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Sister Alvear 10-19-2008 01:41 PM

Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
Thought this would be a thread that leaders could express their feelings and maybe what has helped us carry on from day to day...
Thoughts????

ILG 10-19-2008 02:11 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
Well, my husband and I stepped down from our church leadershop positions, but I think what is hard is taking false accusations and just bearing it while still trying to minister to some of the people who are doing it.

Sister Alvear 10-19-2008 02:25 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
That is very hard...but a part of leadership...Yeah, I know it hurts...

Timmy 10-19-2008 03:48 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
For me, it's simple: nobody wants to follow! :woot

Cindy 10-19-2008 04:35 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 611845)
For me, it's simple: nobody wants to follow! :woot

I find that hard to believe Tim-may, you are a natural born something.........:D Oh yeah, leader. :tease

Timmy 10-19-2008 04:48 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by cneasttx (Post 611863)
I find that hard to believe Tim-may, you are a natural born something.........:D Oh yeah, leader. :tease

:whistle

Sister Alvear 10-19-2008 04:51 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
Timmy, Paul wrote about you! You must carry his message...

meBNme 10-19-2008 05:45 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
because you don't have anyone to follow!

Because the leader always gets smacked in the face with the spider webs first while everyone else watches and laughs as they do the heebie jeebies dance.

Because while no one else is willing to lead, they all want to tell the leader how to lead.

Because its not just you who might fall into the trap, its also everyone who is following.

Because there is always someone breathing down your neck.

The leader doesnt always know just how deep that hole is, or cold that water is, or hard the climb may be, all the followers have to do is watch and listen.

Cindy 10-19-2008 06:53 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by meBNme (Post 611879)
because you don't have anyone to follow!

Because the leader always gets smacked in the face with the spider webs first while everyone else watches and laughs as they do the heebie jeebies dance.

Because while no one else is willing to lead, they all want to tell the leader how to lead.

Because its not just you who might fall into the trap, its also everyone who is following.

Because there is always someone breathing down your neck.

The leader doesnt always know just how deep that hole is, or cold that water is, or hard the climb may be, all the followers have to do is watch and listen.

Yes!

Ron 10-19-2008 10:09 PM

Re: Why it is so hard to be a leader
 
"There they go, I must hasten after them, for I am their leader!":whistle


Sounds humourus but it is true.
A leader is usually not born (few are) most are made, & it makes a difference who you were able to be trained by.

God will hold us leaders with a greater degree of accountability than others.

It can be tremendously rewarding!


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