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Nahum 11-06-2007 06:55 PM

Arranging the Deck Chairs, Fiddling, Fine Dining and Other Diversions from Reality
 
As we continue to wait for January to come, it's sorta entertaining to watch all of the diversionary tactics employed by those planning the Tulsa meeting, and those in power in the ivory towers of the Not-So-United-Kingdom.

So, while everyone else deals in denial, I feel it my lot in life to remind you that....

many have already left,

many more will be leaving,

and the financial impact is gonna be remarkable.

:bubble

mizpeh 11-06-2007 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295092)
As we continue to wait for January to come, it's sorta entertaining to watch all of the diversionary tactics employed by those planning the Tulsa meeting, and those in power in the ivory towers of the Not-So-United-Kingdom.

So, while everyone else deals in denial, I feel it my lot in life to remind you that....

many have already left,

many more will be leaving,

and the financial impact is gonna be remarkable.

:bubble

God is in control, God is in control, God is in control.

Nahum 11-06-2007 07:05 PM

Hallelujah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

retsambeW 11-06-2007 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295092)
As we continue to wait for January to come, it's sorta entertaining to watch all of the diversionary tactics employed by those planning the Tulsa meeting, and those in power in the ivory towers of the Not-So-United-Kingdom.

So, while everyone else deals in denial, I feel it my lot in life to remind you that....

many have already left,

many more will be leaving,

and the financial impact is gonna be remarkable.

:bubble

I am not fiddling, nor moving the deck chairs. I do not have a deck. Now moving the gass grill on the carport/patio? You better believe it!!! :D

BoredOutOfMyMind 11-06-2007 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by retsambeW (Post 295102)
I am not fiddling, nor moving the deck chairs. I do not have a deck. Now moving the gass grill on the carport/patio? You better believe it!!! :D

There is a marked difference in Filet and Tube Steak.

crakjak 11-06-2007 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295092)
As we continue to wait for January to come, it's sorta entertaining to watch all of the diversionary tactics employed by those planning the Tulsa meeting, and those in power in the ivory towers of the Not-So-United-Kingdom.

So, while everyone else deals in denial, I feel it my lot in life to remind you that....

many have already left,

many more will be leaving,

and the financial impact is gonna be remarkable.

:bubble

Will the leadership answer with new direction and understanding of what God has for the org to do, or will they shrink into individual isolation and allow the org to fade into total irrelevance?

retsambeW 11-06-2007 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by BoredOutOfMyMind (Post 295111)
There is a marked difference in Filet and Tube Steak.


How about New York strip?

Nahum 11-06-2007 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crakjak (Post 295112)
Will the leadership answer with new direction and understanding of what God has for the org to do, or will they shrink into individual isolation and allow the org to fade into total irrelevance?

Leadership is strangely absent.

freeatlast 11-06-2007 07:17 PM

I have friends home from europe mission feild raising pim's.

This will make it difficult for them? What do you think?

Will missionary giving go down signifgantly?

retsambeW 11-06-2007 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295115)
Leadership is strangely absent.


Looking for a leader? I nominate Pastor Poster. Step up to the plate, hit one outta the park! :D

pelathais 11-06-2007 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295092)
As we continue to wait for January to come, it's sorta entertaining to watch all of the diversionary tactics employed by those planning the Tulsa meeting, and those in power in the ivory towers of the Not-So-United-Kingdom.

So, while everyone else deals in denial, I feel it my lot in life to remind you that....

many have already left,

many more will be leaving,

and the financial impact is gonna be remarkable.

:bubble

For those who think it's going to be a big deal, I think they'll be disappointed (or relieved) that it wasn't a big deal. For those thinking it won't be a big deal, I think they'll be surprised at how big it really was.

Right now it just seems like everybody's a kid waiting for Xmas. The anticipation is worse than the real affair. And once it gets here, it won't be what you expected. So just be prepared to be disappointed. Whatever your expectations are, just be prepared to be disappointed.

I find that when I anticipate disappointment that I'm seldom wrong and thus almost never disappointed. :)

Scott Hutchinson 11-06-2007 07:19 PM

Does anybody here play Fiddle ?I love Fiddle music.

BoredOutOfMyMind 11-06-2007 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 295116)
I have friends home from europe mission feild raising pim's.

This will make it difficult for them? What do you think?

Will missionary giving go down signifgantly?

What did your friends tell you?

The Missionary who is home and not on the field is not as scared as the one overseas trying to balance a budget....

:ignore

retsambeW 11-06-2007 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by BoredOutOfMyMind (Post 295121)
What did your friends tell you?

The Missionary who is home and not on the field is not as scared as the one overseas trying to balance a budget....

:ignore


Good point, Boomer.

BoredOutOfMyMind 11-06-2007 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 295119)
For those who think it's going to be a big deal, I think they'll be disappointed (or relieved) that it was as big a deal. For those thinking it won't be a big deal, I think they'll be surprised at how big it really was.

Right now it just seems like everybody's a kid waiting for Xmas. The anticipation is worse than the real affair. And once it gets here, it won't be what you expected. So just be prepared to be disappointed. Whatever your expectations are, just be prepared to be disappointed.

I find that when I anticipate disappointment that I'm seldom wrong and thus almost never disappointed. :)

Can you be a little LESS specific to how you think you may someday feel after it is over and you are considering how you felt thinking about it being over?

:bubble

Nahum 11-06-2007 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by retsambeW (Post 295118)
Looking for a leader? I nominate Pastor Poster. Step up to the plate, hit one outta the park! :D

Nope.

As of the 16th, I will no longer be employed at Dunn RD.

Someone else will need to hit a home run!

LOL

Nahum 11-06-2007 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 295119)
For those who think it's going to be a big deal, I think they'll be disappointed (or relieved) that it wasn't a big deal. For those thinking it won't be a big deal, I think they'll be surprised at how big it really was.

Right now it just seems like everybody's a kid waiting for Xmas. The anticipation is worse than the real affair. And once it gets here, it won't be what you expected. So just be prepared to be disappointed. Whatever your expectations are, just be prepared to be disappointed.

I find that when I anticipate disappointment that I'm seldom wrong and thus almost never disappointed. :)

Always the optimist?:tease

retsambeW 11-06-2007 07:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295124)
Nope.

As of the 16th, I will no longer be employed at Dunn RD.

Someone else will need to hit a home run!

LOL

Of course, just thinking a little...one does not have to hold an office to be a leader.

"Some men lead by virtue of their office, others lead by example."

Don't remember who said that to me, but somebody did when I was young in the ministry.

Timmy 11-06-2007 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by mizpeh (Post 295096)
God is in control, God is in control, God is in control.

What does that really mean, anyway?

retsambeW 11-06-2007 07:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 295127)
What does that really mean, anyway?

It means that we must have faith that things will work as they should.

Nahum 11-06-2007 07:25 PM

Again, leadership has been completely silent about this whole ordeal.

Strange.

pelathais 11-06-2007 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoredOutOfMyMind (Post 295123)
Can you be a little LESS specific to how you think you may someday feel after it is over and you are considering how you felt thinking about it being over?

:bubble

Well, considering the expectations I currently have of my feelings in anticipation of the event, I anticipate that my feelings after the event will most likely be in response to the event itself. Contrariwise, upon reflection after the event I anticipate that my feelings then will be of puzzlement that I feel anything now regarding the anticipation of the event.

retsambeW 11-06-2007 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295129)
Again, leadership has been completely silent about this whole ordeal.

Strange.

Maybe they are practicing what we used to sing, but very seldom followed through with:


If I hold my piece (sp), let the Lord fight my battles...

Victory, victory shall be mine....

Stephanas 11-06-2007 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295124)
Nope.

As of the 16th, I will no longer be employed at Dunn RD.

Someone else will need to hit a home run!

LOL

Is your termination related to the financial losses, or anticipated financial losses resulting from Resolution 4?

I am personally amazed that people will sever fellowship and divide an organization over such a silly issue.

mizpeh 11-06-2007 07:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 295127)
What does that really mean, anyway?


It means God knows everything that is going on. He has it under control. We don't have to worry.


Ps 46:1-3 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah.

Hoovie 11-06-2007 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295129)
Again, leadership has been completely silent about this whole ordeal.

Strange.

PP, I am not sure there is anything to say that will change things. The bottom line is even repealing the vote would not pacify the Tulsa crowd.

pelathais 11-06-2007 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mizpeh (Post 295096)
God is in control, God is in control, God is in control.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 295127)
What does that really mean, anyway?

Generally, I take it to mean that the discernable laws of the predictable behavior of these chaotic events cannot now be perceived.

Thus, events appear to be random and without design or concern for the established norms of "justice;" and in spite of this we hold out confidence that things will sort themselves out in the end into a pattern reasonably acceptable as "good."

pelathais 11-06-2007 07:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 295139)
PP, I am not sure there is anything to say that will change things. The bottom line is even repealing the vote would not pacify the Tulsa crowd.

True. Many of that "crowd" have been leaving over the last several years. This Res. #4 vote was simply a catalyst for others to go as well.

Timmy 11-06-2007 08:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 295142)
Generally, I take it to mean that the discernable laws of the predictable behavior of these chaotic events cannot now be perceived.

Thus, events appear to be random and without design or concern for the established norms of "justice;" and in spite of this we hold out confidence that things will sort themselves out in the end into a pattern reasonably acceptable as "good."

I dunno, "God is in control" seems like a tautology, or a self-fulfilling prophecy, or something. It can't possibly be disproved: nothing that ever happens could possibly be bad enough for us to say, "God slipped up". We can always say that He allowed it to happen for some greater good.

And who gets to decide what is good? Humans will never agree on some things (like Res 4, e.g.). So, leave it to God, right? Well, that would be another convenient way of proving that "God is in control" -- no matter what happens, God must think it was good. He allowed it to (or made it) happen, after all.

And to say that God is literally "in control" is to point a big finger of blame right at Him! 9/11? God was in control. Hitler? God controlled him.

Sometimes I think we say things just because we've heard others say them all our lives, without really thinking about what they mean.

Just rambling. :dunno

mizpeh 11-06-2007 08:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 295170)
I dunno, "God is in control" seems like a tautology, or a self-fulfilling prophecy, or something. It can't possibly be disproved: nothing that ever happens could possibly be bad enough for us to say, "God slipped up". We can always say that He allowed it to happen for some greater good.

And who gets to decide what is good? Humans will never agree on some things (like Res 4, e.g.). So, leave it to God, right? Well, that would be another convenient way of proving that "God is in control" -- no matter what happens, God must think it was good. He allowed it to (or made it) happen, after all.

And to say that God is literally "in control" is to point a big finger of blame right at Him! 9/11? God was in control. Hitler? God controlled him.

Sometimes I think we say things just because we've heard others say them all our lives, without really thinking about what they mean.

Just rambling. :dunno

I have no trouble saying God is in control. He is not fooled, flamboozled, turning a blind eye, mocked, or any such thing. He knows the end from the beginning and He has the big picture in view.

God is good and the Bible is clear what God thinks about the wicked and their devices. We all reap what we sow. Do you think God has any say in the wars of men? Read your Bible. There are woes a plenty from God to all the nations for their sins in the books of the prophets.

I trust God, I trust that God is good, fair, just, compassionate, righteous, etc. He has his reasons why He lets the wicked flourish at times and I trust that He knows what He is doing.

Blubayou 11-06-2007 08:37 PM

I have friends who are planning to go overseas as AIMers. They have raised their budget, but their home church has told them that the church will get them home if something happen that the org. cannot get them home when their term is over. I have also heard of a missionary couple who has been told by two different churches that they were not giving any more pledges to FM dept. I think the ripples are just being felt. I do not know how far the ripples will go.

CC1 11-06-2007 10:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295124)
Nope.

As of the 16th, I will no longer be employed at Dunn RD.

Someone else will need to hit a home run!

LOL


Can you share where you are going? Are you taking a church? Evangelizing? Entering the private sector? Joining the ALCJ? Joining the AMF? Going Charismatic?

CC1 11-06-2007 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Poster (Post 295129)
Again, leadership has been completely silent about this whole ordeal.

Strange.

Is it possible that they believe this "purging" process will be beneficial in the long run?

Is it possible they have observed the fissure growing for years and feel that this "split" is inevitable and that trying to artificially hold it together will only prolong the inevitable?

Hoovie 11-06-2007 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 295283)
Can you share where you are going? Are you taking a church? Evangelizing? Entering the private sector? Joining the ALCJ? Joining the AMF? Going Charismatic?

CC1, If I am reading this and posts in other threads correctly he is not leaving by choice.

Hoovie 11-06-2007 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by CC1 (Post 295285)
Is it possible that they believe this "purging" process will be beneficial in the long run?

Is it possible they have observed the fissure growing for years and feel that this "split" is inevitable and that trying to artificially hold it together will only prolong the inevitable?

Can you get a meeting with the general board and make your case?

CC1 11-06-2007 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 295289)
Can you get a meeting with the general board and make your case?

LOL!! There are a lot of possible reasons UPC leadership may be silent including the one I gave.

Another might be that they feel that what is going to happen is inevitable and that if they try to actively keep it from happening by speaking out it would just make it even more high profile and could cause the situation to degenerate into name calling, bitterness, etc.

CC1 11-06-2007 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 295286)
CC1, If I am reading this and posts in other threads correctly he is not leaving by choice.

I hate to hear that. He is all right for a bald headed guy.

Raven 11-06-2007 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by mizpeh (Post 295096)
God is in control, God is in control, God is in control.

Yes, God is in control and if I may say something outrageous? I'm not even sure God knows what the UPCI is!!! .......... I know, I know ....... He knows all things but whether the UPCI continues or not, does not effect His Kingdom or its economy. Considering my Father's Grand Plan, this is a tempest in a teapot! As to those who feel they are divinely appointed to be "Keeper of The Keys" and it sure is fortunate for God that they came along for such a time as this, take another look, for I can [almost] see God sitting down with a good book and some chocolate chip cookies and milk. God aint worried!!!
Raven

CC1 11-06-2007 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Raven (Post 295300)
Yes, God is in control and if I may say something outrageous? I'm not even sure God knows what the UPCI is!!! .......... I know, I know ....... He knows all things but whether the UPCI continues or not, does not effect His Kingdom or its economy. Considering my Father's Grand Plan, this is a tempest in a teapot! As to those who feel they are divinely appointed to be "Keeper of The Keys" and it sure is fortunate for God that they came along for such a time as this, take another look, for I can [almost] see God sitting down with a good book and some chocolate chip cookies and milk. God aint worried!!!
Raven

I disagree with you. I think it greatly minimizes the history and work of the UPC to suggest it doesn't mean anything to God.

I think God greatly appreciates all persons and organizations that stand for and promote the Gospel despite any flaws they might have.

Anyone who believes that the biblical method of baptism is immersion in Jesus Name should understand the role that the UPC has played in the growth of that practice in the 20th and now 21st century. Not only within it's ranks but the many that have left and have "gone charismatic" that still baptize in Jesus name.

crakjak 11-06-2007 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Raven (Post 295300)
Yes, God is in control and if I may say something outrageous? I'm not even sure God knows what the UPCI is!!! .......... I know, I know ....... He knows all things but whether the UPCI continues or not, does not effect His Kingdom or its economy. Considering my Father's Grand Plan, this is a tempest in a teapot! As to those who feel they are divinely appointed to be "Keeper of The Keys" and it sure is fortunate for God that they came along for such a time as this, take another look, for I can [almost] see God sitting down with a good book and some chocolate chip cookies and milk. God aint worried!!!
Raven

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