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Old 11-02-2007, 10:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Praxeas View Post
He's Saudi author and cleric, "Dr." Muhammad Al-'Arifi, who in a remarkable segment broadcast on Saudi and Kuwaiti television in September, counseled young Muslim men on how to treat their wives.


"Admonish them – once, twice, three times, four times, ten times," he advised. "If this doesn't help, refuse to share their beds."
Wow. Scary. ROFL!!!!


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And if that doesn't work?


"Beat them," one of his three young advisees responded.
"That's right," Al-'Arifi said.

He goes on to calmly explain to the young men that hitting their future wives in the face is a no-no.


"Beating in the face is forbidden, even when it comes to animals," he explained. "Even if you want your camel or donkey to start walking, you are not allowed to beat it in the face. If this is true for animals, it is all the more true when it comes to humans. So beatings should be light and not in the face."

"If he beats her, the beatings must be light and must not make her face ugly.
Wife, camel, donkey, all the same thing.


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He should not beat her like he would beat an animal or a child -- slapping them right and left.
My Daddy used to tell me that I could judge a man's character by the way he treated children, animals and the elderly.
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