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Originally Posted by Jeffrey
If anything, we need to encourage liberty to couples in marriages. That's what I find. Dark views about sexuality. Repressed fantasies. Let it loose! Have fun! God gave you a partner for these sweet, illicit day dreams.
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That's retarded to think that "role playing" is the only way to illicit day dreams from my husband. 'Cause I know that isn't true.
Well, you think you know everything. Figure it out. LOL!
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If this lust is directed toward my spouse?
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If I lust after him simply because of sexual pleasure? Nothing wrong with that. To lust after him to fulfill lustful fantasies and other memories? Not a good thing. That is the door I was speaking of.
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Romans 14 applies here. If you are condemned by your conscience, then don't do it. Easy as that. Most of the time, though, this "condemnation" is from the way this subject was taught and ingrained in a person for years and years.
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I agree with
Romans 14. I don't agree with your last statement - "most of the time" - as that is a "broadbrush" statement and cannot apply in every case.