)
maybe.....maybe not........but the picture painted by the initial post sure sounds like a bunch of folks getting together for a Sun Sch. candy rain and group hugs.

These are preachers!!

It would be a Fried Chicken Rain... .:D

Whole Hearted 10-31-2007 08:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 288009)
I just preached a very unique conference last week with two great Men of God. On one hand I had one of the Assistant General Superintendants and on the other hand I had one of the Coordinators of the Tulsa meeting.

For all the talk about 'recruiting' and 'stealing members' and 'unethical' that abounds I have to tell you that this isn't the spirit of the coordinators at all! They are kind gentlemen that are simply providing a grass roots meeting to discuss what steps to take to maintain an Apostolic atmosphere without the diminishing of Apostolic distinctives.

I spent several days with them and - AMAZINGLY - not one time did they ask me to come to the meeting (I'm personal friends with most of the names on the mail out and have never been asked or recruited to come) or to drag others with me if I should decide to go.

We had several candid conversations about recent events and I asked the coordinator point blank if the meeting was going to be a 'preaching' type meeting, a bloodbath or what... only to be told that what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC. They simply want to talk options, hear suggestions and reiterate our goals as Apostolics.

I know this will seriously upset some people to know that it will neither be a...
  • Gripe session
  • UPC bashing meeting
  • Flashback to the vicious splits of days gone by or
  • A 'let's march out and make a statement' type meeting.

It's a meeting to gather suggestions and find a way to network men together who have begun to lose faith in the direction the Apostolic movement as a whole is going.

And, for what it's worth, I've talked to many who are involved or going to this meeting and have yet to hear any viciousness in their voices. Just a little sadness for the most part.

Thus, what most have surmised, heard gossiped about or interjected their own fabrications about... simply isn't true.

Thanks for this post Steadfast

irish1 10-31-2007 08:10 AM

So Bro. Steadfast is with a committee member from the Tulsa meeting personally, one-on-one, face-to-face, actually speaks with him and knows him and received firsthand information and people here refuse to believe him. You know better than actually speaking to the man? Basically you are saying that this committee member is an out-and-out liar and that Bro. Steadfast is inferior to you intellectually because you can see through the lie from your laptop miles and miles away but he cannot speaking in person to the individual.

crakjak 10-31-2007 08:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by revrandy (Post 288146)
Bro. Steadfast...

I too have seen on some other forums that this is going to be the introduction of a New Organization by some that are spear-heading it...

I don't doubt the civility of the meeting but I do not doubt either that this is the culminating end of the Houston meeting last year....

I think this ball has been rolling for awhile and those who haven't got their way in the past amid a myriad of issues (not just Television) are looking to get theirs (if you will)....

imo...

I do think some are in this for recognition and position... something they haven't got from the UPC....

it will be interesting to say the least....

So our Bro. Steadfast's source is spreading misinformation, with the humble approach "just trying to see what our options are, since the UPC has taken this horrible path". When in reality it is opportunist taking control that has alluded them in the larger picture. Men who cannot tolerate variance from what they believe, if they cannot control, then they will separate and take other like themselves and have their own party. All the while doubletalking around the AGS.

revrandy 10-31-2007 08:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irish1 (Post 288169)
So Bro. Steadfast is with a committee member from the Tulsa meeting personally, one-on-one, face-to-face, actually speaks with him and knows him and received firsthand information and people here refuse to believe him. You know better than actually speaking to the man? Basically you are saying that this committee member is an out-and-out liar and that Bro. Steadfast is inferior to you intellectually because you can see through the lie from your laptop miles and miles away but he cannot speaking in person to the individual.

Whom are you speaking to?

irish1 10-31-2007 08:18 AM

Any posters who are disagreeing with what Steadfast initially posted.

IAintMovin 10-31-2007 08:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kutless (Post 288138)
So far many credible rebutals......hmmmmmmmmm

I think those who are making the rebutals need to re-read the first post - nowhere did Steadfast say that the men were NOT going to leave the UPCI or that there was NOT going to be a formation of another group. I took his post as a clearification post to all the mis-information that is out there that these men are attempting to get everybody possible to the meeting and that there is great hatered or anger toward the UPCI......I appears to me that this meeting is only for the cause of looking at options or the next step....that can be done in a Christ Centered attitude.

A man can leave without having a BAD SPIRIT can he not......... I mean after all the few who have left because the "Mother Ship" was so far behind the times and in bondage and so forth and so on left in a good spirit.......did they not? ......... if these men choose to leave for the reason that they feel the UPCI is headed down a road that they do not feel to go, lets let them also leave with a good spirit.........

I know almost every man who is helping put this meeting together......Most of them personally....they are good men, I hate to see them go.......but I still expect to fellowship them, I still expect to go to heaven with them, I hope to have some of them come and minister........Just because we are not all in the same organization does not mean that everyone who is not with us is headed to hell........I respect each minister of the gospel even if we do not agree on every point - as a matter of fact I cannot think of two ministers who agree on every point - unless one is a little clone who has no ability to think on his own.......

Sorry to ramble........anyway, re-read the first post - I think we might be seeing words put in Steadfast mouth that were never there.....and God forbid we know that NEVER happens on AFF......... ROFL.........

God bless

revrandy 10-31-2007 08:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irish1 (Post 288178)
Any posters who are disagreeing with what Steadfast initially posted.

I didn't disagree with his post concerning the "spirit" of those conducting the meeting... I think it will be civil... and I personally think there will be unrest and come confusing going in....a lot of these guys have their way or the highway and it's hard for some of them to agree with anything....

revrandy 10-31-2007 08:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IAintMovin (Post 288180)
I think those who are making the rebutals need to re-read the first post - nowhere did Steadfast say that the men were NOT going to leave the UPCI or that there was NOT going to be a formation of another group. I took his post as a clearification post to all the mis-information that is out there that these men are attempting to get everybody possible to the meeting and that there is great hatered or anger toward the UPCI......I appears to me that this meeting is only for the cause of looking at options or the next step....that can be done in a Christ Centered attitude.

A man can leave without having a BAD SPIRIT can he not......... I mean after all the few who have left because the "Mother Ship" was so far behind the times and in bondage and so forth and so on left in a good spirit.......did they not? ......... if these men choose to leave for the reason that they feel the UPCI is headed down a road that they do not feel to go, lets let them also leave with a good spirit.........

I know almost every man who is helping put this meeting together......Most of them personally....they are good men, I hate to see them go.......but I still expect to fellowship them, I still expect to go to heaven with them, I hope to have some of them come and minister........Just because we are not all in the same organization does not mean that everyone who is not with us is headed to hell........I respect each minister of the gospel even if we do not agree on every point - as a matter of fact I cannot think of two ministers who agree on every point - unless one is a little clone who has no ability to think on his own.......

Sorry to ramble........anyway, re-read the first post - I think we might be seeing words put in Steadfast mouth that were never there.....and God forbid we know that NEVER happens on AFF......... ROFL.........

God bless

This what I took from it also...

IAintMovin 10-31-2007 08:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by revrandy (Post 288175)
Whom are you speaking to?

It wasnt me.... I aint posted on this thread till after this post........... :D :D :D :D :D :D

You plannin on going to TTown.......I am coming probably to see some good friends and eat some good food and check it all out.........

Thad 10-31-2007 08:23 AM

Randy since you're back in Tulsa could I get you to go to this conference and be our reporter ? ? ? ? ?? :pirate I know w/o a doubt you would LOVE every minute of it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :stirpot

OH!!!! and off topic...I thought a certain member.... uuuumm uhhh...nevermind I'll PM someone about it

revrandy 10-31-2007 08:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IAintMovin (Post 288186)
It wasnt me.... I aint posted on this thread till after this post........... :D :D :D :D :D :D

You plannin on going to TTown.......I am coming probably to see some good friends and eat some good food and check it all out.........

I'm going...but probably just to meet some of you guys I been talkin' too... I just renewed my UPC license to day... so I might not be allowed in...

revrandy 10-31-2007 08:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thad (Post 288187)
Randy since you're back in Tulsa could I get you to go to this conference and be our reporter ? ? ? ? ?? :pirate I know w/o a doubt you would LOVE every minute of it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :stirpot

OH!!!! and off topic...I thought a certain member.... uuuumm uhhh...nevermind I'll PM someone about it

:shhh

irish1 10-31-2007 08:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 288111)
Would anyone expect the spin to be otherwise?

Is Baghdad Bob the coordinator of misinformation?

http://z.about.com/d/politicalhumor/...ob_conquer.jpg

revrandy:

See, this kind of mentality ...

CC1 10-31-2007 08:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steadfast (Post 288009)
I just preached a very unique conference last week with two great Men of God. On one hand I had one of the Assistant General Superintendants and on the other hand I had one of the Coordinators of the Tulsa meeting.

For all the talk about 'recruiting' and 'stealing members' and 'unethical' that abounds I have to tell you that this isn't the spirit of the coordinators at all! They are kind gentlemen that are simply providing a grass roots meeting to discuss what steps to take to maintain an Apostolic atmosphere without the diminishing of Apostolic distinctives.

I spent several days with them and - AMAZINGLY - not one time did they ask me to come to the meeting (I'm personal friends with most of the names on the mail out and have never been asked or recruited to come) or to drag others with me if I should decide to go.

We had several candid conversations about recent events and I asked the coordinator point blank if the meeting was going to be a 'preaching' type meeting, a bloodbath or what... only to be told that what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC. They simply want to talk options, hear suggestions and reiterate our goals as Apostolics.

I know this will seriously upset some people to know that it will neither be a...
  • Gripe session
  • UPC bashing meeting
  • Flashback to the vicious splits of days gone by or
  • A 'let's march out and make a statement' type meeting.

It's a meeting to gather suggestions and find a way to network men together who have begun to lose faith in the direction the Apostolic movement as a whole is going.

And, for what it's worth, I've talked to many who are involved or going to this meeting and have yet to hear any viciousness in their voices. Just a little sadness for the most part.

Thus, what most have surmised, heard gossiped about or interjected their own fabrications about... simply isn't true.

Steadfast,

I have never felt like this meeting would be one with the animosity and bitterness that characterized the last big conservative uprising within the UPC.

As I posted yesterday on another thread many of these men organizing this meeting are seasoned mature preachers with reputations of integrity.

I do think it is not accurate to say that this meeting is not to chart a path forward that most likely includes these men leaving the UPC for whatever organization they plant the seeds for at this meeting. That is reality.

It is not that these men are having this meeting to pull men away from the UPC but rather that this meeting is to accomodate those men who are already pulling away from the UPC over these disagreements over "direction".

crakjak 10-31-2007 08:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crakjak (Post 288170)
So our Bro. Steadfast's source is spreading misinformation, with the humble approach "just trying to see what our options are, since the UPC has taken this horrible path". When in reality it is opportunist taking control that has alluded them in the larger picture. Men who cannot tolerate variance from what they believe, if they cannot control, then they will separate and take other like themselves and have their own party. All the while doubletalking around the AGS.

bump:stirpot

revrandy 10-31-2007 08:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irish1 (Post 288194)
revrandy:

See, this kind of mentality ...

Irish1..if you are new here...this is just a part of the fun...


for example...I posted something extremely carnal awhile back ( I have since repented :) ) and Steadfast said it was carnal but couldn't pick himself up off the floor from laughing at it...:D

Just come to expect it from most...that's what makes this place fun!!! :pirate

irish1 10-31-2007 08:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irish1 (Post 288169)
So Bro. Steadfast is with a committee member from the Tulsa meeting personally, one-on-one, face-to-face, actually speaks with him and knows him and received firsthand information and people here refuse to believe him. You know better than actually speaking to the man? Basically you are saying that this committee member is an out-and-out liar and that Bro. Steadfast is inferior to you intellectually because you can see through the lie from your laptop miles and miles away but he cannot speaking in person to the individual.

Bump. Bump.

Since you posted almost the exact same thing while I was I thought I'd follow you up this time.

mizpeh 10-31-2007 08:34 AM

IAM,

This is the part that confuses me because it sounds like if these men are not going to do anything that would cause someone to turn in their card, then how could this meeting be about forming a new org? maybe they are thinking along the line of a conservative NCO?

Quote:

what they want to do is NOTHING that would require anybody to leave the UPC.
A new org would require folks to leave the UPC.

BoredOutOfMyMind 10-31-2007 08:50 AM

RevRandy I see there is a boat show in Tulsa starting the 28th....

Amos 10-31-2007 09:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 288111)
Would anyone expect the spin to be otherwise?

Is Baghdad Bob the coordinator of misinformation?

http://z.about.com/d/politicalhumor/...ob_conquer.jpg

DA,

Who are you accusing of spreading misinformation?

Steadfast, or the man he spoke with?

revrandy 10-31-2007 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoredOutOfMyMind (Post 288243)
RevRandy I see there is a boat show in Tulsa starting the 28th....

Yes...but in making an offer on a house....we'll have to wait for the boat...:hypercoffee

Carpenter 10-31-2007 12:32 PM

um...if any of the current leadership of the UPC is involved with the Tulsa meeting it cannot be considered a grass-roots effort.

Steve Epley 10-31-2007 04:22 PM

I am recieving DAILT firsthand reports of men disaffiliating their churches and are either dropping their licences or letting them lapse and they have been told by LB-JG-CC that this is a formation conference. Let's see who is correct? If it wasn't a sin to bet I would wager a steak dinner at Ruth's Chris. But since it is I cannot.

StillStanding 10-31-2007 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 288957)
I am recieving DAILT firsthand reports of men disaffiliating their churches and are either dropping their licences or letting them lapse and they have been told by LB-JG-CC that this is a formation conference. Let's see who is correct? If it wasn't a sin to bet I would wager a steak dinner at Ruth's Chris. But since it is I cannot.

That too bad about the "sin" thing, because I would side with you so I could enjoy a nice juicy steak! :D


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