[Hoovie]

Originally Posted by Hoovie

I have no problem with some sensuality if it's without showing naked bodies. I am more concerned with message. Is it within the confines of marriage?

The real problem is not knowing exactly what's coming in a scene. The ratings often don't tell you the whole story.

PS My kids are eleven and under - different story altogether with them.

Originally Posted by Socialite

Hoovie, what is the message is portraying a "bad character" who is having sexual relations outside of marriage (something quite common in the general context of our world)? Should the messages of your movie all line up to the Gospel or is there a larger message important to you?
hard to answer this. I understand there will be some crimes etc., I don't think nudity is a good thing to tolerate
What about review sites like pluggedin.com? I have used them some - taking the time to research is a good plan.

How we deal with this issue? When staggering percentages of Christian households struggle with pornography, are we too soft with this? In general yes. we are too soft on this.

Then there's nudity like that in Schindler's List. Is that different?

Yes, it's different. There is no easy answer. When watching a movie (or after) that conflicts with our world view, or stretches the limits of out principles, I think it's important to voice our thoughts and objections to each other, to solidify our stand and family position.