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drummerboy_dave 08-20-2010 03:20 PM

Meds for my son
 
A new study on my son indicates the possibility of him having ADHD. We are considering medical treatment options. If you have pertinent information regarding the pros and cons of stimulants (we're thinking Focalin) versus non-stimulants (Strattera) please respond. Our next appointment is the 25th.

Thanks!

Margies3 08-20-2010 03:53 PM

Re: Meds for my son
 
I really think it all depends on what works for YOUR child. My son is on Adderall. He's been taking it since he was 4 years old and is 16 now. One year, when he was about 8th grade, the doctor decided she needed to have him try some other meds (Straterra was one of them, as was Focalin). It was a horrible experience and he basically lost a whole year of learning in school. In the end, he ended up right back on the Adderall. The Adderall works for him when nothing else does.

KWSS1976 08-20-2010 03:53 PM

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If he is like mine he has alot of entergy and he is a boy and does not like to pay attention.......don't dope him up he will be a Zombie...He will grow out of it..

OnTheFritz 08-20-2010 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by KWSS1976 (Post 953382)
If he is like mine he has alot of entergy and he is a boy and does not like to pay attention.......don't dope him up he will be a Zombie...He will grow out of it..

Good grief. I'm sure all kids are exactly the same. Way to generalize.

drummerboy_dave 08-20-2010 04:12 PM

Re: Meds for my son
 
He's been a wreck for a couple years, but too young with not enough information to sort out what's going on in his brain. Plus, there's far too much overlap of symptoms in all these disorders. But, he's most definately, not a Neuro-typical kid!

I totally get that what works for one child may not work for another. Just trying to weigh the pros and cons of these two options. There are factors of both drugs that I like and dislike.

Mr. Smith 08-20-2010 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by KWSS1976 (Post 953382)
If he is like mine he has alot of entergy and he is a boy and does not like to pay attention.......don't dope him up he will be a Zombie...He will grow out of it..


One doesn't "grow out of it". It only gets worse. Much worse.

geekette 08-21-2010 07:35 AM

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One of my nephews was diagnosed with ADHD. My sister, based on her own experience (a diagnosis of "hyperactivity" in the 1960s) was understandably opposed to medication and resisted it for quite a long time. However, attempts at behavioral modification failed to bring about change and she finally decided to go with medication. They had a pretty good success with it, but it's something you're going to have to monitor and stay on top of.

Oh yeah, the medication was Adderall...sorry!

DAII 08-21-2010 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Smith (Post 953454)
One doesn't "grow out of it". It only gets worse. Much worse.

Yes and no. As a special education teacher, I believe there is an over-diagnosis of this very real condition. In the years I've taught children with ADD/ADHD ... some are the poster children for it .... while others are just misunderstood.

When folks say "outgrow" it ... I think they mean ... as experience, maturity take their natural course .... AND COPING SKILLS are taught ... children often learn to manage their condition. This seems to happen often as the child reaches his/her mid-teen years, IMO.

The special ed tag ... like everything else has its pros and cons ... but often concerned and involved parents seek to find ways for the child to manage their ADD/ADHD before high school ...

Here in TX, having Special Ed learning IEPs ... in this case under Other Health Impairment means the child's high school diploma is not "the same" as those in general ed ... and this can unfortunately affect the transcripts and decisions that colleges make .... this often does not apply if the child just has a BIP or Behavioral IEP, imo.

I'd recommend Focalin as a med only when all non-traditional avenues have been exhausted ... including behavior modification, diet, and homeopathic.

Tweaking the dosage ... often is pain-staking and heart-breaking to all involved...

Mr. Smith 08-21-2010 08:45 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by DAII (Post 953488)
Yes and no. As a special education teacher, I believe there is an over-diagnosis of this very real condition. In the years I've taught children with ADD/ADHD ... some are the poster children for it .... while others are just misunderstood.

When folks say "outgrow" it ... I think they mean ... as experience, maturity take their natural course .... AND COPING SKILLS are taught ... children often learn to manage their condition. This seems to happen often as the child reaches his/her mid-teen years, IMO.

The special ed tag ... like everything else has its pros and cons ... but often concerned and involved parents seek to find ways for the child to manage their ADD/ADHD before high school ...

Here in TX, having Special Ed learning IEPs ... in this case under Other Health Impairment means the child's high school diploma is not "the same" as those in general ed ... and this can unfortunately affect the transcripts and decisions that colleges make .... this often does not apply if the child just has a BIP or Behavioral IEP, imo.

I'd recommend Focalin as a med only when all non-traditional avenues have been exhausted ... including behavior modification, diet, and homeopathic.

Tweaking the dosage ... often is pain-staking and heart-breaking to all involved...


I'll modify my statement: It only gets worse...if it's the real deal and a severe real deal. Would that be a more accurate statement? These disorders left unaddressed and denied don't just disappear like asthma occasionally does.

RevDWW 08-21-2010 09:00 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by DAII (Post 953488)

I'd recommend Focalin as a med only when all non-traditional avenues have been exhausted ... including behavior modification, diet, and homeopathic.

Tweaking the dosage ... often is pain-staking and heart-breaking to all involved...

Good advice.


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