Not to change the topic... but my roomies used to call me Huge Heffner.
I always get called Brad Pitt myself.
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When a newspaper posed the question, "What's Wrong with the World?" G. K. Chesterton reputedly wrote a brief letter in response: "Dear Sirs: I am. Sincerely Yours, G. K. Chesterton." That is the attitude of someone who has grasped the message of Jesus.
I much prefer Nicolas Cage.
Its said men don't like to be alone especially if they are older.I come from a culture that still honours a year and a day mourning.I can't fathom loving someone so much and then in a month or two finding a quickie replacement but I have known of some women who found wives for their husbands when they were dying or vice versa.You want the person to be happy not to die depressed just because you have entered into the beautiful presense of God.I think it would be selfish to want someone to hurt as much as possible.