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Originally Posted by JoeBandy
His initial plan was to stay at his grandparents ( my in-laws), however, when the grandmother found out the girlfriend was with him she turned them away.
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Originally Posted by JoeBandy
Also, she told him 2 days before that they were welcome to stay so they drove 3 hours and then got turned away.
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From your initial post, it reads as though his grandmother was led to believe the girlfriend would not be with him.
It's completely possible that she invited him to stay, then he shows up with the girlfriend and his grandmother says, "no deal." If he didn't tell his grandmother that his girlfriend would be with him, it's his fault. I would imagine he knows his grandmother's beliefs on the issue.
I question if he misled her intentionally, knowing she was against it, but hoping that she would allow it since they showed up on her doorstep.
Regardless, I wouldn't judge the grandmother. She comes from an age where unmarried couples in the same home (even if in different rooms) was socially a taboo. If that's her belief, God bless her.