| Rhoni |
05-05-2009 01:59 PM |
Re: Can you love more than one???
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Originally Posted by JTULLOCK
(Post 746065)
I know that we have talked about this on here a couple times and I wanted to rehash it cause I think it is an interesting topic. Do you believe or not believe that it is possible to love more than one person at a time? Example can a wife love her husband and yet also love another person intimately? I am not talking about loving kids the same, but that is a fair example on showing multiple strands of love at once.
I think that it is very possible--but not saying I am right. That being said I am not for it and I think that it is wrong. Just want to debate the topic. I do think that while loving two people that the love can not be equal between the two. I think that one person will for whatever reason have more love given to them over the other person. Like a wife or husband might give more love to the spouse because of the kids they share or the time spent together and yet still love another person too.
Disclaimer:
this topic doesn't reflect my life but I am bringing up as a topic of debate.
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Absolutely. You can love two different men [speaking of a woman] for many different things. When I was at JCM, believe it or not - I loved two different men and had to make a conscious choice between the two. Sis. David Bernard prayed with me one night about this very thing. When I listened to God and searched my heart...the one I chose was the one I could trust, that had obvious integrity, and was a one-woman man. The other I would never have totally trusted or committed to.
I will say though, after I made my decision, God took all feelings for this other person out of my heart and I NEVER struggled with it again.
Blessings, Rhoni |
