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Thad 03-07-2007 12:00 AM

The Irritable Members amongst us
 
I don't remember seeing so many uptight, crossed up posters in my forum life as I've seen today.

Goodness! are most of you in a foul mood ?

has anyone else taken notice ?


everyone seems kind of snippy

deadeye 03-07-2007 12:02 AM

I Am Not In A Foul Mood!!!!!!!

rrford 03-07-2007 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 30369)
I don't remember seeing so many uptight, crossed up posters in my forum life as I've seen today.

Goodness! are most of you in a foul mood ?

has anyone else taken notice ?


everyone seems kind of snippy

I know. What's up with that? What a great day to be alive, full of the Holy Ghost and living in in His will!!! :bliss

Thad 03-07-2007 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by rrford (Post 30373)
I know. What's up with that? What a great day to be alive, full of the Holy Ghost and living in in His will!!! :bliss


AMEN~~~


BTW, you're in an unusually cheerful mood ! :heeheehee

rrford 03-07-2007 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 30376)
AMEN~~~


BTW, you're in an unusually cheerful mood ! :heeheehee

Always, Thad. Always.

Thad 03-07-2007 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by rrford (Post 30379)
Always, Thad. Always.



ooooooh ok





LOrd, touch him :tease

chosenbyone 03-07-2007 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 30369)
I don't remember seeing so many uptight, crossed up posters in my forum life as I've seen today.

Goodness! are most of you in a foul mood ?

has anyone else taken notice ?


everyone seems kind of snippy

Thad are you blond?

Did you not comprehend that your thread regarding LW's daughters dating black men was just tasteless and offensive? It's not that people were in a foul mood; you were just clueless about how racial remarks are ungodly. Whether they were said in a joking manner or an overtly prejudice manner it was just plain wrong! Try to be in a little more sensitive to the spirit of God. Do you think he sits around in heaven telling racial jokes?

Come on, brother....

Thad 03-07-2007 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by chosenbyone (Post 30387)
Thad are you blond?

Did you not comprehend that your thread regarding LW's daughters dating black men was just tasteless and offensive? It's not that people were in a foul mood; you were just clueless about how racial remarks are ungodly. Whether they were said in a joking manner or an overtly prejudice manner it was just plain wrong! Try to be in a little more sensitive to the spirit of God. Do you think he sits around in heaven telling racial jokes?

Come on, brother....


show me how that thread was racist or what i said was Prejudice - please i really want to know

chosenbyone 03-07-2007 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 30390)
show me how that thread was racist or what i said was Prejudice - please i really want to know

Brother if you don't know after countless people trying to point it out to you how would you suggest I go about it with you?

Thad 03-07-2007 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by chosenbyone (Post 30391)
Brother if you don't know after countless people trying to point it out to you how would you suggest I go about it with you?


Excuse me?? I just know you aint tryin to call me no racist! you don't know me CBO obviously and you obvoiusly didn't catch the clue as to what I was driving at- that's okay, maybe you'll get it by tomorrow

Praxeas 03-07-2007 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 30369)
I don't remember seeing so many uptight, crossed up posters in my forum life as I've seen today.

Goodness! are most of you in a foul mood ?

has anyone else taken notice ?


everyone seems kind of snippy

From what I have been told it's
A) they are women
B) it's a full moon

Now I will run and hide

Thad 03-07-2007 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 30394)
From what I have been told it's
A) they are women
B) it's a full moon

Now I will run and hide


:killinme :heeheehee :bliss :bliss :bliss


just pray that chosenbyone doesn't see your post Prax- you'll be in for it trust me

BoredOutOfMyMind 03-07-2007 12:42 AM

Thad, you totally ignore me on every thread!

chosenbyone 03-07-2007 12:42 AM

Alright, maybe the whole world will get it tomorrow, Thad. Now, take your meds and go to sleep.

Goodnight, brother.

MissBrattified 03-07-2007 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by chosenbyone (Post 30387)
Thad are you blond?

Did you not comprehend that your thread regarding LW's daughters dating black men was just tasteless and offensive? It's not that people were in a foul mood; you were just clueless about how racial remarks are ungodly. Whether they were said in a joking manner or an overtly prejudice manner it was just plain wrong! Try to be in a little more sensitive to the spirit of God. Do you think he sits around in heaven telling racial jokes?

Come on, brother....

If you think Thad is racist, you are nuts!!! The man is half black himself! Have you even heard him play the organ? :highfive :D

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30455)
If you think Thad is racist, you are nuts!!! The man is half black himself! Have you even heard him play the organ? :highfive :D

First thing... I am going going to assume here that Thad is truly, genetically, half black. Because, if not, then this statement in itself appears racist to me. But assuming that... I move on to my comment.

If Thad is not racist (which I make no accusation that he is although I was thoroughly unimpressed that he would start such a thread and I am from the deep south) the thread assumes a racist attitude on our part.

If Thad is not a racist and if Thad was right about the attitudes in the south etc then why on earth would anyone feed that monster?

Why would anybody make any comment like this which would give any more rise to those types of attitudes.

By the way... I am not throwing all these questions at you Brattified... I am just using your post to state my feelings.

LaGirl 03-07-2007 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30455)
If you think Thad is racist, you are nuts!!! The man is half black himself! Have you even heard him play the organ? :highfive :D

:killinme

Coonskinner 03-07-2007 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30455)
If you think Thad is racist, you are nuts!!! The man is half black himself! Have you even heard him play the organ? :highfive :D


You are right.

Thad is most definitely NOT racist, and never has been.

In fact, Thad himself is rather, shall we say, eclectic and broad minded in his own personal tastes as far as romantic attraction goes.

In fact, i suspect that has a lot to do with his interest in the topic that has generated so much angst for some.

Neck 03-07-2007 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Thad (Post 30369)
I don't remember seeing so many uptight, crossed up posters in my forum life as I've seen today.

Goodness! are most of you in a foul mood ?

has anyone else taken notice ?

everyone seems kind of snippy



What is up with your foul mood?!

How soon before you get sent back to the penalty box?!

Coonskinner 03-07-2007 06:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30456)
First thing... I am going going to assume here that Thad is truly, genetically, half black. Because, if not, then this statement in itself appears racist to me. But assuming that... I move on to my comment.

If Thad is not racist (which I make no accusation that he is although I was thoroughly unimpressed that he would start such a thread and I am from the deep south) the thread assumes a racist attitude on our part.

If Thad is not a racist and if Thad was right about the attitudes in the south etc then why on earth would anyone feed that monster?

Why would anybody make any comment like this which would give any more rise to those types of attitudes.

By the way... I am not throwing all these questions at you Brattified... I am just using your post to state my feelings.

Digger,

Racism exists. It is vile. It shaould have no place in the church. These are all facts.

But since we all know it does still linger in some areas, it is a valid subject to discuss in my opinion.

I don't see why you people get worked up about it.

This is a discussion forum, last time I checked. We discuss things of interest.

Neck 03-07-2007 06:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Coonskinner (Post 30459)
You are right.

Thad is most definitely NOT racist, and never has been.

In fact, Thad himself is rather, shall we say, eclectic and broad minded in his own personal tastes as far as romantic attraction goes.

In fact, i suspect that has a lot to do with his interest in the topic that has generated so much angst for some.

You can not justify his stupid comment... Period...

A person's past and self control does not prove the intent or lack of intent on a future action or comment.

MissBrattified 03-07-2007 06:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30456)
First thing... I am going going to assume here that Thad is truly, genetically, half black. Because, if not, then this statement in itself appears racist to me. But assuming that... I move on to my comment.

Oh, come on! Thad is not "truly, genetically" half black as far as I know...but some of the best church musicians in the country...no, in the world are black...Thad is a fantastic organist, thus my insinuation that it must be in his blood!!!! It's only racist if you think it would be an insult to be half-black.

Disclaimer: I KNOW that we all have the same "blood", so please don't feel the need to clarify that to me.

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30469)
Oh, come on! Thad is not "truly, genetically" half black as far as I know...but some of the best church musicians in the country...no, in the world are black...Thad is a fantastic organist, thus my insinuation that it must be in his blood!!!! It's only racist if you think it would be an insult to be half-black.

Disclaimer: I KNOW that we all have the same "blood", so please don't feel the need to clarify that to me.

So it wouldn't be a racist comment in any way if someone were to say ... Wow he sure can play basketball..He must be half black....

Coonskinner 03-07-2007 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Neckstadt (Post 30463)
You can not justify his stupid comment... Period...

A person's past and self control does not prove the intent or lack of intent on a future action or comment.


Necker,

You lost me here.

I'm sure there is a brilliant retort in here somewhere, but I can't seem to locate it.:)

Translation requested....

MissBrattified 03-07-2007 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30471)
So it wouldn't be a racist comment in any way if someone were to say ... Wow he sure can play basketball..He must be half black....

You know what, D4T? You caught me. I'm a closet racist. Keep me in your prayers. :praying

Coonskinner 03-07-2007 06:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30471)
So it wouldn't be a racist comment in any way if someone were to say ... Wow he sure can play basketball..He must be half black....

Dig,

It is not being a racist to acknowledge that Black men seem to ahve certain genetic advantages on the basketball court.

It is in fact willfull ignorance to insist otherwise.

Good grief--are we so imbued with this insipid political correctness nonsense that we can't even have a conversation without someone asserting racism?

Coonskinner 03-07-2007 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30474)
You know what, D4T? You caught me. I'm a closet racist. Keep me in your prayers. :praying

I guess I am too.

I will, however, for purposes of propriety remain in a different closet.:)

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 06:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30474)
You know what, D4T? You caught me. I'm a closet racist. Keep me in your prayers. :praying

You do demonstrate your moniker so well sometimes.

I wasn't attempting in any way to out and out call you a racist.

You response tells me that you do see that the basketball comment could be a racist one.

A good reaction would be..."when I posted it I never thought of it that way"

Coonskinner 03-07-2007 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30479)
You do demonstrate your moniker so well sometimes.

I wasn't attempting in any way to out and out call you a racist.
You response tells me that you do see that the basketball comment could be a racist one.

A good reaction would be..."when I posted it I never thought of it that way"

You prefer subtle implications?:tease

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Coonskinner (Post 30475)
Dig,

It is not being a racist to acknowledge that Black men seem to ahve certain genetic advantages on the basketball court.

It is in fact willfull ignorance to insist otherwise.

Good grief--are we so imbued with this insipid political correctness nonsense that we can't even have a conversation without someone asserting racism?

Uhhhhhhhhhh GENETIC advantage? (I think I'll just move along rather than comment on that one)

But... to answer your question....Dunno... you would have to ask some of the people that I have seen who find these comments offensive.

The comment only exists because of racial stereotyping.

But... as it is clear that the concensus holds that I am totally wrong I will digress.

LadyChocolate 03-07-2007 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30469)
Oh, come on! Thad is not "truly, genetically" half black as far as I know...but some of the best church musicians in the country...no, in the world are black...Thad is a fantastic organist, thus my insinuation that it must be in his blood!!!! It's only racist if you think it would be an insult to be half-black.

Disclaimer: I KNOW that we all have the same "blood", so please don't feel the need to clarify that to me.

You are right....My husband is one incredible organ player and we are white...But he says we are the only black folks in our church..lol ... I think we are racist against white people! :killinme

Coonskinner 03-07-2007 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30483)
Uhhhhhhhhhh GENETIC advantage? (I think I'll just move along rather than comment on that one)

But... to answer your question....Dunno... you would have to ask some of the people that I have seen who find these comments offensive.

The comment only exists because of racial stereotyping.

But... as it is clear that the concensus holds that I am totally wrong I will digress.

OK Dig...compare the number of Black NBA athletes to the number of, say, Pakistanis or Arabs.

Bub, red and yellow, black and white, we are precious in his sight.

But you are fooling yourself if you don't think there are certain genetic predispositions in different racial backgrounds.

God loves diversity. Quit trying to make something evil out of that. It only becomes evil if we discriminate based on these things.

LadyChocolate 03-07-2007 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Coonskinner (Post 30485)
OK Dig...compare the number of Black NBA athletes to the number of, say, Pakistanis or Arabs.

Bub, red and yellow, black and white, we are precious in his sight.

But you are fooling yourself if you don't think there are certain genetic predispositions in different racial backgrounds.

God loves diversity. Quit trying to make something evil out of that. It only becomes evil if we discriminate based on these things.

You are soo right on CS!:highfive

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 07:04 AM

Well I am going to leave these threads and move off of this subject before y'all lynch me...

But I know blacks who find these statements stereotypical and offensive.

I just find sitting here getting chastised by a bunch of white folks that black folks are just fine with these things is a little unproductive and one sided.

I have seen different too many times.

StillStanding 03-07-2007 07:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30483)
Uhhhhhhhhhh GENETIC advantage? (I think I'll just move along rather than comment on that one)

But... to answer your question....Dunno... you would have to ask some of the people that I have seen who find these comments offensive.

The comment only exists because of racial stereotyping.

But... as it is clear that the concensus holds that I am totally wrong I will digress.

D4T, MissBratt meant nothing offensive AND YOU KNOW IT!

Thad is like an old friend I had as a teenager. He would be black if he had a choice! He loves black gospel music, and plays the organ black gospel style. He loves the worship style found in many black churches. In fact, I believe his church is 70% black and now has a black pastor!

MissBrattified 03-07-2007 07:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30479)
You do demonstrate your moniker so well sometimes.

Are you trying to call me a Brat? :heeheehee

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I wasn't attempting in any way to out and out call you a racist.

You response tells me that you do see that the basketball comment could be a racist one.
No, I really don't see it as racist, but I suppose some could perceive it that way, and as you pointed out, my statement as well. :coffee2

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A good reaction would be..."when I posted it I never thought of it that way"
True. I usually don't think to post a response like that. :haloplug

MissBrattified 03-07-2007 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 30488)
Well I am going to leave these threads and move off of this subject before y'all lynch me...

But I know blacks who find these statements stereotypical and offensive.

D4T, I know blacks who don't find these types of statements offensive, and in fact make the same sort of comments themselves.

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I just find sitting here getting chastised by a bunch of white folks that black folks are just fine with these things is a little unproductive and one sided.
Then please invite all your black friends to come give their points of view. I'd be happy to hear them. By the way, are you black or white? Becauuuusseee...if you're not black, you just placed yourself neatly into the above category! :tease

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30490)
Are you trying to call me a Brat? :heeheehee

Yes... But TIC... Thanks for taking it that way. :)

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30490)
No, I really don't see it as racist, but I suppose some could perceive it that way, and as you pointed out, my statement as well. :coffee2

Here you are saying you basically disagree with my position that this is a racist statement but you do it in a very respectful way which allows for further discussion between us with no building anymosity.

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30490)
True. I usually don't think to post a response like that. :haloplug

Understood...

And my thanks for a post that, while disagreeing with me on points, is presented in a manner that fuels further discussion of our opinions even through they differ.

:ty :highfive

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 30497)
D4T, I know blacks who don't find these types of statements offensive, and in fact make the same sort of comments themselves.



Then please invite all your black friends to come give their points of view. I'd be happy to hear them. By the way, are you black or white? Becauuuusseee...if you're not black, you just placed yourself neatly into the above category! :tease

White...

I know of at least one black friend of mine that is on here but she is a lurker... maybe she will step up and say something... (I don't know how she feels about such statements btw... her response would be an education to me as well)

Digging4Truth 03-07-2007 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Pianoman (Post 30489)
D4T, MissBratt meant nothing offensive AND YOU KNOW IT!

Thad is like an old friend I had as a teenager. He would be black if he had a choice! He loves black gospel music, and plays the organ black gospel style. He loves the worship style found in many black churches. In fact, I believe his church is 70% black and now has a black pastor!

The church we attend is 50% black... I am falling behind. :)


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