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Re: Husband leaving the church. Very sad n stresse
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Originally Posted by StillStanding
I think asking (demanding) that the husband be the spiritual leader of the family can appear condescending! You're basically scolding him for not being a leader in the past. If he is sensitive to this, it could damage the situation even further.
Instead, ask him what HE wants out of church! Be willing to sacrifice a few things that you like for the good of your family's christian walk. That's called "compromise". Don't ASK him to be the leader, just ALLOW him to be the leader!  |
 you said it must better than how I was saying it. But this is what I meant!
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