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Originally Posted by scotty
1. It is very much possible as long as the two can handle it. I have several friends of mixed gender who are single and have maintained healthy friendships for years now. (Matter a fact your self-decription made me do a double take as I have a female friend in our church who fits your social description perfectly, lol )
2. Its not crazy , but would generally be unproductive for either of you.
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This is what I am thinking. I know that something could probably develop but I don't really want it to interfere with my plans. Of course I would never be dishonest about it. But on a completely selfish note, I have been alone a long time, and I sometimes wonder if I would even know how to be in a relationship at this point. I have become very selfish of my time, and very,
very independent in my planning, and I wonder sometimes if it might not be to my benefit to at least try to be in a relationship... like I said, completely selfish reasons.