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Originally Posted by Rico
Ya know, I am so sick of this "men are dogs, women are helpless victims" garbage. Women have more in their favor in divorce court than men will ever have.
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Now Rico... that isn't always the case. I know of three moms w/divorces in the last several years that lost their children during the divorce. In all the cases, they were boys who went to live w/fathers. Two of them I feel was unfair...they were good moms... the other one I feel God moved for that father just as much as God moved for me in court.
I suppose that all women have some spite in them to begin with because of the hurt, but most forgive and forget much faster than men. jmo I feel that healing comes with forgiveness.
I have done everything possible to respect and honor my ex husband when he didn't deserve it. I have taught my girls to forgive and even honor their father... not because he has earned it.. but because we are commanded to honor our parents... the position ... he was at one time a good dad and gave them life just as much as I did. I refuse to allow the girls to be men bashers.. I point to their grandfather, uncle, pastors... I never have a lack of Godly examples to show them.
I've struggled with little financial support from their dad, but when I had it, I have reached out in Christian love and helped him when in need. God has blessed me for it and I don't regret one thing I've ever done for my children's father. I will always care for him and his soul.