Not Just A Mom
 

In this politically correct world we live in, being a mother has been delegated to its lowest status ever. In the years since World War II, women have increasingly been putting the status of being a mother at the bottom of the list of things that they would choose to be. Many women have sought careers, leadership positions, and fame at the cost of motherhood.

I would like to bring the focus of this particular thread to where you can speak out and say what you think about being a mother. Share whether your mother there for you... are you able to be there for your children... and what do you think about the "profession" of motherhood?

Do you feel that society looks at you as if you are "just a mom" if you stay at home, and take care of your family?

If you are a mom who has placed your highest priority as a woman on being the best mother to your children and wife to your husband, please share your thoughts.

If you feel that motherhood is not the highest calling for a woman, and that a career should be placed ahead of being a mother, or another view I have failed to illustrate, please share why you feel this way.

I look forward to the responses :)

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The reason I open this thought for discussion, is because I was blessed to have the most loving, compassionate, giving, unselfish, hard working mother anyone could ask for. I consider myself highly blessed that she was there for each one of us growing up, and gave of herself until she was exhausted. She was always there when we came home from school, and we were blessed to eat the fruit of her labors as she gardened, canned, and baked wholesome wonderful food for us. I consider myself truly blessed to have such a godly wonderful mother.

I just recently finished reading a book called "Not Just A Mom" written by Lisa Anderson. In this book, Lisa seeks to encourage women to not be ashamed to be called a mother, but that it is really our highest calling and original God-given design. A great book to read that encourages women everywhere to realize that being a mother is not something to be ashamed of, but something that God places great value upon.

It was a refreshing read to be encouraged that being a mom to my children, and wife to my husband is a calling that God has designed me for, and I am thankful that I have been blessed to stay at home with my children, and work in a family business with my husband.

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Mom's suffer a lot

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My mother was always there for us. She did work outside the home, but without ever discussing it, we always knew we were her first priority. The jobs she had were always taken around our school schedule. She was always there for every concert, parent teacher conference, or anything else she was needed for. She faithfully drove us all over. She was a small branch bank manager and her hours were from 9-3, same as school. She always cooked, cleaned and did whatever needed doing. She is a great Mom. :thumbsup

I was at home for my kids and I wouldn't have had it any other way.

I think that motherhood should definitely be further up on the scale in people's priority lists.

Yes, for sure.

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I'm not sure I know what you mean, but I am assuming you mean that mom's tend to carry a big responsibility in the care of a home, and are willing to make sacrifices in order to see that their family is taken care of?

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That is so awesome. You are blessed indeed!

I'm thankful I have been able to be there for my kids and husband too. I have worked outside the time for a short time, and found it very difficult to juggle all the responsibilities of home and work. My hat is off to those women who have no choice but to do so. It's so tough. Being home and taking care of my family is where I'm happiest.

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Mom is one of the few words spelled backwards that still spells the same word....:icecream

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WOW, thanks for that! I always thought I was spelling it wrong. :gaga

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:happydance

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My mom personally feels that motherhood is not the highest calling for a woman. She wishes she had been a man. She is a staunch believer in abortion, having had one herself. She will tear you a new one if you ever challenge her on it. She has abused alcohol, drugs, cursed and swore, very arrogant, heady, high-minded, interrupts conversations, I could go on. She despises church going people. Yet, despite all this, I consider her my best friend because I can talk to her about anything. And, when my dad died when I was 12 and it was just her and me, she didn't abandon me. She never spanked me, and kept my father from spanking me as well. We always talked through everything. She's a character, read every book in the library, deaf as a board, loved by many. I'm fairly certain, though, that she wishes she could have had a fulfilling career, instead of being "pushed" by her parents into motherhood, and not encouraged to get an education.