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Originally Posted by missdkendall
This is what she told me. She was born and raised Apostolic. When she was in school she started hanging around the wrong people, and I guess she became a backslider. She just got refilled with the Holy ghost in a revival at our church. When she was out in the world, she made some bad choices, and now has a child. She is a great girl, just lost her way I guess you could say..
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What prompted the questions is, we had a young lady in our church
In the choir, singing specials, very much "In church", slept with a young man from a neighboring church.
Lied her way out of it ... still "in church", singing in choir, on the platform, etc
couple of years later was actually caught in the act of the same thing
3rd time around she was pregnant ...... NO DON"T marry her
** Hypothetical
Girl goes off to college, quits going to church, lives a sinful life, gets pregnant
Comes back home, gets right with God and proves herself, YES I could see marrying her
***Another angle
No matter which way it was ...... there will always be in the back of the husbands mind .... will she go out and do this again