[RandyWayne]

Good post Chris. As I have followed this thread the question occurred to me, so would some tell an engaged couple that ANY thoughts of what the wedding night will be like before it arrives is "lust" and therefor "adultery"? Have there ever been an engaged couple (other then the marriage of young children in some countries) who have not had some pretty intense imaginations before hand? I do not believe it is possible and even if it was, I do not believe it is even necessary but rather to be savored and even enjoyed.