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Old 08-20-2008, 07:56 AM
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Come Out and Be Separate

Something I read this morning that I thought might be of interest to the forum.

“We all know that as Christians we are called to ‘come out and be separate,’ that our faith and spiritual commitment should make us different somehow. But if we are not marked by greater and greater amounts of love and joy, we will inevitably look for substitute ways of distinguishing ourselves from those who are not Christians. This deep pattern is almost inescapable for religious people. If we do not become changed from the inside out – if we don’t morph – we will be tempted to find external methods to satisfy our need to feel that we’re different from those outside the faith.

Groups have a tendency to be exclusive. Insiders want to separate themselves from outsiders. So they adopt boundary markers. These are highly visible relatively superficial practices – matters of vocabulary or dress or style – whose purpose is to distinguish between those inside a group and those who are outside.”

The Life You Have Always Wanted – John Ortberg
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Old 08-20-2008, 07:59 AM
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Re: Come Out and Be Separate

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Something I read this morning that I thought might be of interest to the forum.

“We all know that as Christians we are called to ‘come out and be separate,’ that our faith and spiritual commitment should make us different somehow. But if we are not marked by greater and greater amounts of love and joy, we will inevitably look for substitute ways of distinguishing ourselves from those who are not Christians. This deep pattern is almost inescapable for religious people. If we do not become changed from the inside out – if we don’t morph – we will be tempted to find external methods to satisfy our need to feel that we’re different from those outside the faith.

Groups have a tendency to be exclusive. Insiders want to separate themselves from outsiders. So they adopt boundary markers. These are highly visible relatively superficial practices – matters of vocabulary or dress or style – whose purpose is to distinguish between those inside a group and those who are outside.”

The Life You Have Always Wanted – John Ortberg
Excellent thought. Thanks for posting this.
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good post. agreed. I wonder what exaclty the apostles did to "come out and be separate".
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good post. agreed. I wonder what exaclty the apostles did to "come out and be separate".
They separated themselves from sin in all its many venues and the attitudes of the world.

Personally I quit going to bars and dance clubs and a few other things I'd rather not name.
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Old 08-20-2008, 08:13 AM
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They separated themselves from sin in all its many venues and the attitudes of the world.

Personally I quit going to bars and dance clubs and a few other things I'd rather not name.
Extremist!
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Something I read this morning that I thought might be of interest to the forum.

“We all know that as Christians we are called to ‘come out and be separate,’ that our faith and spiritual commitment should make us different somehow. But if we are not marked by greater and greater amounts of love and joy, we will inevitably look for substitute ways of distinguishing ourselves from those who are not Christians. This deep pattern is almost inescapable for religious people. If we do not become changed from the inside out – if we don’t morph – we will be tempted to find external methods to satisfy our need to feel that we’re different from those outside the faith.

Groups have a tendency to be exclusive. Insiders want to separate themselves from outsiders. So they adopt boundary markers. These are highly visible relatively superficial practices – matters of vocabulary or dress or style – whose purpose is to distinguish between those inside a group and those who are outside.”

The Life You Have Always Wanted – John Ortberg
Baron Von Frankenstein,

A historical example of this that we could all learn from would be cloistured nuns in the Roman Catholic church.

While they were supposed to be the epitime of Christianity anybody who attended a Catholic school run by nuns will tell you most of them were very stern and dictorial. Their seperation from the world was more the black habit they wore than the fruit of the Spirit.
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Re: Come Out and Be Separate

It seems to me that the separation from the world has more to do with our worldview, our lifestyle, and our attitudes than it does mere outward appearance issues.

(Btw, Miz, I meant to say the other night that I realize the Sanhedrin didn't physically write new Law. I meant that they created new law thru their interpretations, much like our Supreme Court does. So they added to it. Meant to write that the other night but forgot. My bad.)
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It seems to me that the separation from the world has more to do with our worldview, our lifestyle, and our attitudes than it does mere outward appearance issues.

(Btw, Miz, I meant to say the other night that I realize the Sanhedrin didn't physically write new Law. I meant that they created new law thru their interpretations, much like our Supreme Court does. So they added to it. Meant to write that the other night but forgot. My bad.)
I was beginning to wonder what they were teaching you in seminary!
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It seems to me that the separation from the world has more to do with our worldview, our lifestyle, and our attitudes than it does mere outward appearance issues.

(Btw, Miz, I meant to say the other night that I realize the Sanhedrin didn't physically write new Law. I meant that they created new law thru their interpretations, much like our Supreme Court does. So they added to it. Meant to write that the other night but forgot. My bad.)
Barons post is an exelent thought. it always must begin with the inner man. Not so sure it is just love and joy that are the keys.

PoMo's comments here also are right on...to a point.


I just wonder how one can have a powerful and meaningfull inner change that doest eventually manifest itself visibly? (and please remove any thoughts of traditional OP outward standards)...

The change that Christ brings is complete.
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Re: Come Out and Be Separate

It all comes down to, when the inside is right, it shows on the outside.

Our attitudes and behaviors is what makes us different from the world. And it shows.
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