At our retreat this weekend past...Brother Seagraves said the way we win souls is to answer a hurting persons needs and hurts...by showing them love. If they see love in us they see the love of Jesus, that may lead them to church we if can help them see their hunger...thumping a bible and being hard minded and not showing our heart will not draw anyone towards God...that does not mean you have to share their sin, but see the hurts that are keeping them in the pain and sin of living lost...