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Aquila 12-15-2008 09:38 AM

Happy Hour:
 
I know an Apostolic brother who's in serious need of some extra income to keep his family afloat so he's considering a second job. However, most options he's considered don't present enough income to be worth the hassle of a second job. This weekend he discovered an opportunity to make nearly $500 in two to three nights a week part time. Here's the catch, it's a part time position bartending. He's seriously considering it and he has bartenders in his family but as an Apostolic he's not sure church family and the body of Christ at large would understand.

What are some of your thoughts on this?

iceniez 12-15-2008 09:45 AM

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Just me, but I would not do it,Some spiritual reasons and some personal.It is good money and quick,but at what price.

Fiyahstarter 12-15-2008 09:47 AM

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What are his convictions about alcohol? Sin or not a sin?? And does he delineate between a "social" drink, drinking for merriment purposes, and drunkenness?

Fiyahstarter 12-15-2008 09:54 AM

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I took a part-time job once waitressing for banquets. I didn't have a problem with serving a drink with dinner... but I did have a problem with some of the wedding receptions and parties where people got out of hand with their booze.

I have seen much too much alcoholism destroy families to be comfortable playing a role by serving the stuff. It made me feel LOUSY spiritually . . . JMO.

Pressing-On 12-15-2008 09:58 AM

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There is no possible way on God's green earth that could work out for him in any way!

The atmosphere alone would be enough to make that decision.

aak1972 12-15-2008 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Fiyahstarter (Post 657841)
I took a part-time job once waitressing for banquets. I didn't have a problem with serving a drink with dinner... but I did have a problem with some of the wedding receptions and parties where people got out of hand with their booze.

I have seen much too much alcoholism destroy families to be comfortable playing a role by serving the stuff. It made me feel LOUSY spiritually . . . JMO.

I owned a store once and my pastor allowed me to sell beer and tobacco products. If you are bartending is it a sin? I really dont know!

Pressing-On 12-15-2008 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by aak1972 (Post 657846)
I owned a store once and my pastor allowed me to sell beer and tobacco products. If you are bartending is it a sin? I really dont know!

I held a license in Mixology when I was 22 years old. Trust me. There is nothing edifying about being a bartender or being in that atmosphere.

Fiyahstarter 12-15-2008 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by aak1972 (Post 657846)
I owned a store once and my pastor allowed me to sell beer and tobacco products. If you are bartending is it a sin? I really dont know!

Stay tuned. I'm sure we're getting ready to find out.

iceniez 12-15-2008 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On (Post 657847)
I held a license in Mixology when I was 22 years old. Trust me. There is nothing edifying about being a bartender or being in that atmosphere.

I worked in a Bar for awhile BC. as a bouncer and bartender.The atmosphere is not conducive to a walk with God.

Timmy 12-15-2008 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Aquila (Post 657830)
I know an Apostolic brother who's in serious need of some extra income to keep his family afloat so he's considering a second job. However, most options he's considered don't present enough income to be worth the hassle of a second job. This weekend he discovered an opportunity to make nearly $500 in two to three nights a week part time. Here's the catch, it's a part time position bartending. He's seriously considering it and he has bartenders in his family but as an Apostolic he's not sure church family and the body of Christ at large would understand.

What are some of your thoughts on this?

I say (as if what I say matters) it's between him and God, and it's nobody else's business. Who cares what anyone else thinks!


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