Have You Ever...
 

Not pursued a relationship with a good person because of something superficial?

For instance, ladies has there ever been a guy you know on the inside you clicked with, but because he was not tall enough or too skinny or too fat or his voice was high pitched...


For instance guys has there ever been a woman who really could have been the future Misses, but she was too tall, too bony, convicted to not shave her legs, not endowed enough, hair too short, or her voice was too deep...

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Yes

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But. . . . . In the end, I found my perfect wife.

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No further questions!

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There is a lady I know who has made it clear to me that she would like for us to get to know each other better. She's built like an Amazon and some guys really dig that, but not me.

There's another woman who digs me, but she isn't physically able to bear children and part of me feels bad for refusing to even allow myself to get to know her better, but I really wanted to have my own children-- if possible and as far as I know, that's not a problem for me.

Am I a bad guy or do I deserve to be alone because I won't allow myself to get emotionally attached to either one of these fine women?

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My dog is snoring, but I am not. In fact, I'm typing!

You don't have to say it.
:yourock


I know, I rock! :nod

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You have to decide what you can live with. Moderate expectations are best, but hey, you're the one that's gotta smell the halitosis breath in the morning!

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Chronic halitosis is an instant deal breaker.

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OK confession time... I was in love with a guy once... really in love... His name was Harry Pissa. I was just NOT going to spend my life as Melissa Pissa.

I know...am so shallow...

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:spit

Shallow or honest?