It really is a bad place to be in. Sincerly! I was a minister in the UPC from 91' to 2007.
Have a lot of family that is still UPC or strong Independant church.
It is a decesion that you and yours only can make. There will be some who will say
that the reason you feel the way you do is cause you need to line-up!!
I feel in your situation that is not true. If you are waiting on someone to REALLY
explain standards to you. It won't happen. They can't.
Some will even say that you are going to bring your husband down cause you
won't to chop your hair off, wear those horrible pants, put on a little blush.... you
get the pictire. But we all know what you mean.
Just don't let anyone make the decesion for you! You follow your heart.
Also don't let this come in between you and your husband. Trust me. You guys
will work it out.
I don't have a problem with someone wanting to stay the way they are. I respect
that. But it drives me nuts when people are so close-minded. You know. There
way, or the highway!!!
However.......................I wouldn't take nothing for the Journey we have taken.
