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Old 11-11-2007, 10:59 AM
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Stop and Think

STOP AND THINK


Words to live by. Years ago, while serving as an evangelist., I was invited to speak at an Apostolic church in what I will call an "unnamed city". I was young and unlearned (as opposed to being old and unlearned, as I am now) and was ready to fill the shoes of some of the great evangelists of days gone by (so, so I thought). I "felt led" one night to preach on holiness . Actually, I had something to prove. I was a "new evangelist" at this church and, as all "new evangelists" know, somewhere in the meeting you've got to prove to everybody (especially the pastor), that you are a bonifide "100% One God, Apostolic, Jesus Name, Tongue Talkin' Holiness or Hell Preacher of the Full Gospel of Jesus Christ". So, that was my night. I was gonna preach on Holiness. So, and as we all do (come on, admit it), during the song service I looked around in my judgmental, self-righteous place of "authority", to survey the crowd to pick up some good points for my sermon. There was a man... his hair was a little too long. There was a woman with exposed elbows.

But there... right there near in the ails in the middle of the building was what I zeroed in on. A woman with hair shorter than mine! So... I did what any good holiness preacher would do, I focused on this "harlot" and spent the biggest part of my sermon declaring how sinful this or any woman was for cutting their hair off to look like a man. (Oh, I didn't single her out, but she knew.. and everyone else knew, I was preaching to her).

It was unusually quiet that night for an Apostolic Church, but, hey, I must be steppin' on some toes, and bless God, if they don't like it... so I just lambasted this woman even harder. Until she got up and walked out crying. Boy, howdy, did I feel good about myself. Got the devil mad enough to make this woman walk out. Man, was I a preacher!

After the service, I found out why it was so quiet. That woman was a member of that church. She was saved as a little girl there... had been baptized in Jesus Name and was filled with the Holy Ghost. She had never, ever cut her hair.

She had cancer. Lost all her hair in radiation Treatments. Her cancer was in remission and her hair was just growing back. I didn't know that. Because I didn't stop to think. And I cried.

Whats the point?
Yesterday, my wife cut her hair. For the first time since she came to the Lord. She doesn't (nor do I) condemn those who cut their hair. It has been her choice to maintain the Pentecostal tradition (and thats all it is) of not cutting her hair. But yesterday, she cut her hair. Because she has cancer and her hair is coming out. She cried. And so did I.

Whats my point...
Nothing. Except to say, STOP AND THINK.
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Old 11-11-2007, 11:02 AM
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Wow.........I'm sitting here with goosebumps........what an excellent post, OneAccord.......please know that I am praying for your wife and your family.
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Old 11-11-2007, 11:14 AM
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Thank you, brother.

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Wow.........I'm sitting here with goosebumps........what an excellent post, OneAccord.......please know that I am praying for your wife and your family.
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Old 11-11-2007, 11:18 AM
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Oh, that we could all have the wisdom to stop and think!

Thanks OneAccord for the reminder and God bless you and your wife!
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Old 11-11-2007, 11:26 AM
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STOP AND THINK


After the service, I found out why it was so quiet. That woman was a member of that church. She was saved as a little girl there... had been baptized in Jesus Name and was filled with the Holy Ghost. She had never, ever cut her hair.

She had cancer. Lost all her hair in radiation Treatments. Her cancer was in remission and her hair was just growing back. I didn't know that. Because I didn't stop to think. And I cried.

Whats the point?
Yesterday, my wife cut her hair. For the first time since she came to the Lord. She doesn't (nor do I) condemn those who cut their hair. It has been her choice to maintain the Pentecostal tradition (and thats all it is) of not cutting her hair. But yesterday, she cut her hair. Because she has cancer and her hair is coming out. She cried. And so did I.

Whats my point...
Nothing. Except to say, STOP AND THINK.
man i dont know what to say. we are so quick to judge and expect everyone to be just like us, and sometimes forget that there may be reasons or circumstances for what is going on in someones life.

i know this was not an easy story to tell, but than you so much for the sobering thoughts.

you and your wife are in my prayers. God bless.
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Old 11-11-2007, 11:50 AM
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OneAccord, I would nominate this post for "POST OF THE YEAR" if we gave that award out here on AFF. Great post, brother. Thanks for baring your soul. Maybe some of us will stop and think before we judge someone next time. I'm sure that I will.

God bless you and your precious wife. I'm praying for her.
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Old 11-11-2007, 01:11 PM
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Thank you 1Accord for your transparency ... and once again reminding us of what is important and what is simply ritual.
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Correct me if I am wrong, but 1Accord's awesome, inspiring post had more to do with showing people the same mercy and grace representative of the Lord Jesus than to proclaim the errancy of the traditions of the church....Daniel.

Great post, great story. I have been in those types of services before and I would venture a guess that things have changed a bit as not to encourage those types of sermons? ...but feel free to correct me if I am wrong.
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Old 11-11-2007, 02:36 PM
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Its a true story... One of thsoe glaring mistakes I have to live with.

But no, sadly, quick judgements, off the cuff remarks...they're still around. And hurt. Sorry...just having to deal with alot today.

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Correct me if I am wrong, but 1Accord's awesome, inspiring post had more to do with showing people the same mercy and grace representative of the Lord Jesus than to proclaim the errancy of the traditions of the church....Daniel.

Great post, great story. I have been in those types of services before and I would venture a guess that things have changed a bit as not to encourage those types of sermons? ...but feel free to correct me if I am wrong.
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Old 11-12-2007, 09:50 AM
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Sorry for resurrecting a thread that probably needs to bite the dust. But, I've got to say this to someone... if to no one else, then to myself. I just spent the last few minutes picking the remainder of my wifes hair out of the shower drain. I cried the whole time, and still am. But a voice... No, a Voice said this:
Psa 126:5 They that sow in tears shall reap in joy.

When we weep while doing a task... we will rejoice when we reap the benefits. I hold to the promise that one day through all of this, we will rejoice. Thats God's Word for me today.
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