Our church is neither 1, 2, nor 3.

It's a house church, and there are no "altar calls" in the traditional sense, neither is any one particular member "directing" everything (thus, the personality of one member never dominates the congregation.)

There has been weeping, crying, shouting, laughing, deep studies and teaching, admonitions, warnings, rejoicing, you name it.

Since the church is not "run" by one particular person, the church does not take on the personality of any one particular person, but reflects everybody present, since the people who gather ARE the church, period.