A Question About Attraction
 

I have a question and would like input from men and women on this.
Please keep it clean and somewhat on track.
I know pretty much what the Men's answer will be, but answer any way.

Here it is.

When being attracted to the opposite sex for dating/marriage how much did the way that they look influence your decision on whether or not you would find them attractive or not for possible dating or marriage?

:hypercoffee

Hmmmm

It does seem like I can barely remember this... uhhhh... what was the question again.


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I am sorry... I really cannot answer this. :killinme:killinme

:killinme

I think attraction runs deeper than just physical appearance. A guy could be a good looking hunk, but if there's not any chemistry between us it's not worth going any further.

Yeah what she said.

In all seriousness, I was attracted to physical beauty, but I very seriously considered whether she would be a good Christian wife and mother as well.

So looks mean nothing at all to you then?:hypercoffee

Really, I married my wife because she was beautiful, talented, with a fantastic personality.....




























and she thought I hung the moon.


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And she was right?:hypercoffee

I didn't say that - - it's not the most important thing for sure. A smile, twinkle in their eyes when they look at me, an awesome personality, having fun, not uptight about small stuff, respect me for me, let me know I make them feel better about who they are, care about how they look (dress, carry themselves, cool hair) and none of the above matters if he loves me - - lol!