Check out this thread
http://www.apostolicfriendsforum.com...light=Standard
This is an excellent posting you should read to help you understand why we have Standards and where they are in the Bible.
There's enough scripture on those other threads to answer your questions on Standards,
I do have one Question for you.
Have you been baptized in Jesus name?
and have you ever received the Holy ghost with the evidence of speaking in other tongues?
If you have not been baptized and we both make it to heaven, I promise i wont condemn you, the same way I don't condemn you now.
God Bless and and I hope you have blessed night.