Loving the Unlovable:
 

I believe that the very essence of Christianity is found in loving God and loving others. That's what this is really all about. The rest is filler. No one is perfect. We're all flawed and have sins. We're all broken. All too often I've noticed that it's easy to judge a person when I think I'm better than they are. The truth is, I don't know what it's like to be them. I don't always know how they feel or what they've been through. Jesus met a Samaritan woman at Jacob's well. Being a Samaritan she was a social outcast. She was also judged and rejected as being immoral. This is because she had been married 5 times and was currently living with a man who wasn't her husband. But Jesus treated her with love and respect. Jesus revealed to her that He knew her story. Then Jesus revealed to her who He was, in spite of the stigma she bore. We then read how she immediately went back to her community and told everyone about Him. Next, the entire community came to hear Jesus speak and many believed on Him. Who was their evanglist? A woman who had been divorced five times and was currently living with a man she wasn't married to.

Jesus looks past our sin, brokenness, and failures. He sees a person of infinite value in every one of us. Christians should look at people the same way.

Jesus went as far as healing the servant of a centurion. If most people understood the typical arrangement between a centurion and their younger servant in ancient times they'd better understand why the centurion deemed himself "unworthy" to have Jesus enter his house. Yet the centurion had faith that Jesus could but speak the word and his servant be healed. Jesus didn't stand yelling at him, "God hates gentile dogs!" Jesus didn't ignore him. No, Jesus commended the centurion for his great faith, spoke the word, and healed the servant. Jesus met the need in the life of a person we'd all most likely not think very highly of.

Sometimes the way we treat other people (and even fellow Christians who are struggling) is pathetic. I want to see and love everyone as being the priceless people they truly are. It's not always easy. However, I think that is what God desires to see in us.

God... give me your eyes.

http://www.youtube.com/​watch?v=P5AkNqLuVgY&ob=av2n

Re: Loving the Unlovable:
 

I so stink at this...

But I am trying.

Why you always gotta pass out the hard assignments Aquila?

Re: Loving the Unlovable:
 

Lol. Amen.
I might extent that to
"The minute...the second you find a problem with another person's _____, you are lost.
You lost it at "problem." Goes double if you are a preacher. I have Scripture for all this. You represent satan when you dictate the conditions under which one might be saved, and those misread Bible verses that you have added to are not going to save you.

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One cannot judge this for themselves, obviously, as you are both pretty good in this area. Shades of re-repenting, Batman. Speak that you are great at it, even. Amen.

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Aquilla, do you have a Godly love towards me, your sister in the Lord?

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wait-you're a girl? and hmm, I usually agree with either of you?

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I believe you have Scripture, but could you provide the Scripture reference when you mention it?

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Aquila, the Lord showed me last year these very same things. It is one thing to say I love someone, but in the way I look at them, and judge them, do I really love them, through the Spirit of Christ is dwelling in me?

IF the Spirit of Christ is truly indwelling my heart, the love would come for that soul, through the Spirit, not my own attempts or abilities.

That is why, when I meet, or know someone unlovable, I have to go back to my prayer closet, and allow the Lord Jesus to transform my heart, so that I can love that person through Him. It can't be done any other way. We can humanly try to love each other, but it just brings despair. But when we see people through the eyes of Jesus, there is hope, and there is joy, and there is something greater than any human emotion can produce. It is life changing.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! You are SPOT ON :)

AMEN!

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were not suppose to be able to do it. :thumbsup

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Well, if you'll allow the observation that "preaching" in the US has evolved into "teaching the fear of hell," as I'm a little rushed right now, I'll go with "the splinter and the beam" thing. Wish I had a bit more time here, but consider how teaching "fear of hell," which might sound like it could be easily defended, is at the end of the day, just teaching "Fear," in Christ's Name.

If you are pointing any finger from the pulpit, at anyone, you cannot be demonstrating life, more abundantly at the same time. It just doesn't work like that. You are satan's best worker in that position, imo.